Momwe mungakope chidwi cha mnyamata wotengeka mtima? Ngati mukuzunzidwa ndi funsoli, ndiye kuti muyese kumvetsetsa zokonda zake ndi zofuna zake. Ngati inu nokha mwana wamwamuna, ndiye kuti mudzakhala ophweka kwambiri, chifukwa zokhudzana ndi dziko lanu ndi maganizo anu zimagwirizana ndi maganizo a okondedwa anu. Mukhoza kulankhula za nyimbo zomwe zimalowa mkati mwa mtima wanu ndikukumvetsani maganizo omwe anthu wamba amabisala, onani mafilimu omwe anthu omwe mumakonda. Mwachidziwikire, mutha kuyang'aniridwa ndi maganizo amodzi ndi kumverera kwanu, kumvetsa kwanu sikungakhalepo ngakhale m'mawu.
Koma choti muchite ngati ndinu mtsikana wamba yemwe adakondana. Momwe mungakope chidwi cha mnyamata wotengeka mtima? Si chinsinsi chakuti anthu ambiri, mwazifukwa zina, ali ndi vuto la emo. Mwinamwake, chowonadi ndi chakuti anthu awa amadziwa kwenikweni kuti achoke ku gulu, ndi kukhala odziimira pazitsulo ndi tsankho. Ndicho chifukwa chake, kutulutsa molakwika kumatchula "anthu wamba". Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa khamu la anthu limawadzudzula chifukwa cha umunthu wawo, koma osaganiza chilichonse kuchokera kwa iwo okha.
Pofuna kukopa chidwi cha mnyamata wina, kumupangitsa kuyamba kuyankhulana nanu, zitsimikizirani kuti simukupita patsogolo pa gululi. Choncho, yesetsani kuteteza emo chikhalidwe, afotokozereni ena zomwe anthu oterewa ali. Ngati muli ndi anzanu apamtima, onetsetsani kuti mumapita nawo kumtundu wina. Muyenera kuyendera anthu oterowo, kumvetsetsa ndi kumverera zomwe akukhala komanso momwe amamvera dziko lapansi.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kuti muyankhulane mukufunikira zofunikanso. Mvetserani ku nyimbo zomwe emo amakonda. Mu kuyimba kwa mafilimu, pali magulu abwino omwe mumakonda. Ena mwa iwo mungatchule dzina lakuti Jozhik, Origami, Jane Air, Psyche, Marrakech, My romance romance, Gwiritsiridwa ntchito, Neversmile, Animiya,
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Mutamvetsetsa nyimboyi, mutakhala ndi malingaliro onse omwe muli nawo, mumatha kumvetsa bwino anyamata. Tsopano kuti mudziwe chomwe anthuwa ali nacho chidwi, yambani kuyankhulana nawo. Kumbukirani kuti emo ndi anthu oona mtima komanso oona mtima. Ngati muli abwino kwa iwo ndikumvetsetsa miyoyo yawo, nthawi zonse adzakutengani kumalo awo, ngakhale mutakhala wamba. Kuonjezerapo, ngati mumakonda anthu oterewa ndikugaŵana zofuna zawo, ndizotheka kuti mumakhalanso ndi emo, simungathe ngakhale kulingalira za izo. Koma ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti kuli kofunika kuti mumve zoona komanso kuti musakhale ngati wina aliyense, musachite mantha ndikudzipatula nokha. Khalani emo. Komanso, mnyamata amene mumamukonda, adzakondwera ndi mphamvu yanu. Anthu amasiku ano amangolankhula za demokalase, komabe nthawi zonse amatsutsa anthu otsutsana ndi dongosololi. Ngati muli ndi maganizo, muyenera kulimbana ndi maganizo a anthu. Choncho, khalani okonzekera kuti anthu osamalidwa komanso osakhudzidwa mtima akhoza kukutsutsani. Komanso, amzanga ambiri amakana kukambirana nanu. Zimatanthawuza chinthu chimodzi chokha - sizinthu zenizeni ndipo sichikumvetsani inu momwe anzanu akumvera amamvera.
Kumbukirani nthawi zonse ponena za chikondi kuti sikumveka koyera komanso koyera monga momwe akale amalingalira posachedwa. Mu chikondi nthawi zonse zimakhala zopweteka, mwinamwake, ndi zopanda pake. Choncho, ngati mwamuna amene mumamukonda samakuganizirani, mumvetse kuti akukupatsani kuti mumve bwino. Pambuyo pake, ngati adazindikira mwamsanga, simungathe kumukonda kwenikweni.
Komabe, posakhalitsa, akazindikira kuti ndinu enieni enieni, chifukwa cha kumvetsetsa, maganizo ofanana a dziko lapansi ndi zofunikanso, mudzayamba kukumana.
Inde, maubwenzi sangakhale abwino. Choncho, ngati mukumva kuti pali chinachake cholakwika, fotokozani maganizo anu molimba mtima. Mtundu weni weni wa mafilimu sumadikirira mwayi ndipo samayesa kubwezeretsa chinachake mawa. Zomwe zilipo ndizo zambiri za iwo omwe amaopa maganizo awo komanso sakudziwa momwe angafotokozere. Koma inu simuli choncho. Choncho, nenani chilichonse chomwe mukuganiza, kufuula pa iye, kufotokoza zonse zomwe zophika. Ngati mumakangana ndipo mumvetsetsa kuti mumamva kuti muli oipa kwambiri, musataye. Kuvutika maganizo kumakhala kovuta kwa munthu aliyense. Simungathe kudzikakamiza kuti muzisangalala pamene kuli bwino kufa. Musayambe zifukwa zoti mutuluke ndikukambirana ndi anzanu. Mabwenzi enieni amvetsetsa ndikuthandizira kusankha kwanu. Kuwonjezera apo, chibwenzi chako chidzachitenga ngati chisamaliro komanso chinyengo chako, ngati mupitiriza kusangalala ndi moyo, pamene moyo uli woipa.
Kuwona mtima ndikomene kumasiyanitsa maganizo ndi anthu ena. Mnyamata wanu ayenera kudziwa kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala omvera mumtima mwanu chifukwa cha iye ndi ena. Apo ayi, amvetsetsa kuti simukugwira ntchito, ndipo mudzagawana. Ndipo chikhoza kukhala choipa kuposa kupatukana? Choncho, yesetsani kuti mukhale weniweni, msungwana amene amadziwa kuti dzikoli silibwino, kuti pali nkhanza zambiri komanso kusamvetsetsana, choncho musamanama nokha ndi ena kuti chirichonse chikhala bwino. Inde, ngati muli okondwa kwambiri, muyenera kufotokoza, koma palibe chimwemwe chokhalitsa. Choncho musadzikakamize. Yesetsani kulira - kulira. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya muli kunyumba kapena pakati pa msewu wotanganidwa kwambiri. Anthu akuda samvetsetsa zomwe zikukuchitikirani komanso momwe ziliri zovuta, koma emo, kuphatikizapo chibwenzi chanu, adzakondwera ndi mphamvu zanu ndikukhumba kuti mukhale nokha.
Emo anyamata ndi osakhwima komanso omveka. Musaiwale zimenezo. Inde, mumadziwa kuti mulimonsemo simungatsutse mnyamata wanu ndi misonzi. Mfundo yakuti anyamata samalira, amangoti zazomirovannye bescharternnye woyera. Nthaŵi zonse mumuthandize mukumverera kulikonse ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala pafupi, ndipo mudzamva chikondi chenicheni.