Nchifukwa chiyani munthu adzinena za iyemwini mwa munthu wachitatu?
Chilengedwe chingakwiyitse kwambiri njira iyi yolankhulirana. Zivomereze, zikuwoneka zosadabwitsa pamene munthu wamba akudzidzimutsa kuti: "Andreya watopa kale kugwira ntchito" mmalo mwake "Ndatopa kale ndikugwira ntchito."
Musanayang'ane mosamala, yang'anani mu psychology ya khalidwe ili.
Zosangalatsa! Asayansi amapanga mayeso apadera a maganizo, omwe amayesera kunena za iwo okha ndi zizolowezi zawo kuchokera kwa munthu woyamba, wachiwiri ndi wachitatu, onse awiri komanso amodzi. Oyesera ophunzirawo adadabwa kuona kuti adamva zosiyana kwambiri.
Ngati munthu adzinena za iyemwini mwa munthu wachitatu, pogwiritsa ntchito liwu lakuti "He / She" mmalo mwa "I" kapena kudzitcha yekha dzina, mwachiwonekere amatchula zamaseŵera ku moyo wake ndi zizolowezi zake. Akatswiri a zamaganizo anatha kutsimikizira kuti ndikulankhulana mu mawonekedwe ameneŵa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti awonetsere zolinga ndi zofuna za munthu moyenera momwe zingathere.
Kuchokera mmalingaliro amalingaliro, njira iyi yolankhulira imatanthawuza kuti munthu amadziyang'ana yekha ndi zinthu kuchokera kunja. Motero, kupanikizika pamtima kwa wolemba nkhaniyo kuchepetsedwa, ngakhale kuti amakhalabe woganizira komanso atcheru. Anthu oterewa angathe kuthetsa mosavuta vuto lililonse.
Maganizo ena
Lingaliro lofala kwambiri la ena limanena kuti anthu omwe amalankhula za iwo okha mwa munthu wachitatu, amadzikayikira kwambiri ndipo samayika zina chilichonse. Zoona, izi zongopeka siziri ndi gawo la choonadi.
Ngati zimakhudza wogwira ntchito kapena munthu amene ali pa udindo wapamwamba, angathe kusangalala ndi maganizo ake komanso udindo wake. Ena amazinena za iwo eni muchuluka, pogwiritsa ntchito liwu lakuti "Ife". Ndi otsiriza omwe amadziona kuti ali ndi mphamvu kwambiri moti saganiziranso malingaliro kapena zofuna za ena.
Koma anthu wamba sangafune kuti azidzikweza okha pamwamba pa ena, kuyankhula za moyo wawo ndi ntchito zawo kuchokera kwa munthu wina. Kawirikawiri njira zoterezi zimagwiritsiridwa ntchito kusonyeza kusagwirizana kwa malingaliro payekha.
N'kutheka kuti munthu amanyazi kuuza ena nthawi zina, ndipo kusintha kwa nkhaniyi kumamuthandiza kufotokozera mowonjezera momasuka ndi kuseketsa, pamene sakuona kuti ali ndi udindo pa zomwe zinachitika.
Akatswiri ena a maganizo amaganiza kuti chizoloŵezi chimenechi ndi choipa. Zingasonyeze kuti munthu alibe kudzidalira kwambiri, ndipo pakakhala zovuta kwambiri, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri. Nthawi zina chizoloŵezi choyankhula za iwe mwini wachitatu chimatsimikizira ku gawo loyambirira la schizophrenia.
Ngati muli ndi chizoloŵezi choyankhula za inu nokha kuchokera kwa munthu wina, musawakwiyire. Pambuyo pake, anthu onse ali ndi zofooka, koma izi sizingakhale zoopsa kwambiri kuti zikhale zosautsika.