Ndipotu, zochitika za tchuthi losaiŵalika kwa mwana si ntchito yovuta. Tiyenera kuganizira mozama pazamasamba, lembani mndandanda wa alendo ... Momwe mungakonzekere tchuthi la ana a nyumba kuti anawo asangalatse osati pokhapokha, komanso pamapeto pake?
Lamulo 1. Konzani maholide nthawi zambiri
Inde, ngati mutayesa, ndiye kuti mutha kupeza zolinga zambiri za gulu la ana. Koma ngati pali zochitika zambiri zosangalatsa, zimangokhala zopanda phindu kwa mwana wanu. Kuti mukhalebe osasamala, pali zifukwa zazikulu zitatu: tsiku lobadwa, Chaka chatsopano ndi phwando lomaliza maphunziro kumapeto kwa chaka chilichonse. Mukhoza kuwonjezera pa mwambo wina wokolola kumapeto kwa August, ngati muli ndi mwana m'dzikoli.
Lamulo 2. Pamene mukukonzekera tchuthi, yotsogoleredwe ndi zaka za alendo anu achinyamata
Makolo ena amasonkhanitsa alendo achinyamata ngakhale pa tsiku loyamba la kubadwa kwa mwana wawo ndipo akuvutika kuti azisangalatsa anyamata osayenerera. Komabe, anawo amatopa mwamsanga ndi chisokonezo, ndipo holideyo imatembenukira kwa iwo potsutsana ndi boma. Ndipo zomwe zimawatsogolerazi, makolo amadziwa bwino kuposa ena: ana amawongolera kwambiri ndipo kenako amagona kwambiri. Ngati mumaganizira mwanzeru, ndiye kuti wachinyamata wosakwanitsa zaka zinayi ali ndi holide yokhala ndi masewera komanso alendo omwe sali ofunikira konse. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti asonkhanitse achibale ake pa tebulo, aziwalola mwakachetechete komanso mokondwera mwanayo, amupatse mphatso, ndipo amayi amutenge mwana wamwamuna wokumbukira kubadwa. Koma pamene mwana ali m'sukulu ndi bwenzi, mungaganize za kukonzekera banja lakumudzi kwa iwo.
Lamulo lachitatu . Musaitane ana ambiri ku holide
Choyamba, zidzakhala zovuta kuti azikonzekera, ndipo kachiwiri, iwo ayamba kusanduka magulu ndi makangano.
Pali lingaliro lomwe mukhoza kuitanira alendo ambiri kuti akachezere mwana wanu ali ndi zaka zambiri. Inde, lamulo ili likhoza kuphwanyidwa ngati mwanayo ali ndi anzanu ambiri. Pankhaniyi, ngati wina sanaitanidwe, idzatha ndi mkwiyo. Choyenera, ana aang'ono ayenera kubwera ndi makolo awo, chifukwa simudziwa momwe mwana angayankhire chochitika, kuti asadye, ndi zina zotero.
Lamulo 4. Ngati mukufuna kuti tchuthi likumbukiredi ana, musayese "kugula" kumbali
Mapulogalamu apadera ndi clowns m'mabhawa ndi magulu a ana angakhale ozolowereka kwa alendo anu, choncho osasangalatsa. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi ndalama zambiri, simungathe kuzimitsa ana a mvula popanda kuwapatsa chidutswa chanu. Izi zimachitika kuti zidole ndi chidole chokula zimasokoneza mayina a anthu obadwa, samakhala osamala kwambiri. Mwina, ndi nthawi imodzi yokha yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito tchuthi kuchokera kwa akatswiri, koma palibe chifukwa chochitira mwambo wa banja. Okalamba akukhala patebulo mwadala mwachisawawa ndi zosangalatsa za ana - ndiko komwe kumayambira mkangano wamakono wam'tsogolo umakhala m'banja lanu.
Lamulo 5. Onetsetsani kukongoletsa ndi kukonzekera nyumba ku chikondwererochi
Kudzala kwa ana kwapakhomo kwa mwana si tsiku lofunika yekha, komanso madzulo ake, pamene chisanadze kukonzekera maholide. Zimakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri kumangirira mipira yokha, kenako nkuyikweza, kukwera makwerero (izi zikhoza kuchitika ndi ana kuyambira zaka 9-10). Chisangalalo chapadera ndicho kupanga ndi kuitanitsa alendo, omwe sangakhale mapepala okhaokha, koma mipukutu yakale, maluwa a pepala, ndi zina zotero. Mwadzidzidzi mungathe kupanga zitsamba zokongola za mapepala a pepala, khoma la zithunzi kapena zithunzi, nyuzipepala ya khoma la Chaka Chatsopano.
Lamulo 6. Ngati mwakonzera mwana wanu chovala chodabwitsa, ganizirani momwe mungapangire ana ena kuti asamawoneke
Kukonzekera kusokoneza kwenikweni, monga lamulo, n'kovuta: muyenera kukambirana ndi makolo a ana onse oitanidwa, koma alibe nthawi kapena mphamvu pa izi. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kuti gulu la ana liwoneke chidwi, lizisamalirani pasadakhale: kugula (ndikudzipangitsanso bwino) masikiti okongola, zipewa ndi zovala za alendo, ndipo mwini nyumbayo, ngati ali mwana wa tsiku lobadwa, azivale chovala chokongola. Ana amatsutsana chifukwa cha masikiti, kumayambiriro kwa tchuthi n'zotheka kukonza mpikisano wopambana omwe aliyense angapambane chovala.
Chigamulo 7. Mchitidwe wachisangalalo usakhale tsiku ndi tsiku
Ndipotu, n'kofunikira kwa ana kuti chakudyacho, choyamba, chikhale chokongola, ndipo kachiwiri, kuti ndi zophweka komanso zosangalatsa kuzigwira. Pa nthawi ya tchuthi, tiyenera kudziwa zomwe zimachitika pa chakudya cha mwana wathunthu (saladi yoyamba, kenako kutentha ndi zokongoletsa). Kwa ana a msinkhu uliwonse, chakudya chokonzekera ngati tebulo la buffet ndi choyenera: zing'onozing'ono zamagulu pazakudya zambiri zomwe zimakhala zosavuta kutenga ndi kuziika mkamwa mwako popanda kudetsa manja anu. Chakudya chochuluka sichiphikidwa - komabe sichidya. Khalani pansi nthawi yayitali pa tebulo ndikukwera mmwamba, monga akuluakulu, ana sali oyenera. Ayikeni pa mbale zowonongeka ndi zitsulo zosasinthika. Chochitika chapadera chingakhale kukhazikitsidwa kwa keke ya kubadwa ndi makandulo kutulutsa. Ngati ndilo tchuthi basi, ndibwino kuti musamachite nawo mkate. Kutumikira pa mikate yaing'ono ya tiyi - izi zikwanira.
Chigamulo 8. Onetsetsani kuti mukuganiza mofulumira momwe mungasangalatse kampani ya ana
Sankhani masewera ndipo, ngati kuli koyenera, konzekerani masaka. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ana amakonda masewera onse omwe mumakonzekera. Ngati, pazifukwa zina, masewerawo sangawonjezerepo, musaumirire.
Chigamulo 9. Ngati muli ndi nthawi yokonzekera, sankhani zomwe mungachite pa holideyi
Pankhaniyi, chikondwerero chanu chonse chimasandulika ndikuwonetseratu mutu wina wosankhidwa. Ndizovuta makamaka kugwira zochitika zofanana kunja kwa mzinda, chifukwa ndi kumene ungatembenuzire. Mwachitsanzo, mungasankhe zosankha zomwe mumakonda kwambiri kwa ana - "Robinsonade" ndi "Island Island" - ndi kuphatikiza. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kubwera ndi zochitika zofanana: mwachitsanzo, oyamba odzala atavala zovala (okonzeka ndi inu), ndiye akubwera ndi maina a pirate, ndipo muyenera "kuwaponya pachilumba cha chipululu". Mungathe kumanga sitima kuchokera makatoni m'makalata ndikuwonetsa kugwa kwake. Pambuyo pake, perekani ana kuti "adye chakudya chawo" - kwa iwo ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kungokhala pansi patebulo. Mwachitsanzo, ana amatha kutumizidwa "ndi bowa" (m'mundawu nkofunika kuyika tiyiketi pansi pa mitengo ndi bowa, bowa ndi bowa zomwe zimapangidwa kuchokera ku tartlets ndi tchizi ndi tomato zikukula kuchokera ku katsabola ndi parsley). Nthomba ndi malalanje zimatha kupachikidwa kwinakwake (pamtengo wamtengo wapatali) ndi kusinthanitsa kukwera zipatso. Mukatha kudya, ndi nthawi yoti mupite kukafunafuna "chuma." Lolani botolo ndi "ndondomeko yachikasu" mkati mwa ana mu chifuwa cha agogo akale. Ndondomekoyi idzakhala yoyamba kuchokera ku mndandanda wakuti "Yang'anani mu boot": Zotsatira zake, mndandanda wa zolemba zoterozo ziyenera kutsogolera kampani ku malo a maliro a "chuma" (izi zingakhale mphatso yamtengo wapatali kapena chinachake chokoma). Palinso nkhani zina zokhudzana ndi zikondwerero zamatsenga: nkhani zamatsenga, tchuthi la maukwati, ndi zina zotero.
Chigamulo 10. Ngati mutabwera ndi chinachake chokondweretsa, koma simungathe kuchita nokha, gwiritsani ntchito makampani kuti mukonzekere maholide, omwe oimira awo avomereze kuti "agwire" malingana ndi momwe mukuchitira
N'zotheka kuti zochitika zapamwamba, zomwe mudzapereke ku khola, monga inu. Koma sikofunikira, kukonzekera maholide a ana a kunyumba, kusunthira chirichonse "kwa amalume a wina", mwinamwake chinthu chachikulu chidzachoka: kutentha kwapanyumba ndi kukongola kwamakono. Lolani kuti kampaniyo ikhale ndi chiwerengero chokhacho (kufika kwasayembekezereka kwa wamatsenga-adiresi, zozimitsa moto kunja kwawindo, etc.). Ngati tchuthi likudutsa pa dacha, mungathe kuitanitsa panthawi yopanga zokopa - trampolines, slides, labyrinths.
Lamulo 11. Musakonze masewera omwe mphoto imaperekedwa kwa wopambana: Mphatso ziyenera kulandiridwa ndi onse omwe ali pa tchuthi
Ngakhale ngati mulibe masewera aliwonse ndi mphoto, muyenera kupereka kwa alendo ang'onoang'ono kuti awathandize. Ndikofunika kuti mphatso sizisiyana phindu (zikhoza kugawanika kukhala "amuna" ndi "akazi"). Zikhoza kukhala zojambula zosiyanasiyana, zojambula, zojambula bwino, zojambula zazing'ono kapena zamaketani. Mukhoza kupeza njira yopitilira ngakhale mutagula mphatso makamaka. Tiyerekeze kuti nyumba yanu inali yokongoletsedwa ndi mipira, ndipo pamapeto a tchuthi iwo adasungidwabe. Kenaka apatseni anawo mpira umodzi. Chifukwa cha kupatsako mphatso, ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi mpikisano wamba kapena loti. Mulole mwana aliyense, atachoka holide yanu, amve ngati wopambana!
Chigamulo 12. Ganizirani pasadakhale za "njira zotetezera" panthawi iliyonse ya tchuthi
Konzani mosamala mapulani a phwando kuti musaphonye nthawi zoopsa. Ntchito zanu zazikulu - kuonetsetsa kuti ana onse ali mu nsapato osati osungunuka, kotero kuti palibe amene adya zokoma, sanadule, sanamenyane, ndi zina zotero.