Momwe mungakondwerere tsiku lachiwiri la ukwati ndi mphatso yomwe mungapereke theka lachiwiri

Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chofunika kwambiri kuposa chowala chotero, ndipo mwina munganene kuti, tchuthi tchuthi, ngati ukwati? Chochitika ichi chabweretsa chisangalalo chochuluka kwa amayi ndi abambo. Tsiku lino likutanthauza zambiri pa moyo wawo. Kuchokera pa kulembedwa kwalamulo kwaukwati wawo, ndipo adagwirizana ndi tsiku laukwati, okondedwa akhala wina ndi mnzake kuposa msungwana ndi mnyamata. Iwo anakhala banja. Chikondwerero chachiwiri cha ukwati, monga choyamba, ndi chachitatu ndi china chotsatira, chofunika kwambiri m'moyo wa banja latsopano. Icho chimatchedwa "pepala" osati mwachabe, chifukwa pepala silingatchulidwe kukhala chokhazikika. Banja lotero liri ndi mwayi waukulu wa kusokonezeka chifukwa cha chinthu chaching'ono, tinthu tating'ono.

Ngati mukupeza kufanana ndi pepala, banja lanu likudziwika kwambiri ndi zinthu zakunja. Kawirikawiri anthu oyandikana nawo amodzi amayesa kulowa mu chiyanjano pakati pa okwatirana, motero "pepala" mosagwirizana ndi "ziphuphu" ndi "kugwedezeka", kuwonongera kuti okondedwa amasamalidwa bwino nthawi zonse. M'nthawi yathu ino, ndikofunikira kuti achinyamata athe kulekerera wina ndi mnzake. Mikangano yonse, kukangana ndi kutsutsana nthawi zonse zimatha kuthetsedwa mwamtendere, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - musataye mtima ndikuyang'ana kusamvana muzochitika zosiyanasiyana za moyo.

Momwe mungakondwerere chikondwerero chachiwiri cha ukwati ku mayiko osiyanasiyana
Pali miyambo yambiri ndi miyambo yambiri yosangalatsa ukwati. Kummawa, ndi mwambo kuvina mwambo wapadera, wotchedwa kuvina mwambo mu zovala zapadera. Mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi yomweyo amavala zovala zofiira, zopangidwa kuchokera ku pulasitiki wamtundu ndi zomatira. Pambuyo pa mwambo wotere, aliyense amadya, ndipo mbale yaikulu imatengedwa patebulo - mpunga ndi nkhuku.

Kuvina kwa ndalama kumavina ku Greece, yomwe idakhazikitsidwa kale pa mwambo waukwati. Ndalama panthawi imodzimodziyo imangobatizidwa pa zovala za ochita zochitika za chikondwererochi.

Ku Byzantium pa chikondwerero chachiwiri chaukwati, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amapanga zidole za pepala, ndikubisa zofuna zawo wina ndi mnzake. Pamsonkhano, mwamuna ndi mkazi amasintha zidole zawo ndikuzisungira mpaka kumapeto kwa phwandolo. Pamapeto a tchuthi, okwatirana amasinthasintha kuwerenga zolemba zonse za alendo.

Kwa Chibulgaria, chikondwerero cha ukwatiwo chiyenera kukhala chokongola, cholemera, chosangalatsa ndi chowala. Ndi chifukwa chake mkazi ndi mwamuna anali atavala zovala zokongola, zomwe zinkayenera kupangidwa ndi pepala.

Kodi mungapereke chiyani pa ukwati wa "pepala"?
Ngati muli m'gulu la oitanidwa ku phwando lofunika, ndiye mphatso yabwino kwambiri ya ukwati "mapepala" idzakhala mphatso monga mabuku, zojambula zosiyanasiyana, ndalama, zithunzi za zithunzi komanso kalendala. Kawirikawiri, mankhwala aliwonse kuchokera pa pepala kupita ku kukoma kwanu. Mukhoza kulemba ndakatulo polemekeza omwe angokwatirana kumene ndikuwawerengera madzulo. Inde, zofuna tsiku limenelo ziyenera kukhala zabwino, zowona mtima, zokongola komanso zosangalatsa.

Wokondedwa aliyense amafuna kudabwa ndi theka lake lachiwiri ngati mphatso yodabwitsa. Mphatso yabwino kwambiri yokhudzana ndi holide yanu ndi buku. Mwinamwake mumadziwa zomwe amakonda mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu, kotero simungapeze zovuta kugula mabuku pa mutu uwu. Kuphatikiza pa mphatso zophiphiritsira, pali alendo ambiri amene alibe kugwirizana ndi pepala, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangaperekedwe. Chizindikiro chirichonse cha chidwi chidzakhala chosangalatsa kwa wokondedwa wanu ndipo chidzakhala chochuluka kwambiri.

Musaiwale kusangalatsa, samalirani ndi kusamalirana wina ndi mzake, ndiyeno kumwetulira ndi chimwemwe sichidzachoka pa nkhope yanu!