Ubale ndi makolo samakhala nthawi zonse monga momwe tingafunire. Ndipo choipitsitsa kwambiri, ngati mayi kapena abambo ndi munthu wofulumira. Pomwe anthu atangoyamba kufuula ndi kulumbira, kutsimikizira kuti malingaliro awo akuvuta kwambiri. Koma ngati zoletsa za amayi anga zikanatha kunyalanyazidwa mwanjira inayake, abambo ake samapereka chiwerengero choterocho. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kudziwa momwe angakhalire ogwirizana ndi bambo wodekha.
Pofuna kumvetsetsa momwe angakhalire oyanjana ndi abambo ofunda kwambiri, nkofunikira kumvetsa maganizo awo komanso kuti athe kuchita molondola. Nthawi zambiri anthu amawagwiritsa ntchito kuti akhale ovomerezeka komanso amayang'anira zinthu zonse. Ndi kusamvera kulikonse, nthawi yomweyo amakwiya, amayamba kufuula ndi kulumbira.
Dziwani momwe mungatsutsane
Ngati izi zikuchitika kwa abambo anu, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungayankhire pa kulira ndi kuwonjezeka kwa mawu. Pofuna kukhazikitsa chiyanjano, simungathe kukangana. Pamene bambo ayamba kufuula ndi kutemberera, khalani chete. Musiyeni amamasule nthunzi ndi kufotokoza zonse zomwe akufuna, posachedwa adzakhalitsa. Pambuyo pake, kumbukirani zonse zomwe wanena ndi kumanga zokambirana. Muuzeni kuti iye ali wolondola, ngakhale ... ndipo pambuyo pake muyenera kufotokoza zifukwa zanu. Ingokumbukirani kuti ndi munthu wodekha wouza mtima iwe uyenera kulankhula momveka bwino komanso kwenikweni. Musati "kufalitsa lingaliro la mtengo." Anthu oterewa amakwiya msanga akaona kuti munthu sangakwanitse kufika pamtima. Choncho, kuyambitsa kukambirana ndi bambo anu pafunso ili kapena funsoli, khalani ndi zifukwa zokwanira mu malo anu osungira kuti muteteze maganizo anu ndipo musamulole kuti apite kukafuula.
Simungathe kuthandizira malonda.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti sikutheka kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi munthu wotere ngati mutayankha ndikulira. Pankhani imeneyi, mumayambitsa nkhondo imene atate, monga munthu wodalirika, sangathe kuthera. Chotsatira chake, mudzalira ndi kulumbira, ndipo cholinga cha zonsezi sichidzathetsa mkangano, koma kuti mupambane pankhondoyi yopanda nzeru.
Ngati bambo anu ndi munthu wofulumira, simukuyenera kumuona ngati mdani wanu. Kumbukirani kuti iye samalira chifukwa chakuti akukufunirani zoipa, koma chifukwa chodalira kuti akuchita bwino mwana wake. Choncho, ngati simungathe kumutsimikizira bambo anu zotsutsana kapena simudziwa momwe mungalankhulire nokha, yesetsani kuchita mogwirizana ndi maganizo ake. Pamene ayamba kufuula, mmalo moyankha mofananamo, muzimukumbatira bambo anu, nenani kuti mumamukonda.
Choyamba, khalidwe ili siyembekezeka pakamakangana ndi mikangano, motero zimachotsa munthu pa chizoloŵezi chachilendo ndipo zimapereka mwayi wochulukitsa. Kuwonjezera apo, kuzindikira kuti mwana amakukondani, kumakupangitsani kumasula ngakhale anthu opsya mtima kwambiri.
Kusunga chete
Komabe, musaiwale za zochitika zoterezi, pamene abambo wodekha safuna kwenikweni kumva zotsutsana ndikukhulupirira kuti pali malingaliro awiri okha: ake ndi olakwika. Anthu oterewa amapanga boma lachigawenga kunyumba ndipo amayesetsa kuti aliyense akhale ndi moyo mogwirizana ndi chigamulo chomwe adachikonza. Ndibwino kuti musamakangane ndi bambo wotero. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti simungathe kumukakamiza, kuti asasokoneze kugonana ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha - kukhala chete. Pankhaniyi, nkofunikira kunena zomwe bambo akufuna kuzimva, ndiyeno achite mwanjira yake. Inde, munthu sangatchule khalidwe labwino kapena labwino, koma m'mabanja ena, ana sangokhala ndi chisankho. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyesetsa kuti musamaname, koma kuti mukhale chete. Ndiko kuti, pamene simukufunsidwa chilichonse, simukufunikira kupanga nkhani ndi kusewera pamaso pa abambo anu kukhala mwana wabwino. Chinthu chabwino kwambiri sichiyenera kuganizira pa zinthu zomwe zingayambitse papa. Pachifukwa ichi, ubale wanu udzasintha ndipo mudzasiya kuyankhula mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo kuti mutha kumvetsetsa bwino ndi abambo anu, yesetsani kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi moyo wake komanso nkhawa zake. Poona kuti iye ndi wamtengo wapatali komanso wokondedwa, abambo, pamapeto pake, akhoza kuchepetsa ndikusiya kukangana za chirichonse.