Kawirikawiri akazi amamvetsa malingaliro awo: "Apa, mabwenzi onse apamtima ali okwatira, ndipo ndine ndekha." Ndipo lingaliro lachiwiri: "Chifukwa cha chiyani?". "N'chifukwa chiyani zili choncho?". Sitidzapita kuzinthu zonse, monga amatsenga ndi amatsenga, iwo amati ife, inu mumvekedwa korona. Izi ndithudi mabodza onse ndi chifukwa chokhalira ndi ndalama za atsikana omwe sanapezebe mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo. Koma, ndithudi, mungathe kufotokoza zina mwa zifukwa ndi mayankho a funsoli: "Chifukwa chiyani akazi sangakwatirane?".
Ndiwe wogwira ntchito kwambiri ndipo samalirani kwambiri kugwira ntchito.
Inde, ayi, ngati ndinu katswiri wabwino m'munda mwanu, ndipo mupereke nthawi yanu yonse yogwira ntchito - zonsezi ndi zodabwitsa. Mwa njira, ili kuntchito kuti mutha kupeza osankhidwa anu. Ngati mutayang'ana mbali ina, kukhumba kwambiri ntchito yanu, kumatenga nthawi yochuluka kwambiri kuti musakhale ndi nthawi yopanga moyo wanu.
Inu mumakonda kwambiri kukwatira.
Apa palikutanthauza kuti maloto anu amadziwonetsera kwambiri kuti aliyense pozungulira inu, makamaka amuna, zindikirani. Ngati mumaganizira za tsogolo lamtsogolo, kusamukira ku nyumba, kubadwa kwa mwana ... Zonsezi zingamuwopsyeze munthu yemwe munayanjana naye pachiyambi.
Kufuna kwakukulu pa wosankhidwa wake.
Mwatsoka, izi makamaka zimadalira zaka. Popeza, ali ndi zaka 18, mumatseka maso anu ndikumvera maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu. Ndipo simungadzipangire nokha kusankha bwino kwa munthu wanu.
Koma pokhala ndi zaka 30, muli ndi makhalidwe ena omwe wokondedwa wanu ayenera kukhala nawo. Ndipo zolinga zilizonse zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mwanzeru, sizomwe zimasankha. Pakati penipeni izi zingakhale zabwino, komanso zoipa, chifukwa inu mosadziŵa adzakhala ndi lingaliro lakuti mukufuna munthu wabwino, ndipo palibe anthu otero m'dziko lino kapena ochepa kwambiri.
Palibe malo omwe mungakumane nawo.
Malingana ndi ziwerengero, misonkhano yambiri ndi mkazi wamtsogolo idzachitika m'malo omwe mumaphunzira kapena kugwira ntchito. Koma ndithudi zimachitika kuti mwatsiriza kale maphunziro anu, ndipo amuna onse ogwira ntchito ali okwatira.
Anthu ena nthawi zambiri amatha kukomana ndi chikondi mwadzidzidzi. Koma simukusowa kudalira tsogolo lokha. Muyenera kuyesetsa kuti mupeze mnzanu wam'tsogolo. Mwachitsanzo, anzanu angakuuzeni munthu wokondweretsa.
Masiku ano, chibwenzi pa intaneti ndi chotchuka kwambiri. Iyi ndi njira yoopsya, chifukwa pali anthu omwe akuwombera ndalama kuchokera kwa omwe angakhale okondana ndi wokondedwa wawo. Koma pali amuna enieni. Pafupi ndi ophunzira makumi awiri omwe anafunsidwa ndi inu, mudzapeza chimodzi chomwe chidzakhale tsogolo lanu.
Mukhoza kupita kutchuthi kapena kupita ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana, ndipo izi siziyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Osati kawirikawiri, mungathe kukumana ndi moyo wanu wokondedwa ndi abwenzi ndi mafani akale.
Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti panjira yopita ku loto lanu simukulakwitsa: mwakwatirana chifukwa chokwatirana.
Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa