Mkokomo mu loto: kufotokoza kwa omasulira
Musanayambe kutembenukira ku mabuku a malotowo, sikungakumbukire momwe nkhondoyi inachitikira: chiwembu, yemwe mdani wanu anali ndani, munamenyana naye? Zonsezi ndizofunikira kwambiri kutanthauzira molondola, kotero musayese kuphonya aliyense wa iwo.
Kotero, mwachitsanzo, mu maloto, kukangana ndi mnyamata yemwe muli naye ubale wabwino m'moyo weniweni amatanthauza kuti thupi lanu limabisala matenda kapena muli ndi mavuto ambiri osagonjetsedwa mmoyo wina. Ngati pali mtundu wina wa pause kapena kusamvana pakati panu, ndiye, mwinamwake, chiwembu cha maloto ndicho gawo la ubwenzi wanu panthawiyi.
Kulimbana ndi kale ndi chizindikiro chakuti malingaliro anu pa iye adatha pang'ono, koma mkwiyo sungalole munthu kuchoka kale.
Maloto omwe mumakhumudwitsa nawo makolo anu kapena mwamuna wanu, akuti anthu awa akukhumba inu zokhazokha, koma kunyada kwanu ndi kuuma kwanu sikupereka uphungu. Sintha kapena khalidwe lanu lidzasewera.
Nchifukwa chiyani tili ndi mkangano ndi mnzanu? Malingana ndi kutanthauzira, kuneneratu sikukutonthoza kwathunthu. Mwinamwake mkazi uyu ali ndi nsanje zachinsinsi kwa inu, iye akufuna kuti azipikisana nanu. Kulephera kwanu kulikonse kumakhala ngati chifukwa cha chimwemwe.
Maloto omenyana ndi ogwira ntchito, omwe pang'onopang'ono anayamba kukangana - chizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti mukufuna mpumulo. Mwachiwonekere, wina wa anzanu kapena akuluakulu amakupezani zokhazokha ndi zosakhutira. Ntchito yolemetsa, mndandanda wa milandu yosathetsedwanso ingayambitsenso chifukwa cha khalidwe labwino, lomwe potsirizira pake likufotokozedwa motere. Yesetsani kukapita ku tchuthi kapena, osachepera, mutenge masiku angapo odwala odwala.
Nchifukwa chiyani mumalota wokondedwa ndi yemwe mumakangana pa moyo uno?
Pamwamba ife tinaganizira kutanthauzira komwe kumakhudza mkangano ndi wokondedwa. Koma momwe mungamvetsere loto limene wokondedwa analipo ndipo zonse zinali zodabwitsa, koma kwenikweni muli kale tsiku kapena mwezi mu mkangano?
Ngati muwona zofotokozedwa m'mabuku a malotowo, ndiye kuti malotowa akusonyeza kuti pamapeto pake mutha kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi okondedwa anu ndipo zodandaula zanu zonse zidzaiwalidwa ngati maloto oopsa.
Komanso, simungakayikire kuti osankhidwa anu amadzimva kuti mulibe pamodzi. Munthu amafunitsitsa kukhazikitsa maubwenzi, koma sakudziwa momwe angachitire bwino, chifukwa samadziimba mlandu. Mwina nkhaniyi ndi chizindikiro choti muyenera kuyamba njira yoyamba kuyanjanitsa.
Monga momwe mukuonera, zomwe mabuku a maloto amanena zokhudza kukangana ndi khalidwe lachenjezo. Momwe mungapititsire - ziri kwa inu, choncho ganizirani chilichonse musanapite kuntchito iliyonse. Pankhaniyi, chirichonse chimadalira pa chisankho chanu. Bwino ndi maloto okoma!