Makhalidwe 4 a munthu amene angasinthe dziko kuti likhale labwino

Tinalengedwa kuti tipeze tanthauzo, tipeze kudzidalira, kuti tipezeke m'moyo. Tikasiya njira yowonongeka, timakonda kuyang'ana pozungulira kuti titsimikizire: Kukhala kwathu kwasintha dziko kuti likhale labwino. Ndi makhalidwe ati omwe angakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zonse padziko lapansi ndikusintha dziko kuti likhale labwino, Dan Valdshmidt akudziwa. Nazi malingaliro anayi ochokera m'buku lake "Khalani wabwino kwambiri":
  1. Musawope kutenga zoopsa.
  2. Kulangidwa
  3. Khala wowolowa manja
  4. Yambani ndi anthu

Kuti tipeze kupambana kopambana modabwitsa, nkofunikira kukhala ndi makhalidwe onse anayi. Onerani anthu opambana. Onse ali ndi makhalidwe amenewa. Musagwire ntchito molimbika komanso molimbika kuposa momwe mudakonzekera, komanso muzikonda komanso kupereka zambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Ndiyeno mudzasintha dziko kuti likhale labwino.

  1. Musawope kutenga zoopsa.

    Karl Brashir anali munthu woyamba ku Africa American amene ankafuna kulowa mumadzi a m'nyanja ya US Navy. Amuna oyera okha ndiwo anatengedwa kupita kwa asilikaliwa. Panthawiyi, Carl anakumana ndi zinthu zopanda chilungamo. Onsewa adatsitsa ziwalo ndi zida pansi pa madzi mu thumba lathumba. Zambiri ndi zida za Charles zidaponyedwa m'madzi popanda thumba. Anthu ena anamaliza mayesowa kwa maola angapo. Karl anasonyeza khama kwambiri ndipo adatuluka m'madzi maola 9 okha. Patatha zaka zambiri, atafunsidwa chifukwa chake anaika moyo wake pachiswe ndipo anapitirizabe kumenya nkhondo, ngakhale kuti analibe chilungamo, iye anayankha kuti: "Sindingalole munthu wina kuti andisokoneze."

    Pitani ku ngozi. Sankhani njira yovuta. Inde, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuganiza ndikugwira ntchito pa zonse zomwe mumachita. Koma, kuti mukwaniritse chinthu chapadera chodabwitsa, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu. Anthu opambana kwambiri ndi anthu wamba omwe amachita chinthu chachilendo.

  2. Kulangidwa

    Joannie Rochette ankayenera kuchita masewera a Olympic a 2010 ku Vancouver monga msilikali wamakono wa siliva wa World Cup ndi mtsogoleri wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi wa Canada. Anali ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu kuti iyeyo ndi mwayi waukulu kwambiri ku Canada kuti adzagonjetse ndemanga ya Olimpiki. Masiku awiri asanalankhule, mayi ake a Joannie anamwalira ndi matenda a mtima mwadzidzidzi. Nkhaniyi inadabwitsa mtsikanayo. Tsiku la mpikisano labwera. Atangoyamba kumveka kwa La Cumparsita pamwamba pa siteji, Johanni adalowerera m'maganizo a nthawiyi, adachita bwino kuteteza katatu katatu ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito pochita chidwi. Pambuyo pa ntchitoyi, misozi inachoka m'maso mwa Joannie ndipo anati: "Ichi ndi cha iwe, Amayi." Joannie Rochette adagonjetsa ndondomeko ya mkuwa. Anakhalanso wonyamulira pamsonkhano womaliza ndipo anapatsidwa dzina la Terry Fox monga masewera olimbitsa thupi, olimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndi chifuniro chogonjetsa pa Olimpiki a Winter Winter 2010.

    Kuti tipite patsogolo, kuti tipitirize kugwira ntchito, ziribe kanthu, tifunika kulangizidwa (komanso ngakhale!). Panjira yopambana, palibe odwala. Kulanga kumakupangitsani kuti mupambane tsiku ndi tsiku, ziribe kanthu momwe mumamvera. Mumaphunzira kuti musamamve ululu ndi mantha, kusintha maganizo ndi zochitika ndikungotenga sitepe yotsatira. Simusowa kuyang'ana maso anu mpaka mutayandikira. Zochita zolakwitsa zimapereka mphamvu. Pang'onopang'ono mukupita patsogolo, mumapanga masitepe ofunika kwambiri ku cholinga, chomwe sichikanatha.

  3. Khala wowolowa manja

    Gigantic tsunami inadutsa m'mphepete mwa nyanja ku Indonesia pa December 26, 2004 ndipo inati anthu mamiliyoni ambiri a anthu. Atafika kunyumba kwake, akudabwa ndi zochitika kumayiko ena, Wayne Elsie anazindikira kuti nthawiyi anayenera kuchita zambiri osati kungolemba cheke. Ayenera kupeza njira yopereka thandizo lenileni. Wayne anayamba ndi moyo wake wonse - kuchokera ku nsapato. Pokhala mutu wa kampani yatsopano ya nsapato, anapita kuntchito ndikuitanitsa atsogoleri ambiri omwe adakhazikitsa zibwenzi kwa zaka zambiri. Pogawana malingaliro ake, anapempha thandizo. Ndipo patangopita nthawi yochepa analandira nsapato zoposa 250,000 za nsapato zatsopano zotumizira ku Indonesia. Anthu omwe ataya zonse ali ndi zina zawo - osati chabe nsapato, komanso chiyembekezo. Ndipo ndi iye ndi mphamvu kuti athetse mavuto.

    Sikoyenera kupereka mamiliyoni kuti apereke mowolowa manja. Mukungoyenera kukhala munthu wabwino. Nthawi zambiri amati "zikomo." Samalani ena. Gawani zomwe mwakumana nazo komanso maluso anu. Iphatikizani ku ubwino wamba. Tsiku lililonse muli ndi mwayi wosintha chinachake. Kupatsa ndi njira imodzi yodalirika yopambana.

  4. Kunama kwa anthu ndikukonda zambiri

    Michael anali mwana wachisanu ndi chiƔiri m'banja loledzeretsa ndi mowa. Iye anakakamizidwa kuti azidziyang'anira yekha. Mndandanda wa misonkhano ndi anthu abwino, kukoma mtima ndi chikondi chawo zinasintha moyo wake. Bambo wa mnzake wa Michael, adamulola kuti agone nawo. Ndipo pamene anatenga mwana wake Stefano ku sukulu yachinsinsi yachinsinsi yachikhristu "Briarcrest", anatenga Michael pamodzi naye ndikumukonzera gulu la mpira. Patapita nthawi, michael anatenga mwanayo, yemwe mwana wake wamkazi ankaphunzira naye m'kalasi lomwelo. Ankadera nkhawa za iye, amapereka maphunziro ake kusukulu ndi ku yunivesite. Tsiku lina, Michael, yemwe anali mayi ake okalamba, anamva zimene munthu sanamuuzepo kuti: "Ndimakukondani." Mawu awa anakumbukira moyo. Atamaliza maphunziro awo, Michael anasaina mgwirizano wokwana madola 14 miliyoni ndi gulu lodziwika bwino la mpira. Ndipo iye sanaiwale za iwo omwe anamuthandiza iye mu moyo.

    Ngati muli ndi luso, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mutha kukhala ndi moyo - ngakhale mutayesetsa. Kuti mupambane mu moyo, muyenera kukhala ndi njira yothetsera ubale. Ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa pa chikondi cha anthu. Ikusunga chitsime cha mphamvu ndi kudzoza, zomwe zimayambitsa chirichonse. Kodi mukufuna kusintha dziko kuti likhale labwino? Muzikonda kwambiri.

Malinga ndi bukhu "Khalani wabwino kwambiri."