Khirisimasi ndi Christmastide ndi nthawi yamatsenga, yodabwitsa komanso yodabwitsa, yomwe imakhudzana ndi miyambo, malingaliro, miyambo ya anthu komanso zizindikiro zowoneka. Kuyambira kalekale ku Russia asungwana akhala akunena za oweruzidwa ndi ana, kupanga zofuna ndikuyesera kuyang'ana kumbuyo kwa chiwonongeko. Kugawidwa ndi Khirisimasi pa mpheteyi ndi mwambo wophweka komanso wophweka womwe ukhoza kuwonetsa zam'tsogolo zamtsogolo, kutanthauza dzina la betrothed ndi kugonana kwa mwana wosabadwa.
Malamulo a kuyankhula kwa Khirisimasi ndi mphete:
- Ndikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito mphete yosalala popanda zokongoletsera, makamaka mphete yaukwati (itadutsa mwambo waukwati mu kachisi);
- Madzi a phwando ayenera kukhala ofunika, osati "akufa" (madzi apampopi);
- nthawi yabwino yowombeza - usiku 12 pa Khrisimasi;
- pa mwambo muyenera kuzisunga chete.
Kugawana pa Khirisimasi pa tsitsi ndi mphete
Thirani mu kapu yamadzi (2/3), sungani tsitsi lanu mu mphete, onetsetsani nsonga zala zazing'ono (musamawonetsere!) Ndipo mubweretse mphete ku galasi. Lembani mphete kwa mphindi zingapo m'madzi, ikani pambali pa galasi ndikufunseni funso lakuti: "Kodi ndidzakhala ndi ukwati chaka chatsopano?", "Kodi ndikudziwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga wamtsogolo?", "Ndidzakwatirana zaka zingati?", "Kodi ndidzakhala ndi ana?". Pendulum anapita mozungulira - yankho ndi "inde", ilo limangobwerera mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo - yankho liri "ayi", lopachikidwa popanda kuyenda - palibe yankho la funsolo.
Kuganiza pa mphete ndi ndondomeko
Thirani madzi mumtsuko ndikuuponyera pamwamba pa chipolopolo kuchokera ku mtedza, kuvala chinthu chilichonse ndi lingaliro. Mphatso - mphatso kuchokera kwa azimayi, ndalama - chuma, maliro - ukwati. Njira ina ndizolemba ndi zikhumbo. Mukuganiza kuti akutsatiridwa ndi mabwenzi aakazi, akuwombera pamadzi. Ndi chipolopolo chiti chomwe chidzayambe choyamba, ndiye chokhumba chidzakwaniritsidwa.
Kulankhulana ndi mphete ndi galasi
Pa tsiku la Khirisimasi, tsitsani madzi mu galasi ndikuchepetsanso mphete. Ikani mu chisanu ndikudikirira mpaka madzi asungunuke. Talingalirani zotsatira zake: malo osalala opanda phokoso amachititsa kuti mukhale ndi mwayi muchaka chatsopano. Bumpy ndi mabowo amasonyeza amuna ndi ana omwe am'tsogolo. Mitsuko ndi ana, zowawa ndi ana.
Kugawa ndi mphete ndi velvet
Pa mwambowu ayenera kutenga nawo mbali atsikana 6 osakwatiwa. Konzani mzere wa velvet yakuda, ikani mphete yaukwati pa iyo, piritsani mwapadera malembo osindikiza: "Ndidzakweza mphete, ndimutsatira ndekha, kwa mtsikana wabwino." Msungwana aliyense ayenera kukonza, komwe mphete yake inatha. Mtsikanayo mphete yake imayima kale kuposa enawo kukwatira poyamba, kenako aliyense adzapeza mwamuna wa bwenzi lomaliza.
Kuyeretsedwa kuti muwone mkwati
Kulingalira kochititsa chidwi kwambiri pa Khirisimasi ndi mphete ndiko kuneneratu kwa maonekedwe a woweruzidwa. Pakati pausiku madzulo, tathirani mu madzi a madzi (3/4), tchepetseni mphete pansi, kunong'oneza bondo: "Ndasokonezeka, ndikuwonetsa!" Ndipo yang'anani mosamala pakati pa madzi pakati pa mphete. Choyamba, pali ndondomeko zopanda malire zomwe zimayamba pang'onopang'ono kukhala ndi mbali zosiyana. Mutha kuona chiwerengero ndi nkhope ya betrothed. Kuyankhula pa mwambo sikungakhale, osati kuopseza mwamuna wokhalapo. Kugawidwa ndi Khrisimasi pa mphete kuyenera kuchitika mwakachetechete, popanda kukambirana kosayenera ndi kukangana. Chinthu chachikulu ndikulingalira, kuchotsa kukayikira konse, kukhulupirira kuti mopanda chilema kupambana ndi cholinga chimasonyeza njira yoyenera.