Maganizo sadzatha ngati ...

Wolemba wina wa zaka makumi asanu ndi atatu mphambu zisanu akugwira ntchito yatsopanoyi anati: "Panalibe tsiku limene sindinathetse vuto la masamu. Chinsinsi cha kufotokoza kwa maganizo ndikumaphunzitsidwa nthawi zonse." Ndipo chinsinsi cha "kusasuntha" malingaliro?

Anthu awiri okalamba - iye ndi iye - amayendayenda pakiyi. Aliyense yemwe amawayang'ana, amamvetsetsa - amakondana ngakhale dontho kapena zosakwana zaka makumi atatu kapena makumi anayi zapitazo. Kodi adakwanitsa bwanji kupulumutsa, "osazimitsa" malingaliro awo? Chifukwa chiyani sanataya chikondi chawo?

Musabise maganizo anu.
Kuvomereza kwa chikondi sikungakhale kovuta. Ngakhale zinthu zili bwino m'banja mwanu, ana odabwitsa amakula, ndipo nthawi zina mumakhala ndi zokhudzidwa, nthawi zina mumati: "Ndimakukondani." Mawu awa atatu osavuta amadzidalira okha, amachititsa kutentha, kuthandizira kuthana ndi mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku. Musalole kuti chizoloƔezi chiwononge maganizo anu.

Yesetsani kugwira manja nthawi zambiri.
Pamene anthu agwiritsitsa dzanja la wina, amakhala ndi chitetezo ndi chitetezo. Gwirani dzanja la ana, gwiritsanani wina ndi mzake, ndipo palibe, palibe mphamvu iti idzabalalitseni inu.

Onetsani zizindikiro za chidwi.
Kukhumudwa sikudzatha ngati pamsonkhano ndi kuperewera kudzakhala kupsompsonana kwachikondi. Ngakhale chochitika chaching'ono kwambiri mu membala wa banja ndi chifukwa chabwino chokhalira barolo ya chokoleti, mulu wa maluwa, mawu amodzi okha. Yang'anirani TV - kumanikitseni munthu wokhawokha ndi mapewa, pita ndi munthu yemwe wakhala kumbuyo kwa bukhulo - kukhudza mwachikondi kapena kuswa pa tsaya.

Lolani zodabwitsa kwa wina ndi mzake.
Inde, izi sizili zophweka, koma nthawi ndizofunika. Chodabwitsa sichingakhale kokha mu mphatso, koma mwachidziwitso chosayembekezereka. Mwachitsanzo, mwanjira ina amathera madzulo, kupita kwinakwake, ndi zina zotero.

Ndipo Tsiku la Valentine? Ndiponsotu, ichi ndi chifukwa chabwino osati kungosungira malingaliro, koma chofunika kwambiri kuti ndikhale ndi chikondi chachikulu. Mwachitsanzo, phwando lokondwerera tsiku la Valentine limafuna kukondana.

Patsikuli limagwirizanitsidwa ndi maluwa ndi mtima. Choncho mfundo zazikuluzikulu za zokongoletsera - maluwa ndi mitima mu mapangidwe osiyanasiyana. Musaiwale za masoloni-mitima. Ikani pa tebulo vaseji otsika ndi maluwa. Patsikuli la maluwa liyenera kukhala lochuluka, choncho kusankha kwanu kuima pazitsamba. Zakudya zophika zingakonzedwe ndi mitima, zoyambirira za wina ndi mzake. Konzani mbale zatsopano.

Malingana ngati banja likulitsa ulemu ndi chikondi kwa wina ndi mzake, mgwirizano, ubale wokondwa ukhalebe, ndipo chikondi chako sichidzawonongeka.

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