Pa nthawi iliyonse ya chaka, moyo wamba wa tsiku ndi tsiku umafuna kuti uwonongeke ndi misonkhano yosangalatsa, maphwando, maphwando. Zomwe zinachitika kuti m'dziko lathu ndizozoloŵera kukonza zosangalatsa pazifukwa zina. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, chilakolako chokhazikika pambuyo pa sabata ya ntchito, kusintha ndondomekoyi, kutsegula kumatha kukhazikika bwinobwino. Ndipo ine ndiyenera kunena kuti mu magazini iyi njira zonse ndi zabwino. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ena sagunda "thumba" mu thumba, thanzi ndi mbiri.
Lero, kuphatikiza pa zikondwerero zapabanja pamisonkhano ndi abwenzi, pali zambiri zomwe mungasankhe panthawi yosangalatsa. Wina adzapita ku kampu, cafe, restaurant, bowling, mpira, hockey, paintball ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ena, mwanjira yakale, amasankha kukonza msonkhano m'nyumbayo, kapena ngati njira, mu nyumba ya dziko, m'dziko. Ndikofunika kuti chikhale choyambirira ndi chosangalatsa. Masiku ano, misonkhano yokonzedwa kumadera awo imatchedwa maphwando apanyumba.
Chifukwa cha chimwemwe chochuluka, tsopano ndiwotheka kukonzekera maholide osati motsatira chitsanzo cha zikondwerero zopambana, kumene alendo amapatsidwa kuchuluka kwazochita ndi zosangalatsa zosachepera. Anthu ambiri, makamaka achinyamata, amaganizira mozama ndi kukonza nthawi yawo yopuma. Patsiku lachikhalidwe cha Soviet lingakhale chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri chochitira phwando kapena msonkhano wamba ndi achibale ndi abwenzi kwa anthu a m'badwo uliwonse.
Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji phwando lapanyumba? Choyamba muyenera kuitana alendo. Ulamuliro woyamba wa madzulo ndi kampani yabwino. Pa phwando la anthu, omwe amapeza chinenero chimodzi ndi mitu, omwe angasangalale ndi kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika, omwe sangathe kusokoneza maganizo, ayenera kukhalapo. Ngati pali kukayikira kulikonse ndi munthu wina, ndibwino kuti musamuitane munthuyu, chifukwa maphunzirowa atenga nthawi yochuluka ndipo adzafuna mphamvu zambiri zomwe simukufuna kuti mutayawononge aliyense. Choyenera, muyenera kupanga khadi-matikiti, omwe angasonyeze nthawi ya mwambo, malo, zofuna zowoneka.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndi madzulo, fotokozerani zovala zoyenera ndi zina. Ndipotu, okonzekera kukonzekera holide, ndi alendo, kuti aliyense athe kukhala wodalirika komanso womasuka. Kwa phwando mu nthawi ya Soviet zikanakhala zabwino, mwachitsanzo, kusindikiza maitanidwe pa zojambulajambula mwa mawonekedwe a telegram yayifupi, momwe izo zimachitikira pa telegraph. Ndikokwanira kugula makasitomala ophatikizika kwambiri omwe ali ndi zithunzi iliyonse kukumbukira nthawi imeneyo. Mawuwa akhoza kuganiziridwa mosiyana, kugwiritsa ntchito mawu komanso kuganizira zolemba za Soviet nthawi.
Chinthu chachikulu ndizoyambirira. Mukamalemba maitanidwe, ndi bwino kufotokoza zofuna ku maonekedwe a alendo ndi chinthu chosiyana. Lolani tsiku limodzi kapena madzulo nyumbayo idzakhala msonkhano wa apainiya, stilyag, mafashistas ndi anthu ena odziwika kwambiri a nthawi imeneyo.
Gawo lachiwiri ndikuganiza pogwiritsa ntchito menyu. Mwachibadwa, alendo ayenera kuchiritsidwa. Ndikofunika kulemba mndandanda wa zakudya ndi zakumwa zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwe bwino mu mlengalenga ndi mutu wa phwando.
Komanso musaiwale za mapangidwe a tebulo komanso zamkati. Kukonzekera chochitika chokhala ndi chizindikiro pamapeto a zaka zapitazo, sikofunikira kupanga manyowa ndi zakumwa zokoma, kukongoletsa malo amsonkhano ndi chinachake chapadera. Aliyense amadziwa bwino zomwe amadya, kumwa, komanso momwe nyumba yonse ya Soviet inawonera.
Ngati muvala nsalu ya tebulo (makamaka nsalu yophimba mafuta, osati yonyansa), tebulo la hering'i pansi pa malaya amoto, olivier, masangweji ndi zokhala ndi zakudya zina za nthawi imeneyo, ndiye kuti padzakhala phwando pa chikondwererochi. Nkhani ndi zakumwa zaledzere komanso zosamwa mowa ndi zovuta. Mndandanda wa zinthu zimenezi umayamba ndi kunyumba compote kapena kvass ndipo kumathera ndi chirichonse pa kuzindikira kwa makamu ndi alendo a phwando. Mpaka pano, msika umapatsa chisankho chachikulu chakumwa mowa ndi zakumwa zina.
Gawo lotsatira la kukonzekera phwando labwino ndi losangalatsa ndilo gawo la "zosangalatsa". Apa, molingana ndi mutu womwe wapatsidwa, nkokayikitsa kuti maseŵera ophatikizana adzalowa mu kompyuta kapena mafia. M'nthaŵi za Soviet, anthu adadzikondera okha osati ndi zokambirana zokha, koma ndi nyimbo ndi mikangano. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti pa tchuthi aliyense adagawana ndikukondwera. Mungathe kubwera ndi masewera kapena masewera aliwonse ndi masewero, kusewera backgammon, mitsetse, dominoes, lotto, makadi, kuimba nyimbo, kuvina mpaka nthawi yomweyi. Chilichonse chimadalira malingaliro ndi chikhumbo cha ophunzira. Koma konzekerani zosowa zosangalatsa bwino komanso pasadakhale. Cholembacho chikuyenera kulumikizana ndi mutu womwe waperekedwa, zikhumbo za mpikisano ziyenera kukhala pamalo ndi kuyembekezera ntchito.
Ziribe kanthu kuti zikondwerere, padzakhala chifukwa kapena msonkhano wamba. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutha kupumula bwino komanso mosangalatsa kukumbukira tsiku lino. Nthawi zonse pali chifukwa chowona abwenzi, abwenzi, anthu apamtima. Ndipo nkofunika kwambiri kupatsana wina ndi mzake nthawi izi chisangalalo cha kulankhulana ndi mtima wabwino. Patsikuli ndi ntchito yaikulu, yomwe imayenera kuyanjidwa mosamala, ndi malingaliro ndi chiwerengero cholondola pa mfundo iliyonse.