Chilakolako chokhazikitsa banja lolimba ndi munthu wabwino ndizofunikira kwa mtsikana aliyense. Komabe, ambiri amakhulupirira kuti n'zotheka kupeza munthu woyenera yekha pakati pa alendo. Ndipo izi ndi zomveka, chifukwa ndi ndani yemwe sakopeka miyezo yapamwamba ya moyo ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu onse, kudziimira payekha ndi mwayi wopanga ntchito yabwino? Choncho, chikhumbo chokwatira mlendo ndi choyenera, ndipo khama liyenera kuchitidwa kukwaniritsa cholinga ichi.
Khwerero 1: Njira Yopambana
Choyamba, nkofunikira kulingalira zonse mwabwino kwambiri, monga kusamukira kudziko lina kumaphatikizapo kusiya njira yamoyo, kugawana ndi achibale. Mudzagwa mu chikhalidwe chosiyana, kumene mukuzunguliridwa ndi alendo. Idzakhala moyo watsopano, watsopano. Ndipo ngati mwakonzeka kusintha kotere - pita kutsata chimwemwe!
Khwerero 2: Ntchito Yokonzekera
Pambuyo pokonzekera maganizo ndikofunika kuthana ndi vuto lachinenero. Zikuonekeratu kuti si alendo onse omwe amadziwa Chirasha, koma Chingerezi (m'mitundu yonse) - ambiri. Ndipo kuti muonjezere mwayi wanu wopambana muyenera kugwira ntchito mwaulere. Lowani maphunziro a Chingerezi, penyani mwatsatanetsatane maitanidwe a mawu a Chingerezi, kukopera pa audiobooks. Zochita zonsezi zidzakuthandizani mtsogolomu kulankhula momasuka ndi osankhidwa anu.
Ndikofunika kuti muzilankhulana momasuka mu Chingerezi m'nkhani zomwe zingakhale zosangalatsa kwa mkwatibwi wokhala kunja kwa inu nokha ndi zosangalatsa zanu, za dziko lanu ndi miyambo yake, za maphunziro anu ndi ntchito zanu, za mapulani anu a tsogolo, ndi zina zambiri. Kuphatikizani, khalani osachepera pambali ndi miyambo ndi miyambo ya dziko losankhidwa, musonyeze chidwi ndi mbiri ndi chikhalidwe cha dziko lawo. Kukulankhulana mwa njira iyi, mlendo aliyense adzagonjetsedwa ndi kuzindikira kwanu.
Khwerero 3: Mu Webusaiti Yonse Yadziko
Pa kukula kwa intaneti, kupeza malo abwino oti munthu akhale pachibwenzi sikunali vuto lero. Koma pakati pa kusankha kwakukulu kotero ndikofunikira kukhalabe pazowona kuti lili ndi mayankho abwino komanso mbiri yabwino. Ndi malo osadziŵika bwino ndi bwino kuti asasokoneze nazo - sizikudziwika kuti zonsezi zikhoza kutha.
Mutatha kusankha, muyenera kulembetsa pa tsamba. Mukamaliza kulemba mafunso, yesetsani kuyankha molondola momwe zingathere komanso moona mtima mafunso onse omwe akufunsidwa - chinyengo chidzatsegulidwa tsiku lina. Kuphatikiza pa mayankho ofotokoza za maphunziro ndi gawo la ntchito, onetsani zosangalatsa zanu ndi zomwe mukufuna kuchita mutatha ukwati wanu. Koma kumbukirani, chirichonse chimene mungalembe za inu nokha, adziwe amunawa kuti mudzakhala mkazi ndi amayi abwino kwambiri.
Payekha, ndi kofunika kunena za zithunzi zapakhomo pazitu. Sankhani zithunzi zoti ziyike pazinthu zoterezi ziyenera kukhala mosamalitsa komanso mosamala kwambiri, chifukwa poyambirira zidzasankhidwa ndi inu komanso ngati mkwatibwi.
Musanayambe kujambula chithunzi, khalani ndi tulo tosangalatsa, mugwiritseni ntchito yochepetsetsa, koma apamwamba kwambiri, musamalidwe bwino komanso musamayiwale za zovala zoyenera.
Musatumize zithunzi za topless kapena, moipa, ndi zonyansa - mkwatibwi ayenera kukhala wabwino ndi wodzichepetsa.
Chithunzi chilichonse chiyenera kukulengeza, ndiko kuti, kusonyeza makhalidwe anu abwino kwambiri, ndicho chifukwa chake ndi bwino kupanga zithunzi zogwiritsira ntchito manja, ndi mkate wophika mwatsopano, pamene mukusewera masewera kapena mtundu wina wodalitsika. Izi zidzakhala zazikulu kwa inu ndi mbiri yanu.
Khwerero 4: Pezani ndondomeko yothandizira
Zikuwoneka kuti zonse zakhala zikuchitidwa kale, zikungodikirira kuti muzimvetsera. Koma ayi, izi sizikutanthauza, ndipo kuyembekezera kungayambe kwa zaka. Mukufunikira njira yoyenera!
Choyamba, muyenera kusankha pa dziko limene mungakonde kupita kumalo osatha. Pambuyo pake, yang'anani mbiri ya amuna onse ochokera kumeneko. Sankhani nokha 10-20 okhudzidwa kwambiri omwe akugwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda.
Malo okondana nawo amachititsa kukhala ndi mwayi wolankhulana popanda malire kudzera pa Skype, e-mail kapena pazokambirana, ndipo mwayi uwu uyenera kukhala wopindulitsa. Choncho, sankhani mndandanda wa mayankho omwe mumasankha.
Sungani kalata yoyankhulana ndi wopempha aliyense kwa amuna. Lembani pamenepo ubwino ndi zoyipa za kuyankhulana ndi aliyense wa iwo, chifukwa kusunga zonse zomwe zili m'mutu mwanu sizingatheke. M'tsogolomu, izi zidzakuthandizani kusankha bwino.
Sikofunika kukonzekera kuyankhulana ndi anthu onse tsiku limodzi, ndilo lolemetsa komanso lolemetsa. Chotsatira chake, mungathe kukwiya komanso osakondweretsa wothandizana nawo, ndipo mkwatibwi sakusowa chilichonse. Ndi bwino kupanga ndandanda yolankhulana ndi aliyense wa iwo: 2-3 anthu pa tsiku ndi okwanira. Yesetsani kulankhulana kwanu mosavuta komanso kosangalatsa.
Khwerero 5: Kulimbitsa Maudindo
Ngati zochitika zonse zapitazi munachita bwino, ndiye kuti tsopano mumadziŵa kale mlendo, osati ndi mmodzi, koma ndi angapo mwakamodzi. Ndipo kuti odziwa awa amve chifundo, ndikofunikira kulimbikitsa malo awo. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi?
Koposa zonse, khalani chete. Ngati amuna akupitiriza kulankhula nanu, ndiye kuti mumawakonda.
Pitirizani kufupikitsa mndandanda wa amuna omwe angakhale amuna - amuna onse sangakonde, zoperewera zomwe mudzaziwona mwachangu.
Mvetserani munthu aliyense, musalole kuti azisangalala, asinthe, kusewera. Pamene mukulankhulana, mukhoza kuchepetsa kudzichepetsa kwanu podziwa pang'ono (zithunzi zingapo mu diresi ndi khosi lokha limalimbikitsa munthu). Koma samalani: musayese mzere wa zololedwa, chifukwa chochoka ku chizolowezi chochita zonyansa - sitepe imodzi. Pangozi ndi mbiri yanu.
Pambuyo pa miyezi 4-6 ya kulankhulana nthawi zonse, mudzatha kukhalabe mmodzi, ndipo kale, yesetsani kukhala wofunikira. Sonyezani nzeru zanu zonse, ubwino ndi luntha, musaiwale kusonyeza kufooka kwanu, ndipo munthuyo adzakhala pamapazi anu.
Ndipotu, zochitika zingapangidwe m'njira yosadziŵika bwino. Koma ngati mutayesetsa kugonjetsa mtima wa mlendo - mvetserani kwa chidziwitso chanu chachikazi, adzakuuzani momwe mungapititsire.