Tsopano kuwerenga maganizo kuli kofunikira ngati sayansi. Psychology lero ikukhudzidwa ndi anthu ambiri, ngakhale kuti psychology ndi imodzi mwa sayansi yaying'ono kwambiri. Nchifukwa chiyani chikusonyeza chidwi chake kwa iye? Chowoneka kuti, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kumvetsa anthu, makamaka abambo, komanso ndi chithandizo cha maganizo kuti mungathe kupanga chithunzi cha munthu aliyense.
Kuti tiphunzire umunthu, sikofunikira kuti mukhale katswiri pa nkhani ya psychology. Tenga chitsanzo cha malingaliro, zikhale kuseka. Chidwi cha kuseka, mokweza kapena mwamtendere, wamanyazi kapena mosiyana, zochitika zomwe kuseka kungaperekedwe. Zonsezi zingakhale ngati chitsimikizo kuti mudziwe khalidwe la munthu yemwe amasangalala naye.
Momwe mungadziwire khalidwe la munthu mwa kuseka kwake
Oimira abambo amphamvu angathe kutumizidwa ku gulu la anthu amanyazi ndi amanyazi, ngati akuseka, amatseka mkamwa ndi pakamwa pawo. Chifukwa chakuti ali wamanyazi, osamala, amavutika kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi ena. Mofananamo, oimira munda wa amayi amasekanso, zomwe zingathekenso kukhala osakondweretsa ndi kutsekedwa.
Ngati munthu "akumeza" kuseka, ndiye kuti amatanthauza typolyudey, otsimikiza mu zochita zawo, olimbitsa zikhulupiriro zawo. Munthu wotero samakayikira zochita zake, zokhoza zake. Akazi omwe amaseka mofananamo ali omveka, odzikonda okha. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi khalidwe lofuna kwambiri.
Kuseka kuchokera pansi pa mtima, ndi mau ochokera kwa munthu, kungatiuze kuti mwini wake ndi munthu yemwe sangathe kulembedwa. Iye ndi munthu wosakhazikika, malingaliro ake amasintha nthawi ndi nthawi. Nkhani zazikulu sizikhala nazo chidwi kwenikweni.
Ngati munthu atsegula kwambiri pakamwa pake, tikhoza kunena kuti munthuyo ali ndi khalidwe losavuta. Amapindula pamaganizo, kudula, monga akunena, choyamba, ndikuganiza. M'ndandanda wa abwenzi ndi chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri. Ponena za amayi omwe aseka kotero, iwo ndi oimira gulu lomwe limakhudzidwa kwambiri komanso lodziwika bwino. Ali ndi dziko lolemera kwambiri. Ngati kugonana kwabwino kumaseka, pamene kuwonetsetsa "mano makumi atatu ndi awiri", zikuwonekera kumasonyeza khalidwe lolimba.
Kuseka kachetechete kokhala ndi mutu wokhotakhota kumatiuza kuti mwini wake ndi munthu wokoma mtima komanso wokoma mtima. Anthu oterewa amaletsa maganizo awo ndipo samasiya malire oyenera. Ndi anthu okhwima omwe adalera bwino.
Kuseka kwa akazi, kusintha njira yake kuchokera ku khutu mpaka kumveka amalankhula za nzeru za eni ake. Iwo ali ndi chidwi ndi luso, chikondi, dreamy.
Ngati kuseka kumalowa m'malo mwa smirk, momwe milomo imayenderera kumanja, imati ndinu munthu wolimba. Izi, monga ulamuliro, anthu, osasamala komanso awiri.
Osati ambiri angaseke mwa njira yapadera. Monga lamulo, izi ndizofunikira kwa munthu aliyense. Awa ndi anthu omwe amamamatira mwachidwi ndi maganizo awo, ndipo sasamala za ena. Khalani m'dziko la malamulo awo.
Pamwamba ife tafotokoza chimodzi mwa zitsanzo zowoneka kwambiri za munthu wa kuseka zomwe mungamve. Ndipotu, chirichonse chiri chokha. Ndipo kuseka kwa madzi kungadutsedwe ndi mitundu yambiri. Ndipo sikoyenera kuti kutanthauzira kotsimikizika kuyenera kukafika pa izi kapena kuseka. Pano ife tabweretsa zofotokozera momveka, zomwe zitha kuyanjana ndi ena muyeso lina. Mapeto okhudza khalidwe la munthu sangakhale opusa. Ndipotu, kuseka ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zomwe, palimodzi, zingapereke khalidwe la munthu wina. Mu chitsanzo chathu, khalidwe la kuseka lingatipatse lingaliro labwino la munthu.
Ndipo, potsirizira pake, ndikanafuna kuthetsa nthano za nkhuku. Zimakhulupirira kuti mothandizidwa ndi makoswe mungathe kuseka, choncho, ndikulimbikitseni. Asayansi a ku America amakhulupirira kuti izi siziri choncho. Iwo anayesa kuyesa ndikufotokoza kuti kuseka komwe munthu amafalitsa panthawi ya nkhuku sikumadziwa, sadziwa kanthu, kotero kuti sangathe kusangalala komanso kusangalala kwambiri.