Kuopa kwa ana athu ndi, makamaka, chipatso cha malingaliro owopsedwa ndi winawake kapena chinachake cha mwana. Kawirikawiri, izo sizilibe kanthu momwe tingatanthauzire mantha athu aumunthu. Ndikofunika kuti mantha a ana athu asafunike, chifukwa nthawi zina amachititsa kuti moyo wathu usasamalire komanso wopanda pake. Mwina chovuta kwambiri cha mantha a ana athu ndi kupanda nzeru kwawo komanso kusowa kwa mgwirizano ndi zenizeni. Mantha ndi othandiza kwambiri, chifukwa sizowona kuti chilengedwe chinatidalitsa ndikumverera kotere. Poyamba, munthu akamakhala kumalo otentha, nthawi zambiri ankamupulumutsa ku imfa ina.
Tiyeni tiwone zomwe mantha a ana athu akugwirizana nawo, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti tipeze chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso chitukuko cha sayansi yathu.
Kawirikawiri mantha a ana athu amapezeka muzochitika zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, phokoso lakuthwa ndi lamphamvu, kutuluka kwa msendo mwamsanga pamaso pathu, kumveka kwa madzi aipiipi m'nyumba, choyeretsa. Mndandandawu ukhoza kupitilira kwamuyaya, popeza malingaliro aunyamata alibe malire. Choncho, mantha a ana athu akhoza kukhala odabwitsa kwambiri.
Zichitika kuti muutsikana ife, pochita mantha ndi mdima ndi mdima wodetsedwa kuchokera ku kuwala kodabwitsa, pokhala wamkulu, osadziwuza tokha, tikuwopa kukhala okha. Kuwonjezera apo, zimachitika kuti ife, oopsya muubwana, timayamba kuopa ntchentche, zitsamba, nyama zowonongeka, madokotala a mano, chilango chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kochepa ndi zina zotero. N'zotheka kulemba zinthu zambiri zopanda chilungamo poona munthu wamkulu yemwe angachite mantha ndi maganizo a mwanayo, zomwe zimayambitsa mantha athu aunyamata mu moyo wachikulire.
Ambiri a mantha athu aunyamata, akuwonekera kwa kanthawi kochepa muunyamata, akusowa popanda tsatanetsatane, koma nthawi zina zimachitika kuti mantha omwe timakumana nawo muubwana amakhalanso achikulire pamene tikulamulidwa ndi dziko loopsya lachidziwitso, ndipo malingaliro osadziwika, kuwongolera, akuyang'ana zochokera kunja. Tikamabisa mantha a ana athu, ndiye kuti timakhala ndi chidwi kwa anthu omwe timakhala nawo kusiyana ndi munthu amene amawopsyeza pochezera dokotala wa mano.
Pofuna kuchepetsa mantha awo omwe ali nawo muubwana, timayamba kuganiza kuti palibe ngozi. Potero timayesa kutsimikizira kusayeruzika kwa njira ya kulingalira za kukumbukira kukumbukira kuyambira nthawi yobwana. Koma kwenikweni ndi chinyengo chachikulu ndikuyesera kudzipusitsa tokha. Monga momwe moyo umasonyezera, njira iyi yopereka galimoto imagwirira ntchito, ndipo mantha athu aumunthu amatha kumbuyo, kupereka njira kumalingaliro akuluakulu a munthu. Kotero, kudzidzimangiriza tokha kuti ife timakonda, mwachitsanzo, galu wosochera, ife tikuyamba kuona zochepa za mantha a mwanayo. Komabe, muzu wathu kwa galu wa mantha umakula kuyambira ubwana. Mwinamwake, monga mwana, munkachita mantha ndi kukukuta kwa galu, ndipo tsopano mukuyamba ndikuyesera kupewa agalu.
Chinthu chododometsa kwambiri ndi chakuti pamene tikuopa kwambiri chinachake, kuzindikira kwathu kumayamba kubweretsa mantha a ana athu pamwamba pa chidziwitso. Zili ngati kayendedwe kake, kamene kakukula nthawi zonse. Kamodzi, ndikugonjetsedwa ndi agalu athu achikulire, timatha kuzindikira patapita kanthawi kuti tinayamba kuopa zinthu zina zomwe tinaziwona mosadandaula. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito kwa inu.
Tangoganizani nokha muli mwana ndipo musayese kuthetsa mantha a ana, koma yang'anani ndi maso otseguka, ndikuwatsogolera kukambirana kuti athetse mkangano. Tiyeni tibwerere ku chitsanzo chomwecho ndi galu. Yang'anani galu wopanda pokhala, taganizirani momwe akukhala molakwika pamsewu. Khalani ndi chifundo, ndiyeno, mmalo mwa mantha mantha adzabwera kumverera kwatsopano - chisoni, ndi kumbuyo kwa chikondi chake cha machiritso. Posachedwapa mudzatha kudutsa popanda mantha kudutsa galu. Chinsinsi cha kumvetsetsa mantha athu aumunthu sichimatsimikiziridwa ndi zenizeni zenizeni ndi mfundo zomwe timaziopa ndikuzipewa, koma chifukwa chomwe chimatilimbikitsa kuti tichite zimenezi.
Musaphunzire kulimbana ndi mantha aunyamata, koma phunzirani momwe mungawawerengere. Ndiye inu mukhoza kuiwala za iwo kwamuyaya. Chisamaliro chidzayamba kubwereza mantha a ana athu mu mtundu watsopano wa chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa kuti sizowona, komabe ndi malingaliro a mwana yekha.