Palibe kukayika kuti izi ndi zofunika.
Osachepera kuti ateteze ana ake ku mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Poyamba, izi zikumveka zachilendo, koma pali kugwirizana pakati pa chikhalidwe cha munthu ndi chizoloŵezi. Kotero, asayansi a Chingerezi, atafunsa mafunso oposa anthu chikwi, adapeza kuti pakati pa mafani a nyimbo zapamwamba, anthu 1.5% okha omwe afunsidwa "ndi abwenzi ndi botolo". Ngakhale mafilimu 24% a hip-hop ndi zamagetsi amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso kusintha maukwati, monga magolovesi. Komabe, izi sizikutseguka. Ngakhale wafilosofi wa ku China wakale, dzina lake Xun Tzu, analemba kuti: "Nyimbo zikalephereka, anthu amanyalanyaza ndipo amakhala aukhanza, achilendo komanso osayenera." Zomwezo zikhoza kunenedwa pamabuku opanda pake, mafilimu, masewera ... Choncho, ngati mukufuna mwanayo tsogolo labwino, yambani kuchita "acculturation" mwamsanga!
"Murka" kapena "The Nutcracker"?
Inde, tifunika kuyamba ndi tokha. Mukhoza kudzaza nyumbayi ndi mabuku ojambula, pamene inu nokha mukuyang'ana "Dom-2"; Mukhoza kumuletsa mwanayo kuti aike zitsulo pa tebulo, ndipo mumanyengerera mbale mukatha kudya; mungathe kuphatikiza zida zazing'ono za ana, ndipo inu nokha muzimvetsera nyimbo - onetsetsani kuti mwanayo samakhulupirira mawu anu, koma khalidwe lanu. Ndiyeno uzifanizire. Sizodziwika kuti ana ambiri ochita masewero, olemba ndi ojambula amavomereza kuti makolo sanagwiritse ntchito "kuwalimbikitsa" - anali ndi mabuku abwino m'nyumba, alendo okondwera anabwera ndi nyimbo zabwino. Mwa njira, za nyimbo. Asayansi asonyeza kuti kale pa sabata la 18-20 la mimba mwana amatha kuzindikira nyimbo. Makamaka nyimbo, monga ntchito za Mozart ndi Vivaldi. Choncho, ngati mukukonzekera kubereka mwana wina, muthandizeni mwakumvetsera bwino ngakhale asanabadwe. Komabe, ngati mutachedwa ndi maphunziro a "pathupi", zonse sizinawonongeke. Aphatikizeni ana ndi nyimbo zosiyana - osati nyimbo za ana okha, komanso zojambulajambula, jazz, manyolo. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti ndi nyimbo zabwino, osati katundu wotsika mtengo, zomwe zimasewera pazitsulo zonse. Akatswiri amalangiza kuyamba ndi jazz - n'zosavuta kuzindikira, ndipo pokhapokha mutha kumvetsera mwachidule. Funsani mwanayo malingaliro ake kapena nyimbo zina zomwe zimayambitsa. Kodi ntchitoyi ikutanthawuza chiyani, mwinamwake ana adzagona tulo chifukwa cha zonyansa. Simukufuna kutanthauzira tanthauzo la kuimba kwa nightingale - kungosangalala ndi matsenga atatu. Kwa mwanayo sanataya chidwi ndi nyimbo zachilendo, zikanizeni kwa kanthawi kochepa. Poyamba, maminiti atatu kapena asanu adzakhala okwanira. Ndiye adzakhala ndi chikhumbo chomvetsera. Limbikitsani mwanayo kuti apange nyimbo zawo. Kuti muchite izi, mungagule ku "ana a" orchestra "ana", kuyambira pa mapaipi ndi ngoma komanso kumaliza ndi synthesizer. Mwana wanu amasangalala ndi kuyesa phokoso. Lembani wolowa nyumba ku sukulu ya nyimbo. Musawope kuti iye sangakhalebe wolimba masamu.
Ayi ndithu!
Asayansi a ku Swiss ndi Austrian asonyeza kuti maphunziro a nyimbo amathandiza mwamsanga kuphunzira sayansi yeniyeni ndi zinenero zakunja. Ndipo ofufuza a ku America adapeza kuti kusewera zida zimathandiza ana a zaka zapakati pa 4-7, akusiya kumbuyo, akutsata anzawo powerenga ndikupeza masamu.
Kugwirana manja kumaloledwa
Mwanayo "adzafulumira" mwachikondi komanso makhalidwe abwino, ngati muwerenga zambiri. Osati magazini a achinyamata, mabuku okonda zachikondi ndi zotengera zosakwanira, koma mabuku enieni. Kuzoloŵera kuŵerenga kwenikweni kuchokera pachiyambi. Mulole mwanayo asakhale ndi ziphuphu, komanso mabuku omwe angagwiridwe, kuyang'anitsidwa komanso atengeke (tsopano mabuku ambiri amagulitsidwa kuti asasokonezeke ndi madzi kapena mano a ana akuthwa) - mwana wanu adziwone kuti mabuku yendani naye kulikonse. Werengani zambiri nokha. Ngati mwamuna wamng'ono nthawi zambiri amawona amayi ndi abambo ali ndi buku m'manja mwake, dzanja lake lidzakokedwa ku bukhulo, osati ku banki ndi mowa. Werengani mwanayo asanagone - si ana okha omwe amakonda, komanso ana a sukulu aang'ono. Ngati mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi amadana ndi mabuku, omwe ndi achilendo m'zaka zapitazo, amadza ndi dongosolo lolimbikitsa. Mwachitsanzo, chifukwa chakuti mwanayo anayamba kuwerenga zambiri, amulole kuti ayende kwa ora limodzi ndi kukhala pa kompyuta. Ambiri adzatsutsa - sikutheka kuphunzitsa chikondi chowerenga motere. Inde, poyamba, mwanayo adzayenera kudzigonjetsa yekha, koma ndithudi adzakomoka. Ndikofunika kuti musankhe mabuku ndi zaka. Choncho, mwana wazaka 10 sangamvetse konse "Uphungu ndi Chilango", koma "Adventures ya Tom Sawyer" adzalandira. Njira yabwino - audiobooks. Mwanayo akhoza kuwamvetsera, mwachitsanzo, panjira yopita ku kanyumba kapena pogona. Zochepa zochezeka, koma njira zochepetsera "zokondweretsa" - kupita kumaseŵera, mawonetsedwe ndi malo osungiramo zinthu zakale. Kuwotcha kunali kosangalatsa, sankhani zomwe akufuna. Mwachitsanzo, ana nthawi zambiri amadandaula chifukwa chovutika m'masamu, chifukwa palibe chomwe chingakhudze manja. Komabe, pali malo osungiramo zinthu omwe malamulo awa sakugwiritsidwa ntchito. Ndipo maulendowa amatha kulenga kwambiri kuposa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito. "Wolemba ndakatulo wotchuka anabadwa chaka chomwecho ndi chaka chotero, anamwalira motero, ndipo amakhala m'nyumba muno". Kuwonjezera apo, musayesere kudutsa nyumba yonse yosungiramo zinthu zakale panthawi, makamaka ngati yayikulu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwafika ku nyumba yosungirako zojambulajambula, sankhani chipinda chimodzi kapena muwonetseni ana zithunzi zomwe amakonda. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi masewera. Pitani katatu pa sabata pa zochitika za ana. Aliyense azipita ku zisudzo n'kukhala holide. Ngati muli ndi ntchito yowonjezereka - kutembenuza wachinyamata kukhala woyendetsa masewera otchuka, amene amakhala mosangalala pamaso pa TV kapena akuyendayenda pamsewu, poyamba kusankha masewera achinyamata. Ana amakopeka ndi chibwenzi ndi mpweya wapadera umene ukulamulira kumeneko. Chabwino, ndiye inu mukhoza kuwawuza iwo ku masitantiki. Sizongoganizira chabe kuti nthawi zonse masewerawa amatha kukhala ofanana ndi maphunziro apamwamba.
Kodi simungakhale olemekezeka kwambiri?
Tiyerekeze kuti mumatha kukonza kukoma kwa mwana wanu, ndipo sichidzakhalanso "chidwi" chochokera ku techno kapena kujambula. Koma pamafunika kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino. Tsopano mabuku ambiri pa zodzikongoletsera, okonzedwera kwa zaka zirizonse, amalembedwa (pakuti wamng'ono kwambiri ali ndi katoto komwe amauzidwa momwe angakhalire pa phwando, patebulo, poyendetsa, etc.). Ana okalamba akhoza kupita ku sukulu ya makhalidwe abwino (maphunziro omwe amachitikira kumapeto kwa sabata, kotero izi sizikusokoneza sukulu), kumene amaphunzira kukongola, kukongola ndi kuphweka kwa kuyankhulana (osati kusokonezeka ndi kudziŵa). Chabwino, zofunikira za khalidwe labwino muyenera kudziyika nokha. Lamulo loyambirira ndilo kuloweza pamtima maina a oyankhulana. Wina Roosevelt adanena kuti iyi ndi njira yeniyeni yopambana chisomo cha ena. Lamulo lachiwiri: musaiwale kupereka moni kwa ena. Gangbang wa zaka zitatu akhoza kale kufotokoza yemwe angamutche "inu", ndi ndani - mwapadera "kwa inu." Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi - kutambasulira chogwiritsira ntchito "hello" ndikuwatsitsimula. Ngati simukuphunzitsa mwanazo zoyenera zaulemu ali wamng'ono, ndiye kuti "pa zotsatira" mudzapeza mwana wovutika, akung'ung'udza pansi pa mphuno zake zosakondweretsa "moni" poyankha moni wa anzanu. Lamulo lachitatu ndiloyenera kutenga amai pazinthu. Mnyamatayo ayenera kudziwa kuti mu chipinda muyenera kuchotsa chipewa, kuti atsikana ndi abambo ayenera kupita patsogolo ndipo mayiyo ayamikire ngati atapereka dzanja lake atatuluka basi kapena atsegula chitseko m'sitolo (ndi bwino ngati zonsezi zikuwonetsedwa tsiku ndi tsiku kwa mwana wa bambo , osati kukondedwa ndi bambo ake mu bukhu la ulemu). Msungwanayo amaphunzitsidwa kuyamikira kuthandizidwa ndi kugonana kolimba pamene, mwachitsanzo, wophunzira naye amamupatsa iye kunyamula chikwama cholemera kapena kuthandiza kuvala chovala. Ndipo zambiri. Onetsetsani kuti muchepetse pa zaka. Ana osapitirira zaka zitatu sangaphunzire china chilichonse: ngati mamembala onse ali olemekezana wina ndi mzake, mwanayo adzalandira "mawu amatsenga" mwachindunji cha mawu pamodzi ndi mkaka wa amayi. Wophunzira sukulu amakonda masewerawo, choncho m'malo momangokhalira kumangokhalira kukonda, ganizirani za nthano zomwe mungathe kuchita masewera osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, kuti simungatchule wina aliyense, kufuula, kuswa zidole za anthu ena, ndi zina zotero. Iye akhoza kupatsidwa "ndondomeko" pa ntchito iliyonse yaulemu. Mankhwala akhoza kukhala chirichonse kuchokera ku ayisikilimu kuti apange. Adadi, mumvetsetse vutoli, palibe chosowa - iwo amangotaya kunja.
Za kulawa-ndi kulawa
Makolo ambiri amaphunzitsa ana a zida zophimba nsalu: mwachitsanzo, kuti nthawi ya chakudya sungasokonezedwe ndi TV kapena foni. Koma zabwino zokometsetsa chakudya, maso, sizinayengedwe, choncho ana amadya zonse zomwe akufuna: zipsu, agalu otentha, hamburgers ... Panthawiyi, ngakhale mu America, "anatembenuka" pa chakudya chofulumira, tsopano kudya mafasho wathanzi. Ndipo m'mayiko ambiri a European Union akukondwerera Tsiku la Chakudya Chopatsa Thanzi, pamene abusa a malo odyera otchuka amapanga zakudya zokoma za ana kuchokera ku zakudya zosavuta. Cholinga chazochita ndikuwatsimikizira ana kuti chakudya chokonzekera ndi manja awo ndi chochepa kwambiri komanso chofunika kwambiri kuposa masangweji okonzeka. Ndipo alola ana athu kuti asadyetsedwe ndi chakudya chofulumira komanso mankhwala otsiriza, monga kumadzulo, bwanji osakonza Phwando la Zakudya Zakudya Zakudya Pakhomo Panu? Ndipotu, yemwe, osati mayi, amauza mwanayo zomwe zabwino zimagwirizana ndi zoipa, komanso kukoma kwake kwabwino.