Mtsikana wokondwera amasunga chidole, amamudyetsa supuni, amayenda pa njinga ya olumala ndikuphunzitsa malamulo a khalidwe labwino. Choncho, aliyense wa ana akukonzekera moyo wachikulire. Ndipo nkofunika kuti ana adzione ngati ali otetezeka m'masewerawa. Masewera kwa atsikana, ana aamayi - nkhani yofalitsidwa.
Kuchokera kutsanzira kusintha
Masewerawa mu mwana wamkazi wa amayi amayamba kawirikawiri kuyambira nthawi yowonjezera zakudya zowonjezera: ..Lady porridge mishutka, supuni - Ole. "Zochita izi, mwanayo amadzibwereza yekha.Kodi kwenikweni, lingaliro la" chisamaliro "- chinthu chachikulu chosewera mwa mayi wamkazi, . Pambuyo pokhapokha ngati phokoso limasamalira chiphuphu, khutu, kapena chidole (mosasamala kanthu kuti angathe kunyamula chidole ndi iye ndi kuchigwedeza chotani), wina anganene kuti sitepe imodzi yatoledwa.
• Gawo loyamba la masewerawa (zaka 1,5-2) ndilo kutsanzira zochitika zosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku: chimbudzi chimadyetsa chidole, chimbudzi, madzi.
• Pachigawo chachiwiri (kuyambira zaka zitatu), mwanayo salemba chabe zochita za akuluakulu, koma amawonanso masewerawo. Chidole kapena chimbalangondo chikhoza kale kuchoka pa supuni ndi phala, kukhala wosazindikira, mantha kapena kuseka. Ng'ombe yaing'onoting'ono imangokhalira, ikuwongolera, imalanga iwo.
• Mwana wa zaka 4-6 yemwe amasewera ana ake aakazi, ndipo ana okalamba akusowa kale anzawo. Masewerawa amakhala gawo la nkhani. Zimasonyeza kuti mwanayo amatha kubwezeretsanso, kumatsanzira khalidwe la ena. Nthawi zina amayi amamayi amasewera ndi anyamata, komabe ntchito yomwe adawapatsidwa siidali yofunikira. Masewera awa amapita kuntchito, amapita kuntchito kapena amapita ku nkhondo. Kawirikawiri, anyamata ena amasangalala kusewera ndi zidole, koma izi zimachitika kawirikawiri. Koma kwa atsikana 4-6, msinkhu wamkazi ndiwopambana ndi masewera omwe amawakonda omwe amatha kuchoka pa masewerawo "repertoire" kupita koyamba kapena atsopano - ku kalasi yachisanu.
Bambo wachikondi
Ngati mnyamata akusewera ndi zidole ... Ziri bwinobwino! Ali ndi zaka 2-3, anyamata, monga anzawo, amatha "kuphunzitsira" mwanayo mwachidwi, kumudyetsa ndi supuni komanso kuyenda ndi woyendetsa galimoto. Masewerawa ndi chidole amamuthandiza mwanayo kukhala ndi maganizo. Amapeza zatsopano, kuyesa maudindo osiyanasiyana: bambo mu masewera, mayi wamkazi, dokotala, ngati ana akusewera kuchipatala .Zomwe zimakhalira (zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa) zimapangitsa kuti malingaliro agwire ntchito mwakhama.Zothandizidwa ndi zidole ndi ziphuphu, anyamata, monga atsikana, amaphunzira kumvetsetsa ndi kuyanjana ndi dziko. mwayi kupita nokha kuchokera kunja ndipo nthawi yomweyo kumvetsa zina, kumatha maganizo kupsyinjika, ndi "kusewera" kukangana.
Gula chidole
Chidole choyamba chiyenera kuperekedwa kwa zaka zopitirira zaka chimodzi ndi theka. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, mwanayo amamuchitira ngati chidole china, kuyesera kumvetsa zomwe iye ali. Kotero posachedwa mtengo wamtengo wapatali udzasokonezeka mu zigawo zina. Pambuyo pake mwanayo, akuyang'ana malo ake, akupeza kuti ndi chidole ichi mukhoza kupanga zinthu zina zambiri zosangalatsa. Kusamba, kusintha zovala - zomwe mwanayo adzabwereza tsiku ndi tsiku. Kotero pa gawo ili lakutamandidwa kwa dziko lapansi, abwino kwambiri si abwino kwambiri, koma ngati masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mwachitsanzo, chidole chofewa, chofewa ndi chosangalatsa kukhudza. Kapena zidole zopangidwa ndi pulasitiki yosinthasintha yomwe yasambitsidwa bwino. Mtsikana woposa zaka ziwiri ayenera kugula kale chidole chokhala ndi tsitsi lalitali, chomwe chingathe kutsukidwa, chophatikizidwa komanso chokongoletsedwa mu nkhumba za nkhumba. Posankha chidole, ganizirani kuti sikukhala kokha wotsogolera maganizo, malingaliro a mwana, komanso adzasiya chizindikiro pa chikhalidwe chake. Kusokonezeka kwa zifaniziro za akazi ndi ana, zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito zidole zamakono, zimasokoneza zidolezo: mwina kusamalira chidole, kapena kuyesa kukhala ngati iye. Akatswiri ambiri a maganizo a ana akuganiza kuti asiye zidole zosonyeza akazi achikulire palimodzi. Ndipotu, Masha, Barbie kapena Katya omwe safunikira chisamaliro cha amayi. Momwemonso, masewera a chikhalidwe pakati pa mayi wamkazi ndi iwo sangagwire ntchito. Poyamba, ndizo zabwino. Komabe, mu ubwana kuti chitsanzo cha khalidwe la mayi wamtsogolo chimayikidwa. Ulamuliro wina: chidole sichiyenera kugonana. Mwanayo mwiniyo amasankha yemwe adzakhale nawo pa masewerawo.
Kuyenda ndi woyendetsa
Pambuyo pa zaka 2-3 masewerawa pang'onopang'ono akukhala ovuta, palifunika zatsopano. Mwachitsanzo, mothandizidwa ndi ziwiya za toyuniki mukhoza kukonza tiyi. Izi sizosangalatsa basi, komanso phunziro lothandiza. Kukulitsa luso laling'ono lamagetsi, mwana amatha kuzindikira lingaliro: amaphunzira kutsanulira madzi, kuima pakapita nthawi. Chinthu china chimene chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu masewera kuchokera pa msinkhu womwewo ndi woyendayenda. Kuyenda ndi woyendetsa phokoso kumapangitsa mwanayo kukhala ndi luso lapamwamba, amakula mofulumira, chifukwa mwanayo ayenera kutembenuka, kupita pansi ndi kukwera.
Tikuyang'ana pa zonsezi!
Kwa makolo, masewerawa mwa amayi a mwana wamkazi akhoza kukhala malo osungiramo zinthu zowonjezera zothandiza. Kuwonetsa kosadziwika kwa masewera a mwana wamkazi (mwana) ndi chidole kudzakulolani kuti mudziwe bwino mwana wanu. Ndikofunika kuti tisasokoneze pazochitikazo komanso kuti tisayankhe zomwe zikuchitika. Mu masewerawa ndi chidole, mwanayo amachita maudindo awiri - ana aakazi ndi amayi. Kulankhula za chidole, mau otukuka omwe akufuna ("Sindifuna kupita ku sukulu"), Kuwopsya ("Ndikuopa mdima"), mkwiyo ("Mudalonjeza kuti mudzapita nane ku zoo!") Koma ngakhale chidwi choyenera chiyenera kukhala amayi. Amayankhula ndi mwanayo Kodi amatha kukhala chete kapena kumangomva yekha? Kodi amamvetsera mwanayo kapena amamuyang'anira? Kodi mayiyo nthawi zambiri amamutamanda? Ndiwothandiza kwambiri komanso masewera ophatikizana ndi ana aakazi. Pamene akusewera chidole, mwanayo adzayankha mafunso, zomwe mumasamala nazo (mukhoza kufunsa chidole chomwe sakuchikonda, momwe akumverera). Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana wamng'ono akudandaula mu sitolo, tsiku lotsatira, mumufunse kuti azitha kuchita udindo wa kholo. Zingakhale zowonjezereka powonetsa zopanda pake, koma sizothandiza kupanga zofanana ndi zochitika zenizeni - munthu wovuta amadziganiza yekha.
Kodi mumsewero muyenera kuchenjeza?
• Chiwawa champhamvu. Kuwonongeka kumaphwanya kapena kuswa chidole. Iyi ndi nthawi yoti muganizire, mwinamwake mwasankha khalidwe lovuta kwambiri ndi mwanayo, mwamukulanga kwambiri chifukwa cha khalidwe lake lochepa.
• Nkhani zosindikiza. Mwanayo wataya zofanana. Mwachitsanzo, mwanayo akubwereza chidole mobwerezabwereza kuti: "Iwe ndiwe mtsikana woipa, ufunse mphika!" Mwachiwonekere, pofuna kuti mwana azizoloŵera pamphika, makolo akugonjetsa ndodoyo. Masewerawo amasonyeza nkhondo, ndewu, ngozi pamsewu, kusewera nthawi izi kumuthandiza mwanayo kuthetsa kukumbukira koopsa.
• Zolinga za kugonana. Ngati pali "masewera a pabedi" mu masewerawa, simukusowa kukhudzidwa ndi pang'ono podziwa, koma kuti mutembenukire kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo a mwana. Zidziwitso zimenezi zisanafike nthawi zingakhumudwitse psyche.