Kumene mungapeze mwamuna kwa mkazi atatha zaka 40

Kotero, tiyeni tiyerekeze zomwezo - kwa inu mnzanu wina, mnzako, bwenzi, mnzako, kumudziwa mnzako kapena mnansi wa mnzako wakhala akukusamalirani kwa nthawi yaitali ndikulephera. Ndipo, pa chifukwa chimodzi, chibwenzi chake chimakulemetsani. Mwinamwake mnzanuyo amachitira zinthu izi popanda kumvetsa.

Mwinamwake inu nokha musaganize izi zomveka. Kapena ali ndi nkhope yosasangalatsa, masokosi mu bokosi la chikasu ndi tayi ya mtundu wolakwika. Musamvetse. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti mwaganiza kuti potsirizira pake mudzathetse vutolo ndikumuuza zakukhosi kwake. Ndipo apa funso likubuka - momwe tingachitire izo?

Kodi mungapeze kuti mwamuna? Nkhaniyi ikudetsa nkhaŵa osati atsikana okha, komanso amayi a "zaka zokongola". Kudziwa bwino wosankhidwa wake ndi kukwatirana koyamba m'zaka zake zazing'ono, ndizosavuta. Koma momwe angakhalire okalamba, ndani omwe angakhale okwatira kale, anala ana ndi zidzukulu? Chikhumbo chokhala wachimwemwe sichidalira zaka. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kukwatira, muyenera kuchitapo kanthu. Tulukani pa bedi lanu losasunthika kwambiri ndipo pitani kumene amuna amtsogolo angapezeke. Sikofunikira, ndithudi, kukangamira chizindikiro kuti "Ndikufuna kukwatiwa" kapena kukhazikitsa zolinga "kukwatiwa ndi nambala kapena nambala kapena kotere" - kuti muwopseze anthu omwe mungakwanitse, koma muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyembekezera chimwemwe. Maganizo amenewa adzakuwonjezerani chithumwa chapadera, kuthamanga kwapamwamba komanso kuwala kwa maso.

Khalani ndi zida zankhondo, ngakhale pamene muli nokha pakhomo, ngakhale pamene muthamangira ku sitolo yoyandikana nayo ya mkate. Izi sizikutanthawuza, kuti, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala ndi mapangidwe, zidendene ndi zovala zanu zabwino, koma amayi akhoza kukhala okongola nthawi zonse pamene akufuna, ndipo sizidalira zovala, zibangili kapena zodzoladzola. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse, ndi kukoma ndi kuvala bwino komanso ndi chiyembekezo cha chimwemwe mu moyo. Musaiwale za zokoma zowonongeka, kukondana, kupatulapo momwe munthu angamvetsetse kuti simukutsutsana. Ndipo musapangidwe kuti palibe amuna okwanira m'dziko lathu, sipadzakhala okwanira kwa onse, amuna onse abwino ali okwatira. Sikokwanira kwa iwo amene safuna kutenga zofuna zawo.

Kotero mukhoza kuyesa kukwaniritsa tsogolo lanu, mwachitsanzo:

• m'sitilanti ndipo makamaka madzulo pamene munthu amamwa khofi kapena amawerenga nyuzipepala.
• mu ndege kapena m'chipinda cha sitima, chifukwa kukhala mu malo osatsekedwa kumapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kudziwana.
• pa masewera olimbitsa thupi, mu dziwe - nthawi zonse pamakhala nkhani yowonongeka, ngati inu nonse muli panjira yophunzitsira thupi ndi mzimu.
• pa maphunziro a chilankhulo chachilendo, kuyendetsa galimoto, m'magulu pamagulu - zochitika zowonjezera kapena zolinga zomwe zimagwirizanitsa.
• m'masitolo ogulitsa mabuku - m'masiku athu opusa sakhala osangalatsa kwa aliyense.
• m'masitolo ogwiritsidwa ntchito mu katundu, momwe amuna amadziwira bwino, mwachitsanzo, m'masitolo a makompyuta kapena m'masitolo ogulitsira. Oimira abambo amphamvu adzasangalala kuyankha mafunso anu.
• mu maulendo okaona malo oyendayenda, ma sanatoriums, mabungwe ndi nyumba zopumula - izi ndizo malo abwino kwambiri kwa anthu odziwa nawo.
• mu polyclinics - motalika akhala pamsewu akukankhira anthu kulankhula,
• mu makanema - mungathe kungolowa mu chipinda chowerengera, kuyang'anitsitsa m'mabuku ndikuyankhula ndi mlendo.
• kuntchito - mabuku ovomerezeka nthawi zina amachititsa ukwati.
• pamsewu - bwanji osayesa kulankhula nawe mumsewu?
• poyendetsa pagalimoto - sitimayiwala munthu wotchuka A. Batalov mu filimuyo "Moscow sakhulupirira misonzi".
• Potsiriza, yang'anani kupyolera mu bukhu lanu lakale, mwinamwake anzanu a m'kalasi kapena anzanu akusukulu akudikirira kuyankhulana nanu, kuyamba ndikulankhula, ndipo apo izo zidzawoneka.
• Afunseni anzanu za mabwenzi kapena abambo olekana - chibwenzi chimalimbikitsidwa ndi nthawi. Osakhumudwitsidwa ndipo usataye mtima, ngati suli mwayi mwamsanga, siwe munthu woyamba kukumana nawe, ndi theka lanu.

Timaganiza kuti pali njira zambiri zothetsera chibwenzi osati zonse zomwe zikuwonetsedwa m'nkhani yanga. Banja lirilonse lachimwemwe lidzanena, pansi pa zochitika zachikondi ndi zachilendo zomwe adzidziŵa.

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