Kodi mkazi aliyense amalota chiyani? kuti amamukonda, amayamikiridwa ndipo wina amamufuna.
Nchiyani chimapangitsa mkazi kukhala wosangalala? Kumverera kwa kukondedwa ndi kufunikira.
Koma, monga lamulo, chilakolako chokhazikitsa maubwenzi atsopano pambuyo pa chisudzulo sichibwera posachedwa - izi ndi zoona, koma n'zotheka komanso kofunika kulimbana nacho. Kukwatira pambuyo pa chisudzulo kumakhalanso kovuta chifukwa kudzidalira kwa mkazi kumakhala koipa kwambiri.
Kodi mukufuna kubwerera kumwetulira, kuwala ndi chimwemwe pamaso panu? Choncho, tidzatha kugwira ntchito tokha ndikuyesera kuti tidzakhalenso ndi chidaliro.
Yang'anani mmbuyo, mukukhala kuti? Nchiyani chiri pafupi nanu? Zinthu zambiri zomwe ziri ngati kunyamula zinyalala ndi zikumbutso za mkazi wanu wakale. Sulani nyumba yanu ya zinthu zosafunikira. Musalekerere zinthu zakale - osati zozizwitsa. Chinthu choyamba kupita ku zinyalala chingakhale zinthu ndi zinthu zomwe zikukumbutseni za banja lanu.
Inu nokha simudzazindikira kuti ndi chinthu chilichonse chatayika, mudzamasula mtima wanu ndi moyo wanu ku malingaliro okhumudwitsa - padzakhala kuwala mu moyo wanu, zomwe zikutanthawuza chiyembekezo kuti moyo uyamba.
Chinthu chotsatira ndicho kusintha moyo wanu. Zokwanira! Muziiwala nthawi zonse - kunyumba, ntchito, kunyumba.
Nthawi yaulere, perekani zochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe mumakonda.
Khalani katswiri wa maganizo. Kodi mwakhala mukupita kuchitetezo kwa nthawi yaitali? Pita patsogolo. Mwa njira, iyi ndiyo njira yabwino yopezera chisangalalo ndi kukwatira pambuyo pa chisudzulo.
Pitani kwa abwenzi ku nyumba yachinyumba - pita mlungu ndi chilengedwe. Kapena mugule kuti mutumizire kalabu yamagulu olimbitsa thupi kwambiri.
Zokwanira kudziletsa nokha - musasunge ndalama ndi maganizo kuti mukhale osangalala.
Kuphatikizana kwakukulu kwambiri ndi kuthetsa banja - mwapeza ufulu. Ndipo, chotero, ufulu wochita zomwe zinaletsedwa m'banja. Musakhale moyo wanu - khalani odzaza. Pezani anthu atsopano, mukumane ndi anzanu. Musakane kukwatirana ndi amuna.
Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, palibe wina amene angasonyeze zomwe zingatheke ndi zomwe sizingatheke. Tsopano, ndinu bwana wanu omwe.
Mulimonsemo, musaiwale za maonekedwe anu. Dzipatseni holide - pitani ku spa, khalani ndi tsitsi labwino, muzipanga, mugule zovala zonse mu sitolo - ngati zingakondweretseni inu.
Ndiwe mkazi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mawonekedwe anu, nkhope yanu ndi chifaniziro chanu chikhale bwino. Yesetsani nokha - simungokhala wokongola komanso wodzidalira nokha, komanso yambani kudziyesa nokha mosiyana.
Mukachotsa chisoni ndi chisoni, maso anu adzalanso. Inunso mukufuna kuthamanga pa masiku, mutenge manja a maluwa - mukufuna kukhala mkazi, mkazi wokondwa.
Padzakhala maloto okwatirana pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Mukadakumana ndi mwamuna wanu, musakumbukire maubwenzi akale. Inde, zidzakhala zovuta kuti muphunzire kudalira kachiwiri. Koma, popanda kudalira, simungakhale ndi ubale wabwino.
Mulole bamboyo akungokupangitsani inu kukondwa. Muyang'aneni iye. Mwamuna wachikondi ali ngati mwana. Maganizo ake onse ndi malingaliro ake amawerengedwa, kwenikweni m'maso.
Kuti mukwatirane mutatha kusudzulana - pangani ndondomeko yanu yamalonda, yomwe mudzamangire miyoyo yanu ndi manja anu.
Mundikhulupirire ine, khama pang'ono, moyo wanu ukhoza kusandulika mu nthano - popanda mabodza, kusakhulupirika, misonzi ndi kusakhulupirika.
Chinthu chachikulu, khulupirirani nokha, khulupirirani kuti ndinu woyenera chikondi.
Ubale watsopano pambuyo pa chisudzulo uli ngati minda yam'madzi - simudziwa zomwe zikukuyembekezerani ndi sitepe yatsopano.
Koma, ngati mutatenganso mphamvu ndi kulimba mtima mutatha chisudzulo, ndiye muli ndi ufulu wonse wokondwa ndikukwatirana ndi munthu woyenera.