Ndi chiyani?
Kudzipereka kwa umunthu ndi njira yomwe imatilola kuti tiwoneke bwino. Umu ndi momwe mukuwonekera, momwe mumamveketsera, momwe mumayankhulira ndi kusunthira - zochita zanu zonse zomwe munthu wina angayamikire.
Anthu ambiri amadalira malingaliro a ena, kaya ndi abwenzi okhaokha mumsewu wapansi panthaka kapena abwenzi akale, ndikofunikira kuti tidziwe zomwe iwo amaganiza za ife bwino, kuti timayamikiridwa, zomwe timakonda. Ndilo lingaliro loyesa lomwe limatikakamiza ife ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimathandiza ena kupanga malingaliro ena pa ife.
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti, pofuna kukondweretsa, munthu amachita chinthu chimene chimamuwombera nthawi zonse. Zimadalira mphamvu yodzigonjera, yomwe aliyense alibe. Ena, mmalo mwake, adzichitira okha enieni kuchokera ku mawu oyambirira kapena chizindikiro. Chikoka chachilengedwe ndi ziphuphu. Ngati mu ntchito yanu ndi moyo wanu umoyowu sungakwanire, ndi nthawi yoti muphunzire.
Kuchita kudzipereka kwanu
Pamene tikukumana nanu kapena pamsonkhano wofunikira, zotsatira zomwe mukuyembekeza zimakhala kwa inu. Kaya mukupanga bizinesi kapena kupereka manja ndi mitima, chilolezo cha munthu chidzakhala ndi zinthu zambiri. Zovuta kwambiri ndi anthu ochezeka omwe ali otetezeka.
Ngati muli ngati choncho, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyamba pang'ono. Akatswiri akulankhulana - onse malonda ndi apamtima, khulupirirani kuti munthu sangathe kukhazikitsa luso loyankhulana ndi kudzidziwitsa yekha. Choncho chitani chomwe chingakuthandizeni kudziyang'ana nokha. Kulankhulana bwino ndi achibale, yoga, makalasi ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo angathandize. Izi ndi zofunika kuti muphunzire kumvetsa bwino anthu, zomwe n'zosatheka popanda kudzidziwa nokha kuti ndinu munthu.
Ndiye muyenera kuzindikira kuti ngati simunali wochita masewero, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mukhale chomwe muli, komanso kuti musamawonekere zomwe mukufuna. Falseness ndi yosavuta kuzindikira, ndipo izi zikhoza kuchepetsa kuyesetsa kwanu kuti mukhale ocheza nawo. Choncho musaope kukhala nokha, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti simungakhale osangalatsa. Yesani kukhala monga momwe mumakonda kuwonera ena. Ngati mukufuna kuwona anthu okondana akuzungulirani, khalani, ngati mukufuna kuwona anthu achifundo ndi achifundo omwe akuzungulirani, khalani chomwecho.
Ngati kuyankhulana ndi anthu atsopano sikuli kovuta kwa inu, mumapeza chilankhulo chofala ndi pafupifupi aliyense ndipo simukuopa kuyankhula, ndiye ntchitoyo idzakhala yochepa.
Choyamba, pazochitika zinazake ndizofunikira kudziwa omvera omwe maonekedwe anu adzawerengedwa. Ziribe kanthu kaya pali mabwenzi atsopano mu bar kapena atsopano makasitomala, chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mumadziwa bwino kuti ndi ndani amene angafalitse chithumwa chanu.
Ndiye pali njira ziwiri zomwe mungasankhe. Choyamba, mumasintha kwa omvera. Tiyerekeze kuti muli mu kampani yomwe simumaidziwa kuti mukufuna kutero. Ndizovuta kuti muchite, koma pali njira imodzi yothandiza. Muyenera kukhala ndi zikhalidwe za khalidwe ndi khalidwe la anthu omwe akufuna. Izi zikhoza kukhala manja, chizindikiro cha mawu ndi nthawi ya mawu, nkhani zina, ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunika kusunga pang'ono chabe khalidwe la ena, ndipo mukhoza kuona mosavuta kuti iwo akufuna kudziwa zomwe zimawagwirizanitsa. Inu mumangofunikira chinthu chimodzi - kuti mukhale monga iwo.
Koma njira iyi siigwira ntchito nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina zimapweteka. Choncho, ndikofunika kuti akhudzidwe m'njira zina. Mwachitsanzo, kukhala mtsogoleri, munthu wolemekezeka, yemwe ndi ofunika kwambiri pazokambirana za bizinesi. Mukudziwonetsera nokha ngati mtsogoleri wodziwika amene ulamuliro wake sunafotokozedwe. Kusunthika kokhazikika, mawu otsika ndi amphamvu kwambiri, kufotokozera mawu osasunthika kudzakuthandizani ndi izi. Koma ndizofunikira kudziwa kuti njirayi imagwira ntchito ngati muli pakati pa anthu omwe palibe ofunira pa malo a mtsogoleriyo, ngati simukulimbana nawo.
Kudzipereka kwanu kudzakuthandizani kuti mukhazikitse ena pa masomphenya anu ngati munthu amene amakupindulitsani kwambiri. Nthawi zina ngakhale mu sitolo yamba kapena boma la boma malingaliro onse amayenera kupeza chofunika kapena ntchito mwamsanga. Anthu osadziwika sangapeze zambiri za inu, kupatula zomwe mumapatsa, kotero ngati muwoneka ndikukhala ngati munthu wabwino komanso wabwino kapena wolimba komanso wodzitukumula - mudzakhala momwemo.