Koma mu moyo, si nkhani zonse zotsatila mzere wofanana wa buku lachikazi. Zambiri zimadalira maonekedwe a onse awiri - msungwana wachikondi ndi wonyenga komanso munthu wonyengedwa. Ndipo zowonjezerapo - kuchokera ku zinthu zopanda pake za zojambulajambula. Nthawi zina sitiganizira za iwo ndipo sitimayang'anitsitsa zochita zawo, koma izi, monga mwa malamulo a sayansi, sizimasula zochita zawo.
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Ndani akufuna kuti asangalatse yekha, koma chifukwa cha phindu lina? Inde, palibe! Choncho, zotsatira zake za chiyanjano chomwe chinayamba ndi chinyengo pa izi ndi zomveka. Wonyengerera (kapena wonyenga) atasonyeza mapulani osayenera kuti apeze ntchito yatsopano, malo apamwamba kwambiri, kapena adzafunsidwa kuti alembe nyumbayo mu dzina lawo, wokondedwayo adzaganiza ndithu. Tonsefe sitikufuna kuti tigwiritsidwe ntchito ndipo timachotsa mgwirizano, womangirira zofuna zathu mwamsanga.
Komabe, palibe amene amalepheretsa mgwirizano wopindulitsa. Pankhaniyi palibe maphwando opatsa ndi kulandira. Aliyense amapindula ndi mgwirizano kapena kusinthana. Ngakhale muukwati wokhala ndi zovuta, palibe nthawi imodzi (kapena nthawi zina) imene imapindula ndi ndalama, komanso mnzanu wachiwiri amene amawona mu mgwirizano umenewu kukhala phindu ndi chisangalalo, chisamaliro kapena china.
Choncho, musanamangire nyumba zamchenga pamchenga ("Ndidzakwatiwa ndi mamilioni!"), Ndibwino kuganizira mosamala zomwe mungamupatse. Ndipotu, tonse timakumbukira kumene maubwenzi omwe adayambitsa ndi chinyengo amatsogolera, ndipo ife timayesetsa kupepesa mwayi wonyenga.
Kunyenga kuchokera ku malingaliro abwino
Pano mungaphatikizepo bodza laling'ono ponena za malo okondedwa ndi okondedwa awo, omwe adayankhulana nawo, komanso ovuta kwambiri. Ukwati ukangoyamba, wokondedwa aliyense amayesera kuwoneka bwino kuposa momwe alili. Inde, "Twitter" za momwe timakonda kuphika kapena kukwatulira pansi, kuti sitinakonzekere "chisangalalo chokhala ndi amayi," ndi chothandiza. Mwamunayo, pokhala womasuka komanso wotonthozeka pa nkhaniyi, angathenso kuyitanira muukwati!
Koma simungakhoze kunama popanda zotsatira ngati mutatsimikiza kuti "kukankha" pang'ono ndi kokwanira, ndipo wokondedwayo adzakambiranso maganizo ake. Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani za ukwati, ana, tengani chikhulupiriro chanu (kusiyana ndi chikhulupiriro chake) kapena kukhalapo kwa aakazi odwala pa zomwe zili. Ndipo ngati mutaganizira kuti munthu amene amayamba kukonda popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo adzakuthandizira kugwira ntchito, kuphunzira, kusamalira achibale okalamba kapena kulera ana ku banja loyambirira - khalani. Ndi bwino kumuyerekezera zonse monga ziliri kapena ngakhale pang'ono. "Kukhalitsa", mukhoza "kumaliza masewera" mosavuta, kugwiritsira ntchito zingwe zovuta za moyo kapena kubwereza mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa.
Ngati wokondedwa wanu wasankha kale, amadziwa yekha zomwe ana ali komanso momwe akufunira, ndi kosavuta "kuvomereza" nthawi yomweyo kusiyana ndi kubisala ndi kubisa choonadi. Ndipotu, maubwenzi omwe adayamba ndi chinyengo, kale kuyambira pachiyambi, amadzazidwa ndi "wormhole", ndipo chinsinsi kapena malonjezo a zomwe simungathe kupereka nthawi yomweyo.
Kodi chinyengo chili ndi liti?
Kuyambira ndi khalidwe lachinyengo, ndithudi, ndi loipa. Koma pali magawo angapo a moyo omwe sizowononga zokha, koma ndi zothandiza kumanyenga mnzanu wam'tsogolo, mwamuna yemwe mumakumana naye kapena kumuyankhulana naye.
Choyamba, ndi kugonana. Ngakhale anthu omwe amalekerera amadana nawo pamene amauzidwa mosavuta (komanso zoipitsitsa - mwatsatanetsatane) za amuna, abwenzi, osagwirizana. Udindo wa mkazi pa nkhaniyi ndi woonekeratu: ngakhale atakhala opitirira makumi atatu, panali amuna owerengeka chabe. Zala za dzanja limodzi ndi zokwanira, ndipo ndi malire kuziwerengera! Ndipo, ndithudi, ubalewo unali wautali komanso wovuta, koma ... ndibwino kusiya ndi kupuma, kotero simusowa kuti mudziwe zambiri.
Kenako - chilakolako. Palibe munthu m'malingaliro ake abwino "pozaritsya" mkazi wozizira. Choncho, ngakhale mutapita kukaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena kukhala mwamtendere ndikugonana, ndi kosavuta kusewera "mochepetsetsa, koma bwino", ndi lonjezo lofunika kwambiri (zowonjezereka) zokhudzana ndi malingaliro ndi zamaganizo.
Ndipo, ndithudi, apongozi apamtsogolo. Malingana ndi iye, amuna athu amtsogolo komanso ofuna kukwatirana ndi anyamata akufufuza mwayi wathu. Koma ngati mutembenuka kukhala wophika kapena woyeretsa, chitsanzo kapena mpira wotchedwa ballerina ndi wotheka, ndiye kuti simungasinthe amayi anu. Choncho, "mumudyetse" zomwe amayi anu amadziŵa, ndizo zosamala kwambiri kuposa momwe mungafunire. Zikatero, simunganame, ndipo simudzawopa njondayo.
Kodi ndi bwino kunena chiyani pasanakhalepo, kusiyana ndi kuchoka ku zovuta?
- za ana,
- mwamuna wakale,
- achibale odwala kapena osowa,
- ali ndi matenda aakulu,
- chipembedzo,
- Ndondomeko ya moyo (ndani mwa inu amuna - tanthawuzo la moyo, okondana kapena zochitika zosangalatsa).
Kodi mungagone bwanji mwakachetechete, koma ndi malingaliro?
Mfundo yakuti
- mwangoyamba kumene, koma simunamve "zilonda"
- mukusowa thandizo, ndipo kuchokera ku ubale womwe mukuyembekeza kuti mavuto athetsedwe,
- mumakumana ndi anthu angapo mofanana ndipo simunasankhepo pa osankhidwawo,
- kupita kumsonkhano wa bizinesi ndi mwamuna (pambali iyi, anyamata ambiri amakhala ndi zofuna zawo, nthawi zina zosawerengeka)
- posachedwapa mwakhala mukudwala matenda oopsa, koma mutachira kale,
- muli ndi mavuto am'thupi,
- mulibe malo okhala, ndipo mukukonzekera kusamukira.
Ndipo potsiriza
Ngati mukunyenga munthu, musaiwale osati zomwe zimayambitsa chiyanjano choyamba ndi chinyengo, komanso kuti inunso mukhoza kukhala wozunzidwa. Alfonso ndi amateurs okonzeka kuthana ndi mavuto ena pa akaunti ya wina sizatha, kotero khalani omasuka!