Zinthu zosavuta: inu muli pafupi kuti mupambane. Osakhoza kukhala ndi chimwemwe, uzani kuti maloto anu adzakwaniritsidwa posachedwapa. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ... zonse zimakhumudwitsidwa. Ichi ndi chiani - diso loipa, chiphuphu? Kapena kuphwanya malamulo ena a maganizo? Ndipo mungadziwe bwanji ngati pali kuwonongeka kapena kuipa kwa munthu?
Kodi munthu mmodzi angathe kuchita chimodzimodzi kuti akhale ndi matenda kapena mapulani? Zoonadi, tonse timayanjana ndi mawu osalankhula komanso timakhudzidwa. Ndi anthu ena omwe timakonda kulankhulana, ndikufunanso kukhala pafupi. Ndipo ndi munthu yemwe alibe chikhumbo ngakhale kunena mawu, ngakhale kuti munthu uyu sanachite cholakwika chilichonse. Ndi munthu yemwe mumayankhula, ndipo zinavuta, ndipo ndi munthu wina, pokhala kampani yomweyi, mumamva kulemera kwa moyo, kusungunuka, nkhawa. Pamene tikulankhula za kupambana kwathu, poyembekezera kuti chinthu chabwino, timatseguka. Ndipo ngati panthawi imeneyo munthu wotsutsidwa amadzaza ndi nsanje, chinthu chimene anthu amachitcha "diso loyipa" chitha kuchitika.
Mwina izi zingathe kufotokoza mavuto ena osayembekezereka. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wina wa khumi amene akupita ku ndondomeko, amadwala mwadzidzidzi, kotero kuti samaliza sukulu ... Zoonadi, kuchuluka kwa diso loyipa kumawonjezereka kwambiri. Kawiri kawiri, sizingathetse mavuto a maganizo m'nthawi. Mnyamata yemwe "amapita ku ndondomeko" amakhala ndi nkhawa: makolo, aphunzitsi, makolo ake, aphunzitsi, iye ali pakatikati pa chidwi cha sukulu yonse, ntchito iliyonse yomwe amalamulira ndizovuta kwambiri. Akuopa kulola iwo amene amamukhulupirira. Kuwonjezera pa izi, nsanje ya makolo a ophunzira ena, chikhumbo cha aphunzitsi kuti "awononge" ophunzira olemekezeka, zovuta za mpikisano, kunyalanyaza "sayansi" kwa anzako akusukulu ... Ngati mnyamatayu ali ndi nthenda yotopa, ndiye kuti palibe diso loyipa - psyche idzalenga mtundu wina wa matenda a somatic kwa iye.
Nthawi zambiri anthu amangodandaula kwa psychologist ndi madandaulo omwe akhala "jinxed." Monga lamulo, awa ndi iwo omwe samafuna kutenga udindo pa miyoyo yawo. Zimakhala zosavuta kufotokoza zovuta zonse zomwe zimachitika m'miyoyo yawo, zotsatira za mphamvu zina zosavuta. Amatembenukira kwa amatsenga, akatswiri a maganizo, kotero kuti mu gawo limodzi amachotsa "kuthetsa" kapena kuthetsa mavuto awo. Ndipo ndi zofunika kuti musamapanikize nthawi yomweyo. Koma izi sizikuchitika. Vuto silinayambe lero, ilo layamba kale. Kotero, kuti mupirire nazo, mukusowa nthawi ndi chikhumbo chachikulu cha munthu. Wamphamvu kwambiri kuti ntchito zina zonse zimayikidwa pamoto wambuyo. Pa nthawi yomweyo sizilibe kanthu ngati pali kuwonongeka kapena kuipa kwa munthu. Nthawi zina pali zovuta zokhazokha pamene munthu amasulidwa, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera ku mantha aakulu mpaka pomaliza. Koma nthawi iliyonse pamafunika khama lalikulu kuchokera kwa wodwala komanso katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Ndi iwo omwe ali ndi mavuto a maganizo, chirichonse, mwazonse, chikuwonekera. Chabwino, ngati munthu amene adayambitsa vutoli amapeza zowoneka bwino za diso loyipa, monga singano zogwiritsidwa pakhomo lakumaso, pakhomo lobalalika pakhomo ... Nanga bwanji? Tsopano mabuku ochuluka a zamatsenga aonekera, kumene miyambo yambiri yamatsenga imatchulidwa. Ndipo pali anthu omwe amaganiza kuti ndizophweka kwambiri: muyenera kuchita izi ndizo, ndipo munthu amene sakusangalatsani adzakhala akudwala. Koma, choyamba, iwo samakayikira mtundu wa ngozi omwe akudziwonetsera okha. Choipa chinachititsa kuti wina abwerenso ngati boomerang. Izi, nazonso, ndizofotokozera kwathunthu zakuthupi. Munthu yemwe anavulaza wina, mosadziwa amadzimva kuti ndi wolakwa. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti adzachita zolakwitsa. Ndipo chifukwa chake, mavuto sangatenge nthawi yaitali. Chachiwiri, miyambo imeneyi imakhala ndi maonekedwe ambiri, ndipo si aliyense amene angaigwire bwino. Koma nthawi zambiri munthu amene wapangidwira amakhala wovuta kwambiri ... Ndipotu nthawi zambiri amakhalanso ndi maganizo. Mwamunayo adapeza zochitika za mwambo wamatsenga. Mwachidziwitso, akuyembekezera kale: chinachake chiyenera kuchitika - chifukwa ndi chiphuphu kapena chivundi. Iye amatchula zovuta mu moyo wake, chifukwa choipa kwambiri ndi kusatsimikizika. Chabwino, mu zenizeni zathu kwa nthawi yaitali siziyenera kutchedwa ...
Mmene mungachitire zinthu izi molondola? Kusiyanitsa izi ndi mwambo wina. Ngati mumakhulupirira mfiti zamatsenga, mukhoza kuwatchula. Ngati ayi, pitani kwa akatswiri - psychologists, hypnologists. Ndipo pamodzi ndi iwo, mvetserani chifukwa chake wina akukufunirani zoipa. Nchiyani chimakwiyitsa iwe mwa anthu ena kwambiri moti iwo ali okonzeka kuchita ufiti, kungokukhumudwitsani inu? Ndipo mutatha kumvetsa izi, yesani khalidwe lanu.
Koma zonsezi sizikutanthauza kuti nthawizonse mukhale "imvi", musagwirizane ndi kupambana kwanu, musati muwonetse bwino moyo wanu ndi funso: "Moyo uli bwanji?" - kuyankha kuti: "Ziri zoipa kuposa paliponse!", Kuti asayese nsanje. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kumamatira ku golidi. Inde, musadzitamande, musadzutse maganizo olakwika mwa anthu. Koma musadandaule nokha. Choyamba, ena amamva kuti ndi osayera pamene iwe umati: "Choipitsitsa kwambiri!", Ndipotu, osawerengera. Ndipo iwo amayamba kukuchotsani inu. Chachiwiri, ngati mutabwereza izi nthawi zambiri, moyo udzasokonekera kwambiri: mawuwa ali ndi mphamvu yaikulu pazochitika zathu. Kuti muteteze ku diso loyipa, yesetsani kuchita zinthu mwanjira yomwe siyimayambitsa choipa-kwa ena. Yesetsani kukhala odziletsa, osamala, olemekezeka. Ndiye zotsatira zake zonse zidzakuwoneka kukhala zoyenera ndipo sizidzachitapo kanthu koipa kaduka.