Kuyankhula pa intaneti kulidi zotheka zosatha. Malo ochezera. Malo ochezera a anthu, madera osiyanasiyana a chidwi, masewera, mazokambirana, ma blogs, ma diaries, akazi. zonse ndipo sizinalembedwe. Pali lingaliro lakuti kulankhulana kwabwino nthawizonse kumangokhala chabe ndipo sikupereka kuya kwa lingaliro, koma, mwa lingaliro langa, siziri choncho. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati munthu ali ndi chinachake chomwe anganene m'moyo weniweni, ndiye kuti zingakhale zosangalatsa kulankhula naye pa intaneti.
Koma pokhapokha pali kuyankhulana mu ukonde, ndiye funso lodziwika, likhoza kumveka mkati mwake, kodi munthu angayambe kukonda ndi interlocutor? Funso limeneli m'nthaŵi ya intaneti padziko lonse ndi ziwerengero zikukwera, tiyeni tiyesere kuyankha.
Tiyeni tiyambe kufotokozera ziganizo zina, choyamba tidzakambirana za osayankhulana, zowona. pamene sitimamuwona munthu, mawonekedwe ake, mawonekedwe a nkhope, ie, mwa kuyankhula kwina, sitigwiritsa ntchito webcam ndi zina zamakono. Wothandizana nawo kwathunthu, ndithudi tikuwona avvartarku ake ndi zithunzi zina.
Kotero ndikulankhulana kotani, kuposa momwe zimasiyanasiyana ndi njira zina zodziwiranirana bwino. Ndipotu, zoona zake n'zakuti sitikuwona munthu wa interlocutor. Poyamba, ichi ndi cholepheretsa kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro a interlocutor. Koma ngati tiyang'ana pazithunzi, tidzatha kuona kuti anthu akhala kale zaka zikwi zingapo, akulembera makalata wina ndi mzake ndi kuyankhula makamaka, monga momwe zilili. Gwiritsani ntchito izi osati njira zamakono zosamutsira deta, koma pepala losavuta ndi imelo.
M'mbuyomu, pali zitsanzo zambiri za maubwenzi omwe anachitidwa kudzera m'makalata, monga Balzac, Mayakovsky, ndi Tsvetaeva. Malembo awo amawerengedwa pambuyo pa zaka mazana ambiri, ngakhale ngati mumvetsetsa, amawalemba m'makalata awa ngati othandizana nawo. Panthawi ya nkhondo yachiwiri yapadziko lonse, atsikana ambiri ankafanana ndi asilikali omwe sankadziwika kuti akulira, pa ora lomwe anthuwa sankadziwana kale, koma maubwenzi omwe anakhazikitsidwa motere nkhondo itatha kuyambitsa mabanja okondwa.
Kusiyana kokha pakati pa kuyankhulana kwamakono pa intaneti ndi liwiro la kutumiza mauthenga. Koma ndikuwonekeratu kuti izi sizingakhale ndi zotsatira zolakwika pa chitukuko cha maganizo pakati pa oyankhulana.
Kuchokera pamwambapa, ndikhoza kutsiriza kuti pa intaneti, pakati pa anthu ogwirizana, malingaliro enieni ndi malingaliro angakhazikitsidwe.
Koma funso limabwera ngati maganizowa angatchulidwe chikondi, ndipo angakhale ndi mtundu wanji wopitilira naye. Ngati tikulumikizana, ndikulumikizana ndi malembo omwewo ndi makalata, ndiye tikuwona kuti kupitilira kokha kopindulitsa kwa kuyankhulana kwathunthu ndi msonkhano weniweni.
Ndipotu, ziribe kanthu kuti syllable ndi yolemetsa bwanji, komanso maonekedwe okongola, tikukhala m'dziko lenileni. Ndipo chikondi ndikumverera kuti, ngakhale kutayika kwake konse, sikungakhutire ndi makalata okha. Amafunikira kulankhulana kwenikweni ndi munthuyo, ndikofunikira kumuwona, kumukhudza, kumverera fungo lake.
Izi zikuwoneka kuti pamene ndikuyankha funsoli, munthu akhoza kapena sakondana ndi interlocutor, ndinganene kuti n'zotheka, koma kuti chikondi ichi chizikhala chowonjezereka, chiyenera kumasuliridwa kuchokera ku malo enieni.