Amayi onse akulota kalonga weniweni. Kapena pafupifupi munthu weniweni. Ndiye ndi chiani iye, mwamuna weniweni uyu kuchokera kumbali ya amai, kodi mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala wotani, kodi akazi amatsutsa zomwe akuchita pano? Kodi mungapange bwanji mndandanda wa anthuwa? Tidzapeza lero!
Iye, ndithudi, ayenera kukhala ndi chikhalidwe cholimba (osati chigawenga), ali ndi mphamvu ya thupi, kulimba mtima, udindo ndi chisangalalo, osati kuti azikhala. Kuwonjezera apo, khalani odziimira pakupanga zisankho zazikulu, ndipo nthawi zonse muzisunthira (kugona pabedi patsogolo pa TV ndi kosayenera).
Mwamuna weniweni ndi munthu wokongola komanso wosavuta kukwera. Iye yemwe amamvetsa mkazi wake ndipo amadziwa momwe angakhululukire zofooka zathu zochepa. Amakonda mkazi, amamukonda. Iye sakonda scandals, iye samakana ntchito ya akazi aliwonse. Nthawi zonse amapatsa. Wokwanira pazochitika zapakhomo, wopereka chakudya. Amatha kukonzekera zodabwitsa ndi maholide. Amalemekeza komanso amakonda mwana wake. Perekani khofi, tetezani mwanayo.
Kuchokera kuntchito iye amabwera, atopa, koma samakwiya. Sadzalola kuti wokondedwa wake azisenza katundu wolemetsa. Mvetserani mwatcheru, pofufuza mavuto anu. Bambo wokongola.
Ali pa kama mphungu . Pa kugonana, mwamuna weniweni akugwira ntchito, sadziwa kutopa, ndipo akuwoneratu zinthu zonse. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti zonse zomwe tazitchula pamwambazi sizingakhale zofunika kwambiri. Ndipo ngati kugonana sikuli kokondweretsa, iye amafunikira moyo. Koma pansi pa chikhalidwe ichi, wina akhoza kukhala "munthu weniweni".
Mu moyo, takhala tikuzoloŵera mawu oti "munthu weniweni ...", koma palibe mkazi angasonyeze ndi chidaliro mwamuna weniweni. Chifukwa palibe mwamuna mmodzi yemwe angagwirizane kwathunthu pansi pa tanthauzo ili. Chifaniziro cha munthu weniweni ndi maloto a mkazi, wokhazikika, omwe amafuna kuti apeze moyo wake wonse. Koma izi siziri zenizeni ndipo kotero n'zosatheka. Ndipo chifukwa chake ndikuti mu fano ili ife, akazi, timagwirizanitsa zizindikiro ndi makhalidwe omwe timaganiza kuti ndi abwino kwambiri. Munthu si wangwiro. Ndipo mwa munthu aliyense nthawizonse pamakhala chinachake kuchokera ku zoyenera, koma chirichonse sichitha kungokhala. Ndiye bwanji ife, akazi, tikusowa chithunzi cha munthu woyenera. Ndikofunikira kuti tifanizire chinachake ndi munthu amene akubwera panjira yathu. Ndiyeno mkazi aliyense, pozindikira kuti palibe chabwino, komabe mu kuya kwa moyo wake akuyembekeza kuti adzakumana ndi "munthu wabwino".
Kotero, ndi maso a mkazi, zonse zimveka bwino - tidzamuwerengera, kukonda, kupereka maluwa, kupereka malipiro ndi amayi apongozi anga kwa amayi anga, monga nyimbo yotchuka. Koma ndizosangalatsa kuona zomwe amuna amaganiza za maloto a akazi awa.
Mkazi amafunikira munthu wolimba, osati gangster - chabwino, uwu ndi khalidwe la mtsogoleri, ndipo munthu aliyense mu solo ndiye mtsogoleri.
Timafunikira mwamphamvu , wamtali, wokongola - koma ngati chilengedwe chachita chinyengo, sizowopsya, pali amayi ambiri ndipo wina akuluma. Ndipo adzakhala mkazi wokwanira, ndikukhulupirira kuti mwamuna alibe ulemu.
Akazi ngati amuna olimba mtima , ndipo amawona kulimba mtima kwa ulemu wa chakudya. Iye ndi mtsogoleri, ndipo izi ndizosamala, kuziganizira ndi kulemekeza zofuna zake. Munthu wolimba ali ndi chiwerengero chapansi. Zili ngati msilikali wamkulu.
Kudziimira nokha ndi udindo ndizo mtsogoleri, ndipo izi ndi zogwirizana kwambiri. Koma ponena za kuseketsa ndi zovuta, amuna samagwirizana. Iwo ndi atsogoleri, ndipo iwo alibe nkhawa. Ndipotu, apamwamba kwambiri, amakhala osangalala komanso osasamala.
Kugonana kofooka kumafuna munthu, popanda kukayikira, pa pempho loyamba kukwaniritsa chikhumbo chirichonse. Izo sizikugwirizana nazo, chifukwa khalidwe ili si mtsogoleri.
Palibe amuna omwe angagwirizane ndi zochitikazo kuti amvetsetse mkazi popanda kudziwa kwathunthu. Koma mkazi akufuna kuti akhalebe chinsinsi, koma pa nthawi yomweyo kuti amvetsetse kuchokera kwa munthu. Ndipo izi ndi kutsutsana kwathunthu, monga chirichonse mwa mkazi. Ndipo ichi ndicho chofunikira cha khalidwe lachikazi.
Mwamuna samagwirizana ndi chikhumbo cha mkazi kuti akhale naye yekha, mtsogoleri. Zimamuthandiza kuti apambane ndi ena, koma amafuna kuti adziphatika yekha.
Kunyada ndilo cholinga cha munthu wosatetezeka. Kuphatikiza apo, ndisavuta kusamalira. Ichi ndi chiwindi chabwino cholamulira. Mtundu wa mnyamata wa galimotoyo ndi woposa iwe, ndi zina zotero. Koma munthu woteroyo si mtsogoleri. Mofanana ndi amuna okhwima m'moyo, koma osati mosiyana ndi mkazi. Ndipo okwiya omwe sagonjera udindo wa mtsogoleri.
Amakonda ndi kuyamikira mkazi wake. Wokhutira, osati munthu wachikondi - mu mawu amodzi mtsogoleri. Zokhumudwitsa zoterozi sizitsutsana, ndipo sizikuyanjana ndi zonyansa za akazi.
Mkazi amafunikira kupatsa , koma uyu si mtsogoleri wotsatira. Mtsogoleri wa anthu - ndi wochenjera pankhani zachuma ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito monga maulendo olamulira. Koma chikhumbo chakuti iye, popanda kukana kugwira ntchito ya mkazi, mwamuna amalingalira mawonetseredwe a zochitika za mwamuna wotchuka. Ngati mkazi akuganiza kuti mwamuna ayenera kuthetsa vuto lake (kusamba zovala, sock) yekha, ndiye kuti ali ndi ufulu wokhulupirira kuti sakondedwa, koma amagwiritsidwa ntchito - ndipo adzakhala wolondola. Ngati mkazi sakufuna kuthetsa mavuto anu kuntchito, ndiye kuti munthuyo alibe chidwi ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito ngati ATM.
Maholide, zodabwitsa, kuima pa chitofu - izi siziri kwa mtsogoleri. Popeza iye akukonza ndondomekoyi, ndipo samazitengera yekha. Kutenga zovuta za moyo (ngati kuli kofunikira) ndi inde, koma mtsogoleri sangakhale ndi nsanje.
Kotero, ndi chiyani chomaliza? Mwamuna weniweni kwa mkazi nthawi zonse amakhala osavuta kusamalira ndi kuphatikiza makhalidwe omwe akuwathandiza. Inde, popanda zinthu zoipa. Kuwonjezera apo, mu zilakolako zake mkazi amadzidzudzula yekha. Ndichifukwa chake tingathe kufotokoza zotsatira zina. Chifaniziro cha munthu woyenera ndi chipsinjo china chachisokonezo chimene mkazi amakhala nacho. Mawu akuti "munthu weniweni" akuwonekera kuchokera kumbali zonse. Mu moyo, munthu wotere sangathe kukomana, ndipo mochulukitsa kwambiri, popeza zinthu zambiri zimatsutsana ndi chikhalidwe cha amuna. Tsopano mukudziwa momwe amai ambiri amaganizira theka lachiwiri ndi zomwe ziyenera kukhala, mwamuna weniweni, chiwonetsero cha kugonana kofooka, mosakayikira, ndi kupanga mawonekedwe ake.