Simudziwa kuthetsa ukwati? Koma nthawi zina izi zimachitidwa bwino. Pambuyo pa zonse, mumamvetsera nokha, ndipo mwinamwake munadza pa mfundo yakuti ukwati ndi sitepe yeniyeni, miyezi yambiri ikuyesera kufotokoza mau amkati, omwe nthawi zonse amafuula: "Palibe !!!".
Komabe, inu munapitiriza kumva ndi kumvetsera mawu awa. Azimayi ambiri asanakhale tsiku lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wawo, amakayikira, koma amakonda kupondereza chisangalalo chimenechi. Ndipotu amayi ambiri amaopa maganizo a anthu omwe amawopsya komanso kuwakhumudwitsa, amawopa kuti sadzakumana ndi munthu yemwe angathe kumukonda. Ndipo pamapeto pake, amayi omwe ali kumbuyo kwa mapewa komanso zaka zambiri za moyo wa banja losasangalala, koma izi zikhoza kupeĊµedwa. Mukufunikira kupeza chilimbikitso kuti mumvetsere nokha. Pambuyo pake, iyi ndi nthawi yoyamba yomwe idzakhala yovuta. Tsopano muphunziranso mfundo zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhalebe ndi moyo.
Sonyezani chifundo kwa wokondedwa wanu
Choipa kwambiri kwa wokondedwa wanu ndichotsetsa ukwatiwo. Mwinamwake amadziwa zifukwa za chisankho chanu, koma tsopano ali wokwiya, wamanyazi, wochita mantha ndi wofooka kuti amaganiza za izi. Zoonadi, abwenzi anu, makolo anu ndi achibale anu angayese kukuthandizani, koma motere njirayi idzatenthedwa. Muyenera kuchita zonse kuti mukhale osagonjetsa, koma osachepera kukhalabe pamsingo womwewo. Zoonadi, kuyankhula n'kosavuta kusiyana ndi kuchita. Koma muyenera kukhala achifundo, achifundo komanso achifundo. Musatenge malo otetezera. Mwinamwake osankhidwa anu sakufuna kuti agwirizanenso ndi swami, koma ngati adakali ndi lingaliro limeneli, ndiye kuti mumuthandize, nenani kuti akhoza kudalira inu ndipo ali okonzeka kumuthandiza mwamakhalidwe, koma chibwenzi chimatha.
Gwiritsani ndi ulemu
Muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yokhalapo mpaka zinthu zitamveka bwino Pangani chifundo, ulemu ndi kuyankha momwe mungathere.Yeserani kuyamika aliyense chifukwa cha kumvetsa kwanu ndikupempha chikhululukiro cha zovutazo, komanso kuti mwalephera zonse. wokwatirana naye ndi banja lake.
Kukaniza
Inde, aliyense amayesera kukambirana nanu, kapena adzakambirana kumbuyo kwa msana wawo, kapena adzanena maso awo zomwe akuganiza. Ngati muli ndi mantha chifukwa cha izi, ndiye ganizirani zomwe akunena za inu, ndipo musadziteteze nokha. Khalani pamwamba pake. Zikatero, khalani omasuka ngati n'kotheka. Izi zinachitika chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kwanu.
Thandizani kukonzekera
Ngati mwasankha kuthetsa ukwati, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kukonza zokonzekera, kuyambira kumalo ochita chikondwerero, kulamula maluwa a maluwa ndi maluwa, kumatha ndi mtsogoleri wamkulu wa masewera. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kuchotsa chirichonse chomwe chinakonzedweratu: padzakhala vuto losasangalatsa, pakatha masabata angapo pakhomo panu padzakhala oimba, kusewera nyimbo zakuda. Ngati mwatumiza kale kuitanidwe ku nasvazdbu, kumbukirani kuti ntchito yanu ndiyouza aliyense za kuthetsa chikondwererocho. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kumudziwitsa aliyense. Ngati muli ndi nthawi, mukhoza kutumiza makalata ochezera ndi kupepesa, ndipo ngati pali nthawi yoti mupulumutse, ndiye kuti mungathe kukhala ndi e-mail kapena foni yosavuta. Musadalire mkwati ndi banja lake, mumasokonezeka, kotero inu nokha muyenera kuthana ndi nkhaniyi ndipo musaganize kupempha thandizo kwa mwamuna wolephera. Amzanga okha angakuthandizeni ndi izi. Njira yabwino kwambiri ndi kalata yopita ku e-mail box kapena uthenga wa mawu, koma kuwonjezera apo, mlendo aliyense ayenera kulandira khadi losungirako mapepala ndi kupepesa kwa okonza phwando (kawirikawiri makolo). Mulole munthu amene sanakhumudwitse chigamulo chotere, adzalanso mndandanda wa alendo kuti atsimikizire kuti aliyense akuchenjezedwa.
Malipiro a malipiro
Ndithudi, ilo lidzakhala chisankho chokwera. Komanso, inu kapena makolo anu mudzayenera kulipira chifukwa chotsutsa zosungirako. Ngati ichi ndi chovuta kwambiri, yesetsani kuganiza kuti izi ndizo ndalama zanu komanso kuti chisudzulo chimakuchititsani zambiri. Kuwonjezera apo, mikangano yabwino imapewa.
Bweretsani Mphatso Zonse
Bweretsani chirichonse, kuyambira pazing'onozing'ono kupita ku mphete yaukwati. Pambuyo pake, mphatso zinagulidwa kwa anthu okwatirana, koma popeza simudzakwatirana, zikutanthauza kuti mphatsozo ziyenera kubwezedwa.
Dzizisamalire nokha
Atsikana ambiri omwe ali m'mavuto oterewa amakhala ovutika maganizo kwambiri ndipo amayenda maganizo chifukwa cha mkwati. Ngati izi zidachitika, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kutero, ndithudi, mudakhumudwa kwambiri, ndipo panopa palibe munthu amene angakondwere ndi inu, mwinamwake sipadzakhalanso wina woti akuthandizeni. Kuti mukhale osangalala, chitani zinthu zomwe zingakupangitseni kumva chitonthozo ndi chitonthozo. Dzipatukeni nokha. Dzikonzereni holide, pitani ku salon.
Musati mutenge izo mmutu mwanu kuti mubwerere kukale
Zoonadi, banja lanu ndi abwenzi ayesa kukutsutsani ku chisankho choterocho. Mwaulemu muyamike aliyense, koma molimba ndikufotokozera chabe kuti palibe chimene chingachitike chomwe mwasankha kale. Panopo mukuvutika maganizo, ndikumakhala kovuta kwambiri kukana ziwembu za achibale, kotero kumbukirani kuti ngati mwasankha kale zinthu zonse, ndiye kuti simungayang'ane njira zowonongeka, yesetsani kulankhula pa mutuwu.
Fufuzani thandizo
Mukhoza kumvetsa mwamsanga yemwe ali kumbali yanu ndi amene sali. Yesetsani kukhala pafupi ndi anthu omwe akukuthandizani, komanso omwe akutsimikiza kuti mukufunikira ndipo akuyenera. Inu munakhala munthu wabwino ndi wokongola, mochedwa pang'ono ndi lingaliro lanu. Kumbukirani kuti ngati simukufuna ukwatiwu ndi kuwuleka, ndiye kuti mwachita bwino, iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera ukwati wanu osati kwa inu nokha, koma kwa mkwati. Ngakhale pambuyo pa masabata angapo mudzamva kulemedwa kwa chisankho, ngati simungathe kudzikonza nokha, kambiranani ndi katswiri wothandizira. Simukuyamikira izi ngati zachilendo, kungodziwonetseratu nkhawa.
Simungamvepo zoterezi kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri, koma amayi omwe ali ndi malingaliro awo komanso osankha bwino amakhala oyenera kutamandidwa. Zaka zingapo abwenzi anu angotsala pang'ono kuthetsa banja, chifukwa sangathe kupulumutsa ukwatiwo, ndipo mudzanyadira kuti atapeza mphamvu ndi kulimba mtima kuti asankhe chisankho chotsutsa ukwatiwo. Amayi ambiri amawononga moyo wawo wonse chifukwa chosakhala ndi banja losasangalala, chifukwa posakhalitsa sanamve mawu amkati, monga momwe munachitira. Kukonza ukwati ndi chinthu chachikulu kwambiri chomwe chidzabweretsere bwino kupanga zosankha mu gawo lililonse la moyo. Mudziyamikire nokha ndi kuti munaphunzira kumvetsera phokoso lanu. Sonyezani chifundo, chifundo ndi chifundo kwa inu nokha ndi kwa anthu ena, kotero simungathe kugonjetsa mavuto onse, koma mudzakwaniritsanso m'moyo.
Musakayikire, nthawi idzafika ndipo mudzakumana ndi munthu yemwe mungakhale naye m'banja losangalala zaka 50!