Nchifukwa chiyani nthawi zina zimachitika kuti munthu mmodzi kwa nthawi yaitali akunena, "amapachika pamaso" pamaso pa omvera kapena ngakhale kampani kakang'ono, ndipo samamvetsera ndipo safuna ngakhale kumva, pomwe mawu ena amatha kukondweretsa aliyense? Momwe mungatsimikizire kuti mumamvetsera komanso kumvetsetsani, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kuti mukwaniritse zopempha kapena malangizo anu? Ndi zophweka: mumangophunzira momwe mungalankhulire molondola ndi kuphunzira psychology ya malingaliro.
Chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kupeza chifukwa chake mukukayikira kumva kapena chifukwa chake mumamvekera, koma simukumvetsa. Fufuzani mawu anu ngati kuti ochokera kunja. Mungathe kuphatikizapo chinsinsi chojambula mawu pamene mukuyankhula chinachake mu kampaniyo, ndiyeno mu malo amtendere mvetserani mwatsatanetsatane wanu wonse. Mwinamwake, zolankhulidwe zanu sizikuwonekera bwino kwa oyankhulana: muli ofulumira kwambiri, mukalankhula kapena mosiyana, lankhulani pang'onopang'ono kuti anthu ayambe kukumana ndi kusowa kwanu. Kapena mwinamwake mukukumvetserani, koma musatenge zomwe mwazinena mozama ndikudziwa kuti simukutsatira zopempha kapena malangizo?
Tiyeni timvetsetse chifukwa cha zomwe simukufuna kumvetsera komanso momwe mungagwirire nazo.
- Mawu osakwanira
Sitiyenera kuganizira mavuto a logopedic pano. Bzinthu ndizosiyana kwambiri. Muyenera kufotokozera momveka bwino zafunika kwa funso lanu kapena vuto lanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kugula ufa, ndiye kuti: "Iwe upite ku sitolo, ugula ma kilogalamu imodzi ya ufa kwa mtanda womwewo." Ngati inu mukunena chinachake monga: "Inu, izo ... zinali kupita ku sitolo. Ndipo ine ndinkafuna kuti chitumbuwa ndi maapulo aziphika, koma pano ine ndikuyenera kuyamba mtanda, ndipo ufa unali, zikuwoneka kwinakwake ^ kuti ugule zambiri. Chabwino, iwe upite, ndipo ine ndipita ndikusamba mbale. " Chitsanzo, ndithudi, ndi banal, koma zikuwonekera momveka bwino momwe kuli kofunikira kupanga bwino pempho lanu ndi funso. Choncho chiwerengero cha nambala 1 - lankhulani nthawi zonse ndi malingaliro oonekera, ngati simukudziwa kuti adzamvetsetsa.
- Mawu osadziwika, osokonezeka
Ndi oyankhula ati amene amamvetsera nthawi zonse? Amene amalankhula molimba mtima, momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kumvetsera, khalani odzidalira. Ngati panthawi yomwe mukukambirana mukuda nkhawa, yambani kuchepetsa thupi, nthawi zonse muziwongolera mphuno, mphuno, chinsalu, kuwongolera tsitsi kapena kolala, ndipo pamapeto pake zonsezi zimayamba kukwiyitsa ndi kusokoneza wothandizira. Monga lamulo, omvetsera amamva bwino pamene wokamba nkhani sakudziwa yekha. Araanso kodi iwo amanyalanyaza mawu a munthu woteroyo? Izi zikutanthauza ulamuliro nambala 2 - chitani kudzidalira.
- Zambiri zosafunikira
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti anthu amawoneka kuti akunena chinthu chofunikira kwa munthu ndipo anamva, koma sanatero? Mwachitsanzo, tauzani mwamuna wanu kuti: "Wokondedwa, ndidzafika ku Nastia lero pambuyo pa ntchito, kapena msuweni wa Natasha Natasha ndi mwamuna wake wochokera ku St. Petersburg adzabwera kudzatiwona, sitinamuonane kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo mbuzi ya Murzikdom ili ndi njala, ngati simukupita ndi abwenzi ku mpira, kuti chakudya chatsopano. " N'kutheka kuti kuchokera kumalankhula izi mwamuna wanu samvera zomwe zimayenera kudyetsa Murzik omwe ali ndi njala. Choncho, lembani nambala 3 - musati "muchite" mfundo zofunika pazomwe zilibe phindu.
Momwe mungalankhulire molondola
- Ndi mawu ofunikira, yang'anani mwa munthuyo mu diso. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzindikire zomwe mukudziwa.
- Pewani mawu-zizindikiro. Zosatha "em ...", "chabwino", "ichi", "apa", ndi zina. kwambiri timayankhula ndi kusokoneza chidwi kuchokera kuzinthu zofunika. Inde, ndipo mvetserani kwa munthu amene amapereka mawu akuti "apa" kapena "motalika" mofulumira kwambiri amayamba kunjenjemera ndipo omvera amanjenjemera.
- Sewani zida. Kodi ndi nthawi yanji yomwe timayambira kugona pafupi? Kuchokera ku zosasangalatsa, ndikulemba limodzi. Kuli koyenera kukumbukira nkhani zina zopweteka ku sukuluyi, pamene wophunzira kwa maola ambiri akuwuzani chinachake mu mawu otopa, osasangalatsa. Perekani mawu anu, sintha mawu, pamene mumalankhula, mukulankhula mofuula, kenaka pang'onopang'ono, kuwonjezera mawu anu nthawi zofunikira kwambiri. Pumulani pamalo ofunika kwambiri ndipo anthu adzakumverani mwachimwemwe ndi chidwi.
- Musalankhule mofulumira. Kulankhula mofulumira kumaonongeka kuposa kozoloŵera ndikulingalira, kotero ngati ndinu wolankhula zoona, pang'onopang'ono pang'onopang'ono kuti anthu azikumvetserani ndikugwilitsila ntchito zomwe zimayankhula.
- Pewani ma particles "osati" muzokambirana. Munthu aliyense ali ndi kutsutsana kwakukulu. Ngati chinachake chikuletsedwa, nthawi zonse amafuna kuchita chilichonse chosiyana. Ngati mukufuna kumvedwa, kenaka m'malo mwazomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "osati" mosiyana ndi tanthawuzo. M'malo moti "musachoke" muziti "khalani" m'malo moti "musaiwale" - "kumbukirani" mmalo mwa "musachite izi" - "chitani bwino ngati ichi ...", ndi zina zotero.
Ngati mukufuna kuti anthu amvereni, sungani malamulo awa osavuta. Kuwonjezera apo, ngati mutatsatira mawu anu, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti katunduyo atenge zomwe mukufunikira kuchokera kwa munthu amene mukumuyankhula.