Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungasankhire chipatala chakumayi:
Sankhani kuti chinthu chachikulu: olemekezeka komanso ogwira ntchito zachipatala, malo abwino, omasuka, kukhalapo kwa achibale ndi zina zotero. Ngati mutasankha chipatala chakumayi, simungapeze zomwe zingakwaniritse zofunikira zanu zonse. Koma, monga momwe amasonyezera, simungapeze ndalama za ndalama "zonse mwakamodzi". Nthawi zina amayi amafunika kusankha: nyumba ya amayi oyembekezera omwe ali ndi odziwa bwino ntchito zamankhwala, koma odikiritsa mapepala okhala ndi zojambulajambula, opanda zofunikira kapena amayi oyembekezera omwe ali ndi zipinda zoyera, zotentha, koma osadziŵa zambiri za madokotala ku chipatala.
Yambani kusonkhanitsa uthenga wokhudza zipatala zoyamwitsa kuyambira pa miyezi yoyamba ya mimba, kotero kuti mwachitatu mwadzidzidzi mudziwe kumene kubadwa kudzachitika. Amayi ambiri am'tsogolo amakhulupirira zamatsenga ndipo safuna kuganiza za kubereka, koma ndibwino kuposa masabata awiri (pamene sipadzakhala nthawi yothetsera) funsoli, kapena zovuta kwambiri kuyembekezera kubadwa kwa nyumba, komanso pamene nkhondo " ambulansi "idzabweretsa kubereka kumene kuli malo. Ngati pali malo omwe ali ndi chipatala chakumayi - ndiye kuti palibe njira yabwino. Mu chipatala chabwino chakumayi, monga lamulo, palibe malo aulere, onsewa amalembedwa ndi amayi pasadakhale.
Kotero, ndi chidziwitso chotani pakhomo lakumayi lomwe mukufunikira kusonkhanitsa amayi amtsogolo:
A) boma la alonda mu dipatimenti yobereka ndi mbiri ya ogwira ntchito zachipatala (ndi mipando ingati mu ward imodzi, chitonthozo chake ndi ukhondo zomwe muyenera kugula kapena kubweretsa kuchokera kunyumba, zidziwitso za azachipatala omwe adzayang'anitse asanalandire);
B) chikhalidwe ndi zipangizo za chipinda chobweramo, zomwe zimaperekedwa pakubereka (ngati zipangizo zofunikira zilipo, chitonthozo cha chipinda chobwezera, ndi mankhwala otani omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito, kaya mwanayo akugwira ntchito kwa amake mwamsanga atangobereka, kaya ali ndi khalidwe laulere pakubereka, kubereka, kubala ndi mwamuna ndi ndi zina zotero);
C) Dipatimenti yotsatila pambuyo pake (ndifunikanso kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza malo omwe ali pa postpartum department komanso mbiri ya achipatala, momwe mumachitira ulemu komanso kuti muli ndi luso, ndi mipando ingati yomwe ili mudivi, kaya ndi osamba ndi chimbudzi, komanso ngati n'zotheka kukhala ndi mwana pamodzi);
D) Dipatimenti ya ana (zimachitika kuti amayi amapereka ndalama zothandizira bwino kunyumba ya amayi oyembekezera komanso ubwino wopereka khalidwe, ndipo ana amauzidwa ndi "zilonda" zosiyana, kotero ndikofunikira kuphunzira momwe mungathere pa deta ya ana: chirichonse kuchokera kwa madokotala mpaka zikhalidwe zosunga mwana wanu);
D) Matendawo (ngati mimba siidali yabwino, kapena pali matenda enaake, mwachitsanzo, zilonda pa chiberekero, matenda kapena matenda okhalitsa, ndipo ngati gawo lachiwonetsero likuwonetsedwa, muyenera kusonkhanitsa zambiri momwe mungathere madokotala pakugwira ntchito ndi matenda anu komanso ngati pali chilichonse chomwe mukufuna: zipangizo ndi mankhwala).
Chidziwitso cha chipatala chonse cha amayi omwe ali oyembekezera ndi chofunikira, koma osati chachikulu. Amayi ambiri amavomereza kusakhala m'chipinda chabwino kwambiri chifukwa choti akufuna kupita kwa dokotala wina ali ndi mbiri yabwino. Kwa dokotala wodziwa bwino kwambiri kuti atenge mwana, muyenera kukonzekera izi kuyambira pa trimestre yoyamba ya mimba, mwinamwake mungathe kufika kwaulere kapena ku dokotala, yemwe sadziwa bwino ntchito yake.
Chiwerengero cha tsiku loperekera ndi tsiku lokhalo la kubadwa kwa mwana wanu. Izi ziyenera kukumbukira kuti nthawi zambiri amayi amatha kutsekedwa kuti azitsuka nthawi zonse, choncho m'pofunika kudziwiratu nthawi ndi nthawi yomwe nyumba yobereka idzatsekedwa, ndikukhala ndi mwayi wosankha. Zonsezi zikutsatira kuti simukusankha chimodzi, koma osachepera awiri zipatala za amayi omwe ali ndi amayi omwe ali ndi amayi omwe ali ndi amayi omwe ali ndi amayi omwe ali ndi HIV.
Ngati mudikirira kubereka kwanu kunyumba kapena mulibe galimoto, ndifunikanso: Kodi kutalika kwa nyumba ya amayi omwe mukukhala nawo kuchokera kumudzi kwanu ndi kotani? Ngakhale mutakonzekera kubereka poyang'aniridwa ndi akatswiri, mungafunike chinachake mwamsanga kuchokera kunyumba, ndipo mwana atabadwa, vutoli lidzakhala lofulumira kwambiri.
Posachedwa, mapeto a mgwirizano ndi mabungwe azachipatala ndi chipatala chakumayi si zachilendo. Mapeto a mgwirizano umenewu amapereka ubwino waukulu. Choyamba, pali mwayi waukulu kuti dokotala mmodzi yemwe amatsogolere kutenga pakati ndi kubereka, ndipo kachiwiri, chithandizo chamankhwala chamakono chikugwirizana ndi mgwirizano wake; Koma pakusankha chipatala cha zamalonda, ziyenera kuganiziridwa kuti sikuti zipatala zonse zimatulutsa mapepala odwala omwe akudwala panthawi yomwe amatha kubereka. Ndi zipepala ziti zomwe mungapereke, muyenera kukambilaninso pasadakhale.
Ndi malangizo ena, osamvetsetsa nkhani zoopsya zomwe zinachitika pakhomo kapena kumudzi. Mavuto osakwatirana angakhale paliponse, koma kusankha nyumba yoperekera mwachisawawa ndi mphekesera si kulakwitsa. Kuchokera pa aliyense, osati ngozi yowopsya yotereyi, mungathe kukumana ndi vuto lonse. Dziwani zokhazokha zokhudzana ndi zolinga.
Ndipo potsiriza, zimakhala zokha kuti mukhutire chimwemwe ndi thanzi lanu ndi mwana wanu. Zoonadi, zambiri zimadalira chisankho choyenera cha chipatala kapena chipatala, koma udindo waukulu uli ndi mapewa a amayi. Samalani thanzi lanu ndi thanzi la mwanayo, idyani bwino, muzipuma pang'ono, tsatirani malangizo a akatswiri ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino. Ndikofunika kusankha chipatala chakumayi!