Koma ngakhale chinthu chopambana kwambiri, choperekedwa molakwika, akhoza kutaya zonse mpaka potsirizira kusiya chidwi chake kwa mtsikana. Ndizosangalatsa kuti chitsanzo ichi chimagwira ntchito mosiyana: ngati simungathe kupeza mphatso yamtengo wapatali, ndiye chinthu chopanda phindu chingakhale mphatso yamtengo wapatali ngati mukukonzekera ndi ndemanga yoyenera.
Zoonadi Zachikulu.
Ngakhale kuti malamulowa opereka mphatso adayendayenda padziko lapansi nthawi zambiri m'mabuku ambiri okhudza kuwerenga maganizo, makhalidwe abwino ndi zamakhalidwe abwino, komanso m'magazini otchuka, amuna okhala ndi chidziwitso cha nyama yodziwika bwino akupitirizabe kunyalanyaza zochitika izi. Kotero, momwe mungaperekere mphatso kwa mtsikana, kuti musamukhumudwitse iye?
Choyamba, funso lopweteka nthawi zonse: zomwe mungapereke. Simungapereke chinachake chimene chinaperekedwa kwa wopereka mwiniyo. Musapereke chilichonse chimene chingagwirizane ndi mtsikana ndi zolakwa zake. Mankhwala oletsa antiperspirant, anti-cellulite kirimu, mandimu ya khungu, gel oyeretsera vuto la khungu, mafuta onunkhira motsutsana ndi acne, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zambiri, zodzoladzola za mtsikana zikaperekedwa, ndiye - monga mphatso yophiphiritsira yapachiyambi yophatikizidwa ndi zifukwa zomveka zosankha ndi nkhani yeniyeni. Sizingatheke kuti mtsikana adzalandira mphatso, ulemu umene sungaperekedwe pa ntchito yotereyi. Zakumwa zoledzeretsa, zipangizo zakuta fodya, zipangizo zing'onozing'ono zapakhomo, etc. Zonsezi - kwa iye mwini, sizikumvetsetsa makhalidwe ake, zikhumbo, makhalidwe ake. Mtsikanayu angakhumudwitse m'malo mokondweretsa.
Chachiwiri, nthawi yopereka - funso lofunika kwambiri kuposa opereka enieniwo. Nthawi yomwe muyenera kusankha bwino, yoyenera, yabwino kwa mtsikanayo. Palibe chifukwa chodzutsa wokondedwa pa 7 koloko mmawa kuti amupatse tikiti yawonetsero yamawonekedwe madzulo. Adzakhala wokondwa ngati ali, ndiye madzulo - kukhala pawonetseroyi, ndithudi, kale wopanda wofunikanso, yemwe adamukwiyitsa m'mawa kwambiri. Kuti mupereke mphatso molondola, muyenera kusankha nthawi imene angakhale yekha, adzakhala ndi maganizo abwino ndipo sangasokonezedwe ndi zomwe akuchita ndikupereka maganizo ake ndi zomwe akumana nazo. Nthawi yoyenera ndiyonse munthu aliyense asanamuyambe mphatso (ngati ndi tsiku lake lobadwa kapena tchuthi lina mwaulemu) kapena atalandira mphatso yomaliza kuchokera kwa abwenzi ake, anzake, achibale ake.
Nanga bwanji, kupereka mphatso kwa mtsikanayo?
Yankho la funso ili, ndilo, limangokhala zofunikira zitatu: molimba mtima, molimba mtima, ndi kumwetulira. Koma anyamata ambiri sali okwanira. Kutsekemera kwawo kumawonekera pang'ono, kulimbika mtima kumapita kwinakwake, maso a ena atembenukira kwa iye, ndipo maso ake ayamba kuchita zosalamulirika, akukwera kuchokera pakona imodzi ya chipindamo kupita ku yotsatira.
Ndikokwanira kumvetsetsa choonadi chimodzi chosavuta, kuti musamaope kupereka mphatso kwa mtsikana wanu wokondedwa. Kaya pali chiyanjano chotani pakati pa iye ndi wokondedwa wake, mosasamala kanthu kuti akhala akudziŵa nthawi yaitali bwanji, ndi chirichonse chomwe chinachitika pakati pawo dzulo - msungwana aliyense amayembekeza mphatso kuchokera kwa wosankhidwa wake. Kwa iye, sikofunikira kwenikweni chomwe chiridi kwa mphatso (ngati si phunziro lokhumudwitsa kwa iye, ndithudi), monga chenicheni cha kupezeka kwake. Iye anali atalandira kale mphatsoyi pasadakhale, anasangalala naye ndipo anabwereza kumwetulira kwa chiyamiko chifukwa cha kulandira kwake. Ndipo malingaliro ake enieni okhudza mphatso iyi, wosankhidwayo sakudziwa kutha kwa holideyo. Kotero, ndipo palibe chowopsya chirichonse. Zomwezo zimaperekanso mphatso zodzidzimutsa, zomwe msungwana aliyense amayembekeza mwachinsinsi kwa chibwenzi chake, koma yemwe amamudodometsa nthawi zonse ndi zodabwitsa zosayembekezereka. Mulimonsemo, iye adzakondwera ndi chisamaliro chomwecho, ndipo ngati mphatso yasankhidwa kwa iye ndi malingaliro ake, iye adzamva ndithu ndipo adzayankha mwachikondi kwa mphatsoyo. Chisangalalo chake pa kupatsa munthu kokha chimapangitsa wokondedwa wake kukhala wovuta. Ndipo ngati panthawiyi akuwonetseratu kusatsimikizika, ndiye kuti onse omwe amamuzungulira amayamba kumveka bwino: sanakhale ndi nthawi yokwanira yosankha mphatso, tsopano akukaikira kuti apambana.
Simungabisize maso anu, ndikupatseni mphatso ya chibwenzi. Pomalizira pake, adatha nthawi yochuluka, mphamvu komanso malingaliro ake. Kotero kodi si koyenera kuyamikira zotsatira za kuyendetsa ntchito - kuyang'ana kwake kokongola maso glass glare? Kulankhula mawu ophatikizana, musanapereke mphatso, iyeneranso kukhala omveka komanso omveka, kuti amve, anthu onse oyandikana nawo komanso oyendayenda. Pambuyo pake, iye anali kukonzekera mawu awa kwa iye. Anaganizira za mmene amamvera mumtima mwake pamene analemba zolembazo, akulota za kumwetulira kwake, pamene analemba maphokozo, amamuphonya pamene anaika maganizo ake momveka bwino, momveka bwino.
Njira zabwino zoperekera mtsikana mphatso.
Gwiritsani ntchito mawerengero mazana a amuna omwe anatha kuthetsa mantha awo amkati ndi kukayikira, ndipo phunzirani momwe angachitire atsikana mwachindunji momwe amachitira zachiwerewere. Zoonadi, pakati pa oimira chigawo cholimba chaumunthu muli ochepa chabe a smoothies. Koma nchiyani chomwe chimalepheretsa kugwiritsa ntchito zofunikira zawo - mwachitsanzo, mu funso la momwe mungaperekere mphatso kwa mkazi - nokha?
Kotero, kodi anthu okonda masewera okonda masewera amapereka mphatso kwa mafani awo ambiri? Choyamba, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti chifukwa chopereka sizingakhale zochitika zapamwamba zokha - tsiku la akazi a mdziko lonse, Chaka Chatsopano, kubadwa, tsiku lakubadwa, etc. Zochitika masiku ano msungwanayo amalandira mphatso zambiri komanso ngakhale zofuna zake, phunziro, woperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wake, akhoza kukhala wotayika mu mulu wa zinthu zina zopezeka. Chomwe chidzakhala chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi mphatso yosayembekezereka, yofikira tsiku lokhudzana ndi ubale wawo. Chinthu chaching'ono chodabwitsa polemekeza masiku khumi kuchokera tsiku lopsompsona loyamba, kukumbukira bwino, monga kukumbukira Lolemba loyamba mutatha kulekanitsa kwautali. Chilichonse chingakhale tsiku loyamba la mwayi wopereka mphatso. Ndipo palibe mkazi aliyense amene angatsutse zodabwitsa zoterezi.
Chachiwiri, kupereka mphatso mosayembekezereka: kudzutsa chakudya chimene mumakonda kwambiri pabedi, kubwerera kuchokera ku sitolo kwa mphindi 20 pambuyo pa malonjezano, komanso ngakhale pakati pa zomwe akunena za filimu yowonedwa posachedwapa. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe mkazi sayembekezera kuti mphatso idzakhale yabwino kwa kuwonetsera kwake. Koma popanda kutengeka, ndithudi: kumudetsa iye chifukwa chakuthwa kwa anyezi, kupukusa singano m'diso, kuwonetsa, ndi zina zotero, - kuti apereke chinjoka chachikulu, sikoyenera.