Cholinga cha moyo chinkagwiritsidwanso ntchito ndi akatswiri achifilosofi. Lingaliro limeneli limatanthauza kufufuza cholinga chachikulu cha kukhalapo kwaumunthu. Lero lingaliro la "tanthauzo la moyo" limaganiziridwa nthawizonse ndi azamulungu, akatswiri a maganizo, ojambula, olemba ndakatulo. Iwo amalingalira chomwe chiri tanthauzo loyenera kwambiri la moyo. Pankhani ya moyo ndi zochita za anthu, zolinga zake za moyo zimapangidwa. Zimadalira pa moyo wake, njira ya moyo, malingaliro, maganizo. Kupeza bwino, chitukuko, chimwemwe chingakhale tanthauzo la miyoyo ya anthu ambiri.
Palibe nyama imaganizira tanthauzo la moyo wake. Kukhala wopanda tanthauzo ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zimasiyanitsa ndi munthu. Sikokwanira kuti munthu adye, kugona ndi kuchulukana. Iye sadzakhala wokondwa, wokhutira kotheratu ndi zosowa za thupi. Tanthauzo la moyo limapanga cholinga kwa munthu, chimene ayenera kuyesetsa. Amakhala ndi mtundu wa kampasi ya moyo. Ndipo mwachibadwa kuti nthaŵi zina munthu amachoka panjira yomwe adakonza, amalowa mumisewu yolakwika, amabwerera ku mfundo zosiyana, akusochera, amayang'ana njira yina yopitilira. Nthawi zina amatha kutayika mumsewu wolakwika. Si zachilendo kuti anthu ayang'ane zaka zambiri osawona dzuwa ndi kuwala koyera. Matendawa angatchedwe kuvutika maganizo.
Kodi inu munataya kuti tanthauzo la moyo wanu?
Anthu ena amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti palibe cholinga m'moyo. Izi zikhoza kungotsimikiziridwa ngati mwakhala mukufunafuna tanthauzo la moyo kwa kanthawi, ndipo mwa kufufuza kopanda pake mwakhala mukuganiza kuti palibe. Koma mwachiwonekere, anthuwa sankaganiziranso nkhani yofunikira ngatiyi, kapena ayi komwe iwo ankafuna.
Kodi mungakhale bwanji ngati palibe cholinga cha moyo? Anthu omwe ali ndi zovuta m'miyoyo yawo nthawi zambiri amaganizira za nkhaniyi. Kungakhale imfa ya wokondedwa. Kapena zinthu zomwe zinasintha moyo wa munthu, zomwe sizinadzaze. Kawirikawiri, anthu alibe cholinga cha moyo, pambuyo pa ngozi. Achinyamata ambiri amataya cholinga cha moyo chifukwa cha chikondi chosasangalatsa. Ndi anthu ochepa chabe amene amaganizira za nkhaniyi, pamene moyo wa munthu uli bwino.
Ndipo mobwerezabwereza, moyo umakhala wopanda phindu kwa anthu wamba owopsa. Munthu akhoza kungotaya ntchito, ndalama, udindo, ndipo sakudziwanso momwe angakhalire moyo. Kodi ntchito yotayika ndi yotani? Palibe. Padzakhala wina. Koma munthu amene ali ndi mantha ndi kuvutika maganizo sangathe kumvetsetsa yekha, sangadzifunse funso lakuti: "Kodi tanthauzo la moyo wake linangokhala pa zomwe ndinataya? "Tembenuzani nokha. Yang'anani mosamala, mwinamwake alipo anthu omwe akuda nkhaŵa za inu, amene akusowa thandizo lanu ndi kusamalira. Ngati muli ndi chisoni chogwirizana, thandizo lanu ndilofunika. Mwinamwake tanthauzo la moyo wanu liri mwa anthu awa, osati mu katundu wotayika. Ganizirani za momwe zimakuvutani kukuyang'anirani muzomwe simukukayikira komanso kuvutika maganizo nthawi zonse. Ndi chiyani kwa iwo kuti ayang'ane momwe mumadzidyera nokha kuchokera mkati. Musakhale odzikonda kwa anthu omwe amakukondani. Mwina, kwa ena a inu ndinu tanthauzo la moyo. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri, muli ndi nthawi yambiri yochitira. Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji ngati palibe cholinga cha moyo? Ndikofunika kuti mupeze. Zambiri za moyo wathu zimaphunzira poyerekeza. Ziribe kanthu kuti mumamva bwanji kuti mukukumana ndi mavuto, padzakhala anthu omwe akuipiraipira. Kawirikawiri anthu awa samataya mtima ndikupeza mphamvu kuti azikhalabe. Pitani kumabusa, nyumba za ana amasiye, nyumba za okalamba. Tsatirani kudziletsa kwa anthu okhala m'mabungwe awa. Kulankhulana ndi anthu awa. Aliyense wa iwo adzakhala ndi zibwenzi - zitatu, zomwe tsitsi likuyimira pamapeto. Koma amapeza mphamvu yosangalala ndi zinthu zoyambirira: kutuluka kwa dzuwa, kutentha kwa chilimwe, gulugufe lomwe latuluka m'zenera. Zinthu zomwe simunazionepo kale, ndipo moyo wanu wonse sunatengeke. Mwina ndikofunikira kuyang'ana dziko lino m'njira yatsopano. Izi ziyenera kukwiyitsa kuwonekera, ngati sikutanthauza tanthauzo la moyo, ndiye kuti kutuluka kwa chidwi.
Mwina, nkutheka kuthetsa ...
Yambani kuchita chinachake ndi inu nokha. Ganizirani za zolaula, pitani ku masewera, mutenge nyama. Kusamalira munthu kukupangani kukhala munthu woyenera. Mudzakhala omvera akudziwika. Ndiwe nokha amene mungadzipangitse nokha. Inde, pali achibale, abwenzi, anthu omwe amadziwana nawo omwe angayesere kukuchotsani kuvutika maganizo nthawi zonse. Koma malinga ngati simukufuna kuchita nokha, mpaka mutayesetsa kuchita nokha, palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Ndiwe yekha amene mukufuna kupeza chingwe chomwe chidzakutsogolereni kuchoka ku quagmire yonse. Moyo wanu uli m'manja mwanu.
Anthu omwe ataya tanthauzo la moyo adziwonetsera okha. Cholimbikitsa kwambiri kwa munthu ndizolakalaka zake. Ndiwe nokha, mungathe kusintha kuti moyo wanu ukhale ndi tanthauzo m'mitundu yonse. Moyo uli ndi phindu lomwe ife tikufuna kuti tipereke. Zolinga zomwe munthu amadzisankhira yekha - nthawi zambiri amadziwikabe. Mtsikana amene akulota ukwati sakudziwa chomwe chidzabweretse. Iye akufuna chinachake chosadziwika. Achinyamata omwe akufuna kutchuka samadziwa chomwe chiri. Chimene chimapangitsa kuti ntchito zathu zikhale nthawi zonse kwa ife - chinachake chosadziwika. Choncho, m'pofunika kukhazikitsa cholinga chodziwikiratu. Lankhulani, kapena bwino - lembani. Zitha kukhala chirichonse: kupindula kwa mapindu a ndalama zina, kugula katundu wosasunthika, wosasunthika, kubadwa kwa mwana. Mndandandawu ukhoza kupitilira kwamuyaya. Aliyense ali ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo molingana - zolinga zawo. Awapatseni mu nthawi yayitali komanso ya nthawi yayitali. Lembani masiku enieni pamene mukufuna kukwaniritsa. Valani malo omalizira cholinga, chomwe lero chikuwoneka ngati chongopeka, kunyalanyaza kwathunthu. Izi zachitidwa kuti, ngati mukwaniritsa zolinga zonse, simungakhalenso ndi lingaliro la kutaya tanthauzo la moyo. Kwa zomwe nthawizonse munali ndi chinachake cholimbana nacho.
Ndipo kumbukirani, mukhoza kukhala opanda cholinga, koma sipangakhale tanthauzo popanda moyo.