Tiyeni tiganizire za chiyambi cha zovala zanu zamtsogolo. Pali lamulo limodzi lokha - chida: choyera cha diresi chimaloledwa kwa mkwatibwi yekha. Iyi ndi phwando lake ndipo ndikudziwa kuti mkwatibwi adzakwiya kwambiri ngati muli bwenzi lapamtima, mubwere ku phwando la moyo wake mu diresi loyera ndikuyesera kumunyeketsa. Musakhale odzikonda, thandizani mnzanuyo kuti amve ngati chapakati cha chilengedwe chonse!
Ndiponso, musati mulimbikitse kuvala mu diresi lakuda. Iwe sunabwere ku maliro. Kusiyana kwabwino kwambiri ndi diresi kapena suti ya mtundu wina. Pano mukhoza kufotokozera malingaliro anu ndikusankha mthunzi wa kavalidwe ka mtundu womwe udzatsindika ulemu wanu wonse.
Pa ukwati uliwonse, alendo akukakamizika kutenga nawo mpikisano osiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina mumayenera kudumphira, kuthamanga kapena kuvina kusokoneza. Choncho, samalani nsapato zomwe mudzavala. Pano mungathe kulangiza zinthu ziwiri zomwe mungasankhe: kaya nsapato yabwino ndi chidendene, kapena mutenge nsapato zomwe mungathe kuvala pamene mukuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Poganizira za funso limene muyenera kuvala kwaukwati wa chibwenzi, komanso posankha zokongoletsera, kumbukirani kuti simukuyenera kuoneka ngati mtengo wa Khirisimasi. Onetsani kuti muli ndi kukoma. Ndipo, zovala, ndi zodzikongoletsera ziyenera kusankhidwa kotero kuti zimagwirizanitsidwa bwino ndi chimbudzi chosankhidwa.
Khungu lachiwiri la mkazi ndi mafuta ake. Kusankha kununkhira kwa chochitika chofunika chotero monga ukwati wa bwenzi lapamtima, palibe malire. Pali "koma": Musagwiritsidwe ntchito molakwika. Ndikuganiza kuti simungakhale omasuka ngati fungo la mafuta onunkhira lidzasokoneza zonunkhira zonse zabwino, ndipo oyandikana nawo pa tebulo adzatembenukira kumbali yanu, akuphwanyika mphuno zawo. Kusamala koteroko sikudzakupatsani chisangalalo chochuluka.
Chinthu china chofunikira paukwati ndi mpango umene mungathe kuika mu thumba laling'ono. Ukwati ndi mphindi yovuta kwambiri komanso yofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa okwatirana kumene, achibale awo ndi mabwenzi awo. Pa mwambowu, zikhoza kuchitika kuti simungathe kulimbana ndi maganizo ndi nkhawa - ndikulira. Ndi mmenenso zilili, mutha kubweretsa mpango umene wasungidwa pasadakhale.
Kusankha chovala cha mwambo waukwati ndi kukongoletsera tsitsi, kukweza zokongoletsera, kumbukirani kuti tsiku lonse pamene ukwati ukatha, iwe ndi alendo ena onse mudzakhala mukuwona makamera ndi makamera. Choncho, ndi chisamaliro chapadera ndi kukwaniritsa, yesani funso la maonekedwe anu. Kotero kuti patapita nthawi, pamene masewero onse ali okonzeka ndi omwazika m'manja mwa onse omwe alipo paukwati, simunasowetse manyazi kuoneka kosasamala.
Ngati, paukwati wa bwenzi lanu lapamtima, muli ndi udindo wochitira umboni. Ndiye, chovala cha chikondwererocho chiyeneranso kusankhidwa kukhala choyera osati chakuda. Ndondomeko ya zovala za mboni ziyenera kuphatikizidwa ndi kalembedwe ka zovala za okwatirana kumene. Koma, zovala zanu, okondedwa mboni, sayenera kuwala kuposa zovala za mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi.
Ngati mwaitanidwa ku ntchito ya mboni, onetsetsani kuti mubweretse thumba lokhala ndi chikwama ndi mafuta osakanikira kwa inu ndi kwa mkwatibwi; mpango, kokha pamakope awiri; Ngati mungatenge, mutenge mankhwala omwe angakuthandizeni ndi matenda a mimba kapena m'mimba. Monga mukudziwira, mboniyo ndi dzanja lamanja la mkwatibwi, kotero ngati mkazi wam'tsogolo ali ndi mavuto aliwonse okhudzana ndi maonekedwe kapena mkhalidwe wa thanzi, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse muyenera kukhalapo.