Kawirikawiri ndikumwetulira ndimakumbukira kutenga mimba, makamaka mapeto ake. Imeneyi inali nthawi yabwino kwambiri, yodzala ndi chidwi ndi nkhawa zomwe zimakhudzana ndi kubadwa kwa mwana wathu wamkazi.
Zoonadi, zambiri zomwe zakhala zikuchitikazi zinali zokhudzana ndi kubadwa komanso kukhala m'chipatala.
Ndinkafuna kudziwa chilichonse kuti ndikhale wokonzekera nthawi yobereka. Koma mimba inandichititsa ine kutali kwambiri ndi maganizo ndikuiwala. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikabwera kuchipatala kwa dokotala, amene ndinagwirizana naye kuti adzandiberekera, ndayiwala zonse zomwe ndinkafuna kufunsa.
Ndiyeno ndinabwera ndi kutuluka. Anangotchula mndandanda, komwe adalemba mafunso ake onse. Msonkhano wotsatira ndi adotolo, ndinawerenga mndandandawu, ndipo adokotala, osati osadabwitsa, adayankha mafunso onse moleza mtima.
Mndandanda wa mafunso unali ngati chonchi:
1. Ndi mayesero ati omwe ayenera kukhala mu khadi losinthanitsa ndi zomwe ziyenera kulembedwa kuti ziloledwe kubereka kuchipatalachi?
2. Nditangoyamba kubadwa ndikuyenera kulemba khadi losinthanitsa liti?
3. Kodi chipatala chakumayi chimagwira ntchito pobereka? Ngati ndi choncho, ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti mwamuna wake alowe pa kubala?
4. N'chiyani chomwe chili chofunikira kugula kubereka (obstetric set, ana, kapena kugula zonse zomwe mukufunikira kuchokera mndandanda wanu)?
5. Nanga bwanji za zinthu (zovala zamagazi, zovala ndi zinthu zina) zidzafunikira pakubeleka nokha, mwamuna wanu ndi mwana wanu?
6. Kodi kutentha kwa mlengalenga kuchipatala ndi chiyani? Ndikofunikira kudziwa, kuti mwanjira inayake muwerengetse zomwe mudzayika pa mwanayo ndi kuvala nokha. Ine ndinanyalanyaza funso ili, ndikuliwerenga ilo chopusa, ndipo chifukwa chake ine ndinatenga chovala chofunda, kuti ndikhale chomwecho. Kuti kutentha kwa mpweya mu ward kunali +28! Chifukwa chake, ndinayika T-sheketi yanga - chovala changa sichinali chopindulitsa.
7. Kodi kuvala kubereka ndi chovala chotani kwa mwamuna wanu?
8. Ngati pali mipata, kodi idzaponyedwa pansi poyerekeza ndi anesthesia kapena ayi? Ngati ndi choncho, pansi pa chiani?
9. Ndi liti ndipo ndi ziti zomwe adzapereke kwa mwanayo?
10. Kodi nyumba ya abambo ili ndi mgwirizano wokhala nawo mu ward ya mayi ndi mwana? Kodi n'zotheka kuti mwamuna wanga anali ndi ine m'ndende?
11. Kodi mwanayo adzagwiritsidwa ntchito pachifuwa nthawi yobereka?
12. Kodi ndiziteteza zotani zomwe ndingakhale nazo musanabadwe?
13. Nkhondo zikamayambira, ndi kusiyana kotani pakati pawo kuyenera kukhala maziko a kuyitana kwa dokotala?
14. Kodi dokotala samangokakamiza kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yotani?
15. Kodi n'zotheka kudya ndi kumwa panthawi yakamenyana kunyumba komanso m'chipinda choyamwitsa, komanso mwana atabadwa? Ngati ndi choncho, ndi chiyani kwenikweni?
16. Ndi maola ati omwe amaloledwa kukachezera achibale? Kodi iwo amawalola iwo kulowa mu ward?
17. Ngati kubadwa kumayamba usiku kapena ayi, adokotala adzabwerabe?
18. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chili ndi ward ya amayi omwe ali ndi amayi oyembekezera? Kaya n'zotheka kuyenda, kuima, kukhala pa nkhondo ndi kuyesayesa. mumawawona iwo momwe mumasangalalira?
19. Kodi zingakhalepo zoterezi, chifukwa choti adokotala sadzabwera kubereka? Kodi ndondomeko yotani yomwe ingakhalepo pa nkhaniyi, ndipo dokotala wotani angalowe m'malo mwake? (Ndibwino kuti mudziwe bwino dokotala uyu pasadakhale).
20. Kodi ndikuyenera kuvomereza kutsogolo pa Khoti kapena ndingavomereze pomwepo?
21. Kodi ndi zochitika zotani zomwe zimachititsa kuti ntchito yolimbikitsana ichitike pakubadwa?
22. Kodi mabulosi akubaya ndani?
23. Kodi epidural anesthesia kapena china chirichonse?
24. Kodi ndi tsiku liti pambuyo pa kubadwa komwe kumatuluka ndipo kumadutsa bwanji?
Inde, n'zotheka kuti musakumbukire zina mwazochitika pakubadwa, koma mutha kukhala chete kuti "musunge chilichonse." Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi malingaliro abwino ndi chidaliro kuti chirichonse chidzakhala bwino! Ndikukhumba kuti mukhale ovuta kubweretsa ndi ana abwino!