Chikondi ndikumvetsetsa kwambiri , komwe kumayenera kuyamikiridwa nthawizonse ndikudyetsedwa, kukumana, kukupsompsona, kukumbatirana. Pa msinkhu wotere, anthu sakondedwa ndi chirichonse, koma chifukwa chakuti ali. Wokondedwa ali pafupi, ndipo china chirichonse sichiri chofunikira. Koma monga kawirikawiri zimachitika m'moyo, zonse zabwino, zimatha. Nthawi yolekanitsa, pamene ndi koyenera kupita ku maphunziro kapena mayeso, chikondi chomwecho chidzayesa. "Ofunira zabwino", kaduka komwe kumakupangitsani kupanga miseche yosiyana ndikufesa kusagwirizana. Kudalira, kodi, kapena ndi kosavuta kuyang'ana "theka losakhulupirika" theka. Kuyanjana, zomwe zimafunika kulemekezana ndi kulemekezana, aliyense wa iwo angathe kudutsa pamwambowo ndikupita kumsonkhano.
"Zambiri" zomwe miyoyo yachinyamata silingathe kuthana ndi zopinga zambiri, ndi kupeza njira yotulukira. Anthu okha omwe amakonda kwenikweni adzatha kulimbana ndi mayesero onse. Koma n'zovuta kukana anthu apamtima kwambiri, makolo, chifukwa sakhutira ndi kupita patsogolo kusukulu kapena yunivesite, ndipo amamuimba mlandu. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse chikutsutsana. Kulimbana ndi chimwemwe changa, chikondi. Kuchokera ku dziwe lokoma ilipo awiri okha omwe achoka ..
Yoyamba, kuvomereza ndi kuyembekezera kuti mwanayo apite, khalani chete. Chifukwa nthawi zambiri izi ndi chikondi chosavuta. M'kupita kwanthawi, maganizo amachepetsa, ndipo maonekedwe "abwino" angawonekere. Ndiyeno moyo udzawonekera m'njira ina, koma ndi zotsatira zomwezo. Kotero izo zidzakhala mpaka mwanayo atakula. Munthu aliyense ali ndi nthawi imeneyi mosiyana, choncho zimakhala zovuta kunena momveka bwino. Koma makolo ayenera kuona kusintha kwa mwana wawo. Maganizo ake adzakhala omveka bwino. Zilakolako zidzadutsa, ndipo nthawi ya chikondi idzabwera.
Njira yachiwiri yochokeramo izi ndi yowopsya kwambiri. Zoletsera za makolo, misonkhano yamseri, kotero sizingatheke nthawi yaitali. Achinyamata ena omwe ali ndi mphamvu zochepa zamatenda, amavomereza mtundu uliwonse wa zoletsedwa ku bayonets. Amakhulupirira kuti akuphwanya ufulu wawo. Ndipo chifukwa cha maximalism yawo yaunyamata, ali okonzekera chirichonse, koma kuti athetse chilepheretsano cha kusamvetsetsana pa mtengo uliwonse. Ndipo chifukwa cha chikondi chawo, monga momwe amaganizira panthawiyi, amadzipha. Ichi ndi chilakolako chokhalitsa, koma ngati inu mukugonjera, simungathe kubwerera. Chikhumbo chowonetsera chikondi changa tsopano, ndipo ndikudziwa, ngati ana awo anali amoyo ndipo amakhala ndi moyo wokalamba, amakumbukira "izi" maganizo awo ndi kumwetulira. Ndipo ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti musalole izi. Samalani ndi kumvetsera ana anu. Apatseni mwayi wokhala akuluakulu, kupanga zosankha zawo. Koma khalani otsimikiza kuti muyankhule, pezani chinenero chofala.
Chikondi ndikumverera kovuta . N'zovuta kumvetsa. Chovuta kwambiri kuvomereza ndi chakuti ana ali ndi ubale wotere. Koma nthawi imatuluka, ndipo imakula. Ndipo udindo wa makolo nthawi zonse umakhala pafupi nthawi yovuta. Kusamalira, kutonthoza, kufulumira. Koma musatseke mu khola ndikuganiza kuti zikhala bwino. Pokhapokha kuti mutha kupulumuka nthawi yovuta, ndipo mutatha nthawi ndikutentha pamodzi kumbukirani ndi kuseka malingaliro oyambirira.