Koma monga aliyense: banja, kunyumba, ntchito, ana, mwamuna ....
Koma chifukwa chiyani lingaliro lomwelo limakugwiritsani nthawi yomaliza kuti chinachake chikulakwika ndi banja lanu. Mukuyamba kuganizira za izi, mumayamba kuyang'ana mwamuna wanu, mwinamwake iye si "kuti" ... Ndipo ndimadandaula kwambiri za inu, zimakhala zomveka ngati tsiku. Mwamuna amene mwakhala naye kwa zaka zambiri, amene mumamulimbitsira ana, yemwe, monga adanenera, adya pud wa mchere ndipo zomwe, monga momwe mumaganizira, mumadziwa zonse, mwadzidzidzi anasintha kwambiri. Kapena mwinamwake osati mwadzidzidzi, nthawi yayitali kwambiri simunamuyang'ane mosamalitsa ndipo simumvetsa chifukwa chake mwamuna wanga amandiyerekeza ndi amayi ena.
Ino ndi nthawi yoyamba yakhala pamodzi, mumakonda kusangalatsa mwamuna wanu, kuchenjeza zofuna zonse, kugwira, mawu onse. Ndiyeno ^ ndiye_modzizoloweretsa izo, ndakhala ndikuzolowerera izo. Panali ana omwe amafuna kuonetsetsa ndi chikondi chanu chonse, chidwi chonse chinaponyedwa pa iwo. Bwanji nanga za mwamuna, ndiye mwamuna wake, zomwe zatsala.
Ndipo tsopano, mwadzidzidzi munawona kuti mwamuna wanu amakhala moyo, ngati kuti, moyo wake womwewo. Muli ndi moyo wanu, wokhazikika komanso wodziwika kwa amayi - nyumba, banja, ntchito, ana. Ndipo ali ndi zake, komanso nyumba, ntchito, ana, banja .... Ndiko komwe mumalo ano ndi malo anu, simungamvetse.
Mwamvetsera kwambiri mwamuna wanu, kuti muzindikire komwe ndi zomwe akuchita, zomwe akunena. Ndipo ine ndinawona ndipo ndinapeza kuti iwe ndi wachirendo kwambiri ndi wosangalatsa. Kawirikawiri pokambirana kwake mwamuna amayerekezera ndi mnzanu wakale, komanso, kuyerekezera sikuli kumbali yanu. Ndi ndani, yemwe mungamuyerekezere naye, koma osati ndi chibwenzi, chomwe, ngati simusintha malingaliro a mwamuna wake ndipo simunakonde kwenikweni. Iye sanamukonda iye, inu mukudziwa motsimikiza. Iye sakonda izo pamene iye anabwera kudzakuchezerani inu, ndipo sanakonde kupita kunyumba kwake. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi kutamanda kotereku kumalo ake, ndiye akudziwa momwe angachitire bwino, ndiye izi. Ndipo ngati chibwenzicho sichinakwatire ndipo sichikhala ndi ana atatu, ndiye kuti matamando onsewa angakhale chizindikiro cha chidwi cha mwamuna wanu, ndipo akhoza kukhala chifukwa cha nsanje.
Kenaka zinaipiraipira, mwamuna wake anayamba kutamanda mnzako kuchokera pakhomo lapafupi. Iye, iwo akutembenuka, anakumana naye mwadzidzidzi, pamene iye anali kuyenda ndi mwana wake pakiyo. Iye anapempha thandizo, ndipo mwamuna wake anamuthandiza. Iye ndi mwana wake wamkazi anamuitana iye ndi mwana wake kunyumba kwake. Iwo anakhala mabwenzi. Kodi mnzanuyu anali chifukwa chokhalira osangalala? Chabwino, muyenera kuvomereza, pali chinachake chodandaula nacho.
Mwamuna amakuuzani za mkazi wabwino kwambiri, yemwe ndi mnzako wokondweretsa, pomwe akuwonetsa kuti inu mwayiwala kale pamene adayankhula nthawi yomaliza, kupatula za ana komanso kuchuluka kwa ndalama. Zikuwoneka kuti ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe mwamuna wanga amandiyerekezera ndi mkazi wina.
Mkaziyo nthawi zambiri ankakumana ndi mnzako, akuyenda pakiyo ndi mwana wake wamwamuna. Pambuyo pa misonkhanoyi, adabwerera kunyumba akusangalala ndipo anayamba kukuwuzani za mayi uyu. Za momwe iye aliri wodabwitsa, ndi momwe iye angakhoze kuchita izi ndi izo.
Ngakhale zonsezi, khalidwe lake m'banjamo linakhalabe lofanana. Nthawi zonse panthawi yochokera kuntchito, kumapeto kwa sabata ndi ana omwe muli nawo, panyumba zonse zomwe mumafunikira kuti banjalo lizichita. Zizindikiro zomwe akunyenga pa inu, ayi, ayi.
Zinafika poyamba kukuwoneka kuti mwamunayo amamvetsera kwambiri. Kukhala ndi inu nokha ndi wachikondi kwambiri. Koma chidwi chake ndi chikondi chake, pambuyo poyerekeza ndi inu, zinakhala dontho la mafuta pamoto.
Inu munapirira maulendo onsewa akulira komanso nthawi yaitali, koma tsiku lina sakanakhoza kupirira ndipo adafotokozera mwamuna wake zonse. Zonse za zomwe munaganiza za izi. Muyenera kukhala owona mtima patsogolo panu, simunanene, ndipo mudakalipira nkhanza ndikupereka kwa mwamuna wanu, "... chifukwa ndizodabwitsa kwambiri, choncho pitani kwa iye. Nchifukwa chiyani iwe ukukhala ndi ine? "Kodi sichoncho?
Ndizo momwe zinalili. Ndipo sindikufuna kuima pambali panu. Pa zomwe zinachitika m'banja mwanu, ndiwe nokha komanso wina aliyense amene mukulakwa.
Inde, pa zomwe zinachitika, palinso vuto la mwamuna wake. Iye sakanakhala ali, motero amakopeka ndi zomwe mkazi wanu amachitira motere. Koma ndikuganiza kuti watopa kwambiri ndi moyo, akusewera maudindo achiwiri m'moyo wanu. Iye anafunanso chidwi chanu ndi chikondi chanu. Ndipo sakanakhoza kuganiza bwino kuti ayang'anenso, momwe angakuchititsireni nsanje.
Ndipo iye anapambana, si choncho? Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti izi sizili nsanje konse, koma kungokhala ndi mkwiyo. Muyenera kukhala odabwitsa kwambiri - mayi wachikondi ndi wokondedwa, mayi wabwino wa nyumba, wojambula ndi wophika, amafanizidwa ndi mnzako. Mwinamwake, pali chinachake choyerekeza? Ndipo iwe sunayese kuganiza za funsolo, koma mwinamwake mwamuna wako ali wolondola. Mwinamwake, inu munatero, ndipo choonadi chiri bwino, koma osati mochuluka momwe mwamuna wanu akanafunira.
Inde, anafunikira kulankhula nawe. Kukhala ndi kukumbukira momwe adakhalira zaka zoyambirira za ukwati wanu. Kunena kuti anali wabwino bwanji pafupi ndi inu. Mfundo yakuti iye ali ndichisoni kwambiri kuti mu ubale wanu tsopano sung'ono kwambiri, kutanthauza chikondi. Ndipo komabe, kuti iye akufunadi kubweretsa chirichonse kubwerera ndi kutentha ndi chikondi. Koma iye sanachite izo, koma anachita zomwe iye anachita.
Chabwino, ndipo inu, inu! Chifukwa chiyani simunamuuze kuti ndizosangalatsa kuti mumvetse pamene mutamanda winawake, pamene mukuchepetsa ulemu wanu. Nchifukwa chiani inu munali chete? Kuponya pamaso pa mwamuna wake, kotero iye anatsukidwa kwa wina, wabwino, akhoza, koma sakanakhoza kulankhula mwaumunthu.
Kapena mwinamwake sanali nsanje? Mwinamwake simumamukonda?
Kumbukirani, chifukwa pamene iwe unakwatira iye, chifukwa iwe umamukonda. Iye ankakonda ndipo ankafuna kuti azikhala mwachikondi moyo wake wonse. Yang'anani mmbuyo, yang'anani pa moyo, mukukhala limodzi, kumbukirani momwe inu munaliri palimodzi, mpaka mutalole moyo, mutenge maubwenzi anu onse abwino ndi chikondi chanu. Ndipo ngati msewu uli kwa inu ukadali banja lanu, chikondi chanu. Ngati mukufunadi mwamuna wanu, mwina muyenera kuganiziranso malingaliro anu pa moyo. Kuti mutembenuzire chidwi kwa mwamuna wanu, mum'zungulira mofanana ndi caress ndi chisamaliro. Ndipo khulupirirani zomwe ndakumana nazo, mwamuna wanu sangayambe kukhala pachibwenzi ndi amayi osakwatira, sangatamandidwe kumwamba. Ndipo ngati inu mukufanizidwa ndi winawake, kokha mwa inu.