Musagwiritse ntchito njira yayitali
Izi ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa mtsikana akufuna kusunga ubale ndipo musadutse mzere. Pamene bwenzi lake likufuna kudutsa mzerewu, monga zidzatanthawuza kuti nayenso alibe chibwenzi naye, ndipo akhoza kukhala pamodzi. Mkhalidwe uwu, atsikana nthawi zambiri amasankha njira zamtunda. Amayesetserana kulankhulana mochepa ndi mnyamata, kumutcha, kulemba, kukhulupirira kuti mwanjira imeneyi amathandizira kuiwala zakumverera. Ndipotu, pafupifupi zochitika zonse, njira iyi siigwira ntchito, ndipo ngati ikatero, zotsatira zake sizimakhutitsa kugonana kwachikazi. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mtsikanayo atayamba kuchoka, mwamunayo akuganiza kuiwala. Osati ngati mtsikana, koma ngati munthu. Sizinsinsi kuti n'zovuta kukhala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wanu, osakhoza kukhala naye pamodzi. Ndipo ngati sikuti munthu aliyense amapeza mphamvu kuti apite yekha, ndiye pamene mkazi amachita, amatenga khalidwe lake ngati chizindikiro cha tsogolo ndipo amayesa kumuiwala kwathunthu. Koma pamene mnyamatayo amatha kuchoka ku "radar", mtsikanayo amayamba kumuphonya mnzakeyo ndikumufunafuna naye. Kaŵirikaŵiri m'mayesero oterewa, damynalkilsya amakhala ndi maganizo olakwika komanso osakwiya. Onnikik sakumvetsa chifukwa chake bwenzi labwino laponyedwa mosamalitsa kapena ngakhale lakhudzidwa kwambiri. Ndipotu, zonse ndi zophweka. Mtsikana atachokapo, mwamuna amazitenga monga kusankha kwake ndikuyesera kuiwala ndi mphamvu zake zonse. Ndipo, zikuwoneka, chirichonse chinasintha, mwadzidzidzi amadzipezanso ndipo akusowa chidwi. Choyamba, anyamata samvetsa khalidwe ili konse. Zikuwoneka zosamveka bwino. Ndipo kachiwiri, amayamba kukwiyira mtsikanayo ndi tizilombo. Msungwana - pa zomwe amamukwiyitsa, kumabwezeretsa kumverera, ndi tizilombo - kuti sitingathe kudziletsa okha, chikondi chidzakhalanso chozungulira ndi kuzungulira kuzungulira. Zikuoneka kuti pali mikangano pakati pa omwe kale anali mabwenzi omwe angasinthe mwadzidzidzi kukhala chiwonetsero cha chilakolako cha munthu yemwe wakhala akugwira nthawi yochuluka kwambiri, ndipo tsopano maganizo ake onse akutuluka kunja.
Pali kusiyana kosiyana kwina kwa kukula kwa zochitika. Pankhaniyi, mtsikanayo anali akuyesera kuti achoke ndikubwerera. Choncho, akafuna kugwiritsa ntchito njira zoterezi, mnyamatayu amangoyamba kuyembekezera. Amakhulupirira kuti adzabweranso, akusowa pang'ono kuti apirire. Choncho, panthawiyi, wokondedwayo amasanduka chipatso choletsedwa, chomwe chimamveka kwambiri. Choncho, mtsikana atasankha kukonzanso ubwenzi, amamuona asanakhale bwenzi, koma mnyamata yemwe amamukonda kwambiri kuposa asanathetse chiyanjano. Choncho, monga momwe mukuonera, njira zoterezi sizithekanso. Mulimonsemo, mwina mumakhala ndi chikondi mwachidwi ndi mnyamata, kapena mutayika mnzanu kwamuyaya. Kotero iwe uyenera kusankha njira zosiyana zedi, zomwe ife tizakamba tsopano.
Ubale weniweni
Pofuna kuthana ndi vutoli, ndikofunikira kulankhula ndi mnzanu. Koma choyamba, dzifunseni nokha: Kodi ubale wanu ndi mnyamatayo ndi wokondana kapena pali chinachake chimene simukuvomereza? Chowonadi ndi chakuti ngati simunayanjane nokha, ndiye kuti nthawi idzafika pamene mudzamvetsetsa kuti mumakonda munthu uyu, ndiye kuti maganizo ake adzatentha ndipo safuna kumanga ubale ndi inu. Choncho, ndi bwino kudzipangira nokha nthawi yomweyo, kodi mukufunadi kwenikweni. Ndipo ngati mukumvetsa kuti mnyamatayo ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu komanso wokondedwa, koma ngati bwenzi, onetsetsani kuti mumalankhulana naye chilichonse. Zomwe simukufunikira pazochitika zoterezi zimapangitsa kuti anthu ayambe kubwera ndi chinachake chomwe sichinachitike, koma Ndikufuna kukhala. Musadabwe ngati mutangotsala pang'ono kumaliza nkhaniyi, mnyamatayo ayamba kuona kuwonetsera kwake mwazithunzi ndi kuyang'ana. Kotero ndibwino kukonza mfundo zonse pa "I" nthawi yomweyo.
Zokambirana ziyenera kuyambika momasuka komanso zokha. Musanene chilichonse ndi anzanu kapena anzanu. Malangizo ena ofunikira - musamamwe. Si chinsinsi chakuti mowa umachulukitsa malingaliro athu ndi kumverera kwathunthu, kutikakamiza chirichonse kuti chiwoneke pafupi kwambiri ndi mtima. Kotero, ngati mukumwa, ndizotheka kuti zokambiranazo zikhale zosokoneza, kapena zidzatha mosiyana kwambiri ndi momwe mumafunira. Chowonadi ndi chakuti amayi amakhala okonzeka kukhumudwitsa aliyense, ndipo mukumwa moledzeretsa chisoni ichi chimagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika. Kotero musadabwe ngati mmawa wotsatira mudzamva kuti mwavomera kukomana ndi mnzanu ndipo munalumbirira kwa iye mwachikondi, chifukwa mumamukhululukira.
Ngati mumaganiza zokambirana, ndiye kuti simungathe kusunga kanthu ndipo musalankhule. Muyenera kulola mnyamatayo kufotokoza maganizo ake onse kuti asakhale ndi malingaliro akuti sanathe kumaliza chinachake, ndiye chifukwa chake simuli pamodzi. Atakuuzani zonse, ndi nthawi yoti musonkhanitse chifuniro chanu mu nkhonya ndikufotokozerani masomphenya anu. Sitiyenera kumangodandaula kapena kubwezera chinachake kapena kupereka chiyembekezo chenicheni. Pankhaniyi, choonadi chowawa ndi chabwino koposa bodza lokoma. Choncho, m'pofunika kunena momwe mumayamikirira ubwenzi, koma simukuwona konse mzimayi wina, kotero, mwatsoka, palibe chomwe mungachiyembekezere.
Ndipo pambuyo pa mbali zonse zikulongosola malingaliro awo, idzakhala nthawi yothetsera yankho la izi. Pankhaniyi, musalole kudzikonda. Ngati bwenzi lanu akunena kuti akufuna kusiya nanu maubwenzi onse, chifukwa sangathe kukhala anzanu - musakane. Inde, vymobolno kuchokera poti mumatayika wokondedwa wanu, koma ngati uli wokondedwa kwa inu, muyenera kumvetsa kuti zidzakhala zoipa kwa inu.
Ngati mnyamatayu akufuna kuti apitirize kukhala abwenzi, muvomereze kuti mudzachita monga poyamba, osayang'ana chikondi chake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati padzakhala amuna ena, sakuyenera kukangana, kukonza masewera ndi zina zotero. Onetsetsani kunena kuti mumamvetsetsa zokongola, koma mukufuna kukhalanso ndi abwenzi, ndipo zotsatirazi zingatheke ngati mutakumbukira zomwe akumva. Ngati munthu amadziwa kuti sadadalira chilichonse, koma mukufunikirabe kukhala bwenzi, ndiye kuti adzatha kugonjetsa maganizo ake ndikuyendayenda.