Nanga bwanji zotsalira? Malangizo a mkazi yemwe amadziwa zochuluka, ndipo mwinamwake anakweza ana oposa mmodzi. Ndikofunika kumvetsa bwino: apongozi anu amalangiza osati chifukwa cha kuvulaza kapena kungokukhumudwitsani. Amakonda mwana wanu osachepera inu ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo amangofuna kuti achite nawo chimwemwe, wotchedwa "mwana." Tsatanetsatane wafotokozedwa mu mutu wa mutu wakuti "Alamu apita kukakulira mwana".
Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa amayi osakwatira kapena apuma pantchito. Ndipo ngati inu mutayesetsa kuchoka choyambirira, osagonjetsedwa musanakhale nawo apongozi anu ndikuyesera kuti mukhale nawo "mofanana," ndizotheka kuti inu nokha mudzadabwa ndi zotsatira za tsiku lino! Ndipo momwe mtima udzakhalira wokondweretsa - ngakhale ukhulupirire, ngakhalenso uwone! Choncho, malangizo athu: mverani malangizo a apongozi anu, koma mum'funse chomwe mukufuna. Msungwana wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi wodzidalira yekha, akhoza kusiya mantha aliwonse, akuti: "Ndikhoza kuchita zonse ndekha!" Mwinamwake, ndikupirira, koma osati ndi chirichonse. Ndipo iwe umati chiani pamene, atatha tsiku lotsatira chifaniziro cha amayi abwino ndi ambuye, iwe ugona pabedi madzulo ndikudziwa kuti mawa zonse zidzachitika kachiwiri? Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti mudzamva bwino, ndipo ngati kupweteka kwa postpartum, chizungulire, kusasamala? Ndiye bwanji osapereka thandizo lenileni pamene simukufunikira kufunsa - aliyense akungoyembekezera chilolezo chanu. Aloleni othandizira abwere osachepera maola angapo patsiku.
Khulupirirani ine, mbali zonsezi zidzapambana. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti mumadziwika bwino mofulumira, mwinamwake apongozi anu adzakhala a inu nthawi zonse komanso okoma mtima pa nkhani yosamalira mwanayo. Mwa njira, ziri mu izi kuti iye ndi wothandizana naye! Funsani iye, mwachitsanzo, kuti adye chakudya. Amadziŵa kale kuti thandizo ili silochepa kuposa kuthandizira kusamalira mwana. Mwa njira, osati kuti pa njira yopita kwa apongozi anu apakhomo, okha, ndipo mumakhala ndi zozizwitsa, kodi ndi nkhani yotani yokondweretsa kuti muyankhule. Iye tsopano akuda nkhaŵa ndi mavuto ofanana ndi inu: kodi pali mkaka wokwanira kwa mwana, usiku unali bwanji, ndikokwanira kuti ulemere? Ndipo musalole kuti chisokonezo chilowe mu dzenje, kapena tsiku lopanda lachisanu la kutsuka pansi, likukusokonezani inu. Ndiyeneranso kubwereza: musazengereze kupempha chithandizo ndikuvomera thandizo! Chifukwa chake ndi chophweka, chomveka bwino komanso choyendetsa bwino ndi zomwe zapitazo. Kenaka apongozi anga, omwe amalira kokha nthawi imodzi atadzuka m'ma 6 koloko m'mawa, adawona mwamuna wake, anaika ukhondo wa kristalo, ndipo mwanayo atagona masana, ankakhalanso ndi nthawi yosamba, kutsuka, komanso kuphika mapepala! Zoonadi, pambuyo pa nkhaniyi, ndizochititsa manyazi kugona musanayambe kuona bwino! Musaganize za izo! Ndipo mupite kukapuma popanda mthunzi wa manyazi. Chifukwa chakuti mwanayo amafunikira amayi okondwa, ali ndi malingaliro atsopano, okonzeka kumvetsetsa ndi kuchitapo kanthu pa nthawi zosowa za mwanayo. Mlamu apamwamba amadziwa zonse. Chabwino, ngati simumvetsa ... Osati malingaliro anu onse ayenera kugwirizana! Tengani izo moona ndi kumasuka!
Ndipo potsirizira, ine ndikufuna kubwereza kachiwiri kachidziwitso kochepa kodziwika, komwe ife nthawi zambiri timaiwala mu chisokonezo cha masiku. Banja si mwamuna, mkazi komanso ana okha. Awa ndi agogo aakazi, amalume ndi alongo, zidzukulu, apachibale komanso mabwenzi apamtima. Ife tonse timakondana wina ndi mzake ndipo timangofuna zabwino zokha. Ndipo kumanga bwino, maubwenzi abwino popanda kulankhulana ndizosatheka. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri amakumana, kupita kwa alendo, kuthandizana ndi zofooka, osayesa kutsimikizira kapena kubwezeretsa. Ndizodabwitsa kuti anthu onse ndi osiyana. Ndipo musanayambe kunena kuti "Ayi!" Kwa kupereka thandizo kuchokera kwa apongozi ake, kumbukirani kuti ndi mkazi amene anabala, anabala, anabala munthu wokondedwa wanu. Mwana yemwe tsopano akukhala mwamtendere mumphepete. Ndipo kodi nkutheka kuti mkazi yemwe, monga iwe tsopano, akukayikira, sanagone usiku, anakulira mwamuna wako, sanayenere chimwemwe cholankhulana ndi mwana wako? Tsopano tikudziwa choti tichite ngati apongozi athu akukwera kukweza mwana.