Amayi ang'onoang'ono ku Russia ndi ofala kwambiri. Iwo amatsutsidwa kawirikawiri, ngakhale izi siziri choncho. Musaganize kuti msungwana ali wamng'ono sali wokonzeka kulera mwana wake. Ku Russia, vuto lachuma ndi loipa, choncho palibe pafupifupi thandizo lililonse lochokera ku boma. Koma chimodzimodzi, amayi apakati akukhala makolo abwino kwambiri. Amakonda ana awo, kuyesa kuwapatsa zonse zomwe zatayika m'miyoyo yawo.
Zifukwa za maonekedwe a amayi apakati.
Choyamba, kukhala ndi thanzi lanu. Mayi sayenera kusokoneza mimba yake yoyamba. Tsopano ku Russia muli madokotala abwino kwambiri omwe amatha kugwira bwino ntchito, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse pali ngozi kwa thanzi la amayi. Amayi, kukana kubadwa kwa mwana, amachititsa kuti asakhale ndi mimba m'tsogolomu. Kawirikawiri, msungwana wamng'ono sakufuna kukhala ndi mwana wake, kotero iye amakana kumubweretsa.
Chachiwiri, chilakolako cholowera munthu wamkulu. Nthawi zina ngakhale pa msinkhu wa msungwana mtsikana amafuna kukhala ndi moyo weniweni. Kawirikawiri, milandu yotereyi imapezeka m'banja lachikulire ndi amuna achikulire. Iwo ali otsimikizika kale mu moyo ndipo akuyembekeza zaka zabwino kuti alowe mu chiyanjano. Pachifukwa ichi, mayi wochepetsetsa amakhala kholo labwino, kutambasula mwana wake.
Chachitatu, n'zotheka kuthetsa mimba. Mwamwayi, pali zovuta pamene mtsikana samadziwa za mimba. Iwo amamverera izo mu miyezi yapitayi chabe. Pa nthawi yomweyi, sikuthekanso kukana kubadwa kwa mwana. Choncho, pali mayi wina wa ku Russia. Komabe, mobwerezabwereza, amakana ana kapena amawapereka kwa makolo awo.
Mayi wamng'ono ku Russia savuta kukumana. Chifukwa cha maonekedwe awo, chiwerengero cha ana opanda pokhala chikubwezeretsanso. Kawirikawiri amakanidwa atabadwa, ngakhale izi sizolondola. Komabe, funso lofunikira lidalipobe, kodi mayi wamng'ono angathe kulera mwana?
Mayi wamng'ono ndi kulera mwana
Limeneli ndilo funso lovuta kwambiri limene akatswiri ambiri azachipatala amakonza. Chiwerengero cha ana omwe sali pabanja ndi chachikulu, ndipo ambiri a iwo ndi zotsatira za kusaganizira. Kugonana kumayamba pa msinkhu waung'ono nthawi zonse, koma njira zoberekera sizigwiritsidwe ntchito nthawi zambiri. Kulera mwana si kophweka, makamaka ngati munthu sanasankhepo moyo. Ngakhale kuti ziŵerengero zimasonyeza kuti mayi wamng'ono angathe kukhala kholo labwino kwambiri . Iye samadziwa nthawi zonse momwe angagwirire bwino mwana, koma amabisala zolakwa zake zonse, kupereka chikondi chapamwamba.
Sikuti atsikana onse amafuna kulera ana. Komabe, wina sayenera kulingalira kuti chiwerengero cha amayi abwino "ndi abwino". Ngakhale ku Russia, amakumana nthawi zambiri, osalandira chithandizo chokwanira kuchokera kumudzi. Makolo achichepere amatha kuphunzitsa mwana wawo, pogwiritsa ntchito anthu apafupi. Ndipo kukanidwa kwa ana, kani, ndiko chifukwa cha chilango chomwe chimayambitsa anthu. Ndipotu, chilakolako cholerera mwana wanu chikhoza kutha msanga.