Kodi mungamvetse bwanji mwana wazaka 13?

Mtsikana, ali ndi zaka 13, nthawi zambiri samapeza chinenero chimodzi ndi makolo ake. Mwanayo ali ndi umoyo wokhala wamkulu, chomwe chiri chosowa cha maganizo cha msinkhu. Chifukwa chake mofulumira kugonana ndi thupi kusasitsa. Kuoneka ngati munthu wamkulu mumsinkhu wina nthawi zina makolo amawopsya. Nthawi zina mumatha kugwirizana naye, ndipo nthawi zina mumamva kuti ndinu alendo. Muyenera kumvetsa kuti wachinyamata ali ndi zaka 13, akusowa zofunikira. Lemekezani ulemu wa mwana wanu. Athandizeni kuti azikhala odzidalira komanso osakayikira kupereka malangizo othandiza. Chifukwa izi zimalimbikitsa chitukuko chaumwini ndi chikhalidwe.

Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti pa msinkhu uwu wachinyamatayo angasinthe maganizo ake, zosangalatsa zatsopano zikuwonekera. Mawu ake amasintha.

Simungathetse msanga mavuto aunyamata. Khala woleza mtima ndikupitiriza kugwira ntchito ndi mwanayo, kulankhula naye, kukamba za chikondi chako kwa iye. Ndiponsotu, makolo onse omwe adakumanapo ndi msinkhu umenewu.

Zindikirani kuti wachinyamata wa msinkhu uwu ali wodzaza mphamvu ndi kudzoza. Akuluakulu nthawi zambiri samvetsa kuleza mtima kwa achinyamata. Amayamba kupondereza miyoyo yawo m'malo mowathandiza kupeza ntchito yoyenera. Achinyamata sali oopsa kwambiri koma osati oipa, iwo ndi anthu wamba omwe akuyesera kuphunzira kukhala moyo wachikulire.

Mwanayo ali ndi mphamvu zambiri komanso akuluakulu, amayamba mantha ndi mantha. Makolo amayamba kuyandikira mwanayo ndi zoletsera zosiyanasiyana, ndipo izi sizingachitike. Iwo amafunika kuti azunguliridwa ndi chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa.

Kuti makolo alemekezedwe, makolo ayenera nthawi zonse kusunga malonjezo awo. Kupatsa mwana wanu lonjezo, muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro chonse kuti mutha kukwanilitsa. Mukaswa lonjezo lino, mwanayo amachoka kwa inu ndikukhulupirira kuti simudzakhalanso. Pamapeto pake, mumataya.

Makolo ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti achinyamata omwe ali ndi zaka 13 akhoza kumverera ngati munthu wazaka makumi anayi okhwima, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale wazaka zisanu. Pazaka izi, ana amafuna chisamaliro ndi thandizo kuchokera kwa akulu kukonzekera moyo wochuluka. Musamayandikire mwanayo ndi zoletsedwa ndi zoletsa, koma pangani mgwirizano wodalirika.

Pamene wachinyamata angasonyeze kudziimira yekha, phunzirani kuchita bwino, ganizirani kuti nthawi yachinyamata ikumalizika bwino.

Lolani ana anu achichepere kukhala anthu odzaza.