Si chinsinsi kuti kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kudya mopitirira nthawi ndizo zifukwa zazikulu zowoneka kulemera kolemera. Komabe, ngati vutoli lidangokhala pazinthu zakuthupi, ndiye kuti nkhaniyi idzakhala yopweteka kwambiri ndipo sichidzadzipangira okha.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu, akuyesera mofulumira ndikulimbana ndi mapaundi owonjezera, nthawi zambiri amavutika ndi fiasco? Chowonadi ndi chakuti pali zifukwa zingapo zamaganizo zomwe zimagwirizana kwambiri ndi maonekedwe olemera. Zikuwoneka kuti chidziwitso cha munthuyo sichitha kugwira ntchito yochepera. Ndipo ngati maganizo osadziwika, pazifukwa zilizonse, amalepheretsa kuchotsa kulemera kolemera, ndiye ntchito yayikulu sikuti azikonza zakudya zoyenera ndikukwaniritsa zochitika zolimbitsa thupi, koma kuti adziwe zomwe zimafunikira kuti munthu adziwe kulemera kwake.
Pokonzekera vuto ili, akatswiri a maganizo amalinganiza zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimayambitsa kulemera kwakukulu:
Manyazi. Poyesera kukhala wosawoneka, kubisala kumaso, munthu wamanyazi amabisa kuseri kwa mapaundi owonjezera. Kuwonetsa ntchito poyesera kuchepetsa thupi, komabe, mosamvetsetsa sangathe kutenga mbali ndi "chitetezo" chake. Anthu otero, choyamba, ayenera kuwonjezera kudzidalira, kuyamba kudzilemekeza okha ngati munthu, mosasamala kanthu za kukhalapo kolemera kwambiri.
Chikhumbo chowoneka cholimba, chikuwoneka chofunikira kwambiri ndi chofunika. Poyambirira, chifukwa cha zifukwa zingapo, monga msinkhu, kusowa kwa zinazake, mawonekedwe osadziwika, ena sanamuzindikire kuti ndi munthu wodalirika wa bizinesi. Kuti akwaniritse chikhalidwe chofunikira pa chilengedwe, ena amasankha njira ya "fouling" ndi mphamvu mothandizidwa ndi kilogalamu zina. Anthu oterowo amafunika kuzindikira kuti kupitirira muyeso ndi bwino ntchito sikugwirizana.
Zotsatira za kukhumudwa kwa maganizo mu ubwana, zomwe zinayambitsa lingaliro lakuti kukhalapo kosasangalatsa maonekedwe kumatetezera ku zovuta zoterezi. Pofuna kuthetsa kulemera kwakukulu pa zochitika zomwezo, akatswiri a maganizo amagwiritsa ntchito kuvomereza choonadi: palibe amene alibe vuto. Ndipo ngakhale mawonekedwe, kapena zifukwa zina, sizingasokoneze izi. Chotsindika chachikulu ndicho kuchotsa "mizimu yamakedzana".
Kusakhala ndi malingaliro abwino ndi zokondwa. Munthu amafunika kukhazikika ndi kukhala ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo, mwachikondi, kudzizindikira, zosangalatsa. Si zophweka kukwaniritsa zonsezi. Ndipo njira yosavuta komanso yotsika mtengo kuti tipeze chimwemwe ndi kusintha maganizo ndikutenga zakudya zokoma, zonenepa ndi zokoma. Anthu ambiri amakonda "kupanikizana" ndi mavuto awo, omwe amatsogoleredwa ndi mapaundi owonjezera.
Vuto pochita ndi atsikana. Chifukwachi n'chofala kwambiri pakati pa akazi. Ndi mantha a chiyanjano ndi amuna komanso mantha a maubwenzi omwe amachititsa chisankho chopanda chidziwitso chokhala mafuta, kuti asakope chidwi kuchokera kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Choncho, munthu wathunthu amatonthozedwa ndi lingaliro lakuti kulephera mu ubale kumabwera chifukwa cha kulemera kolemera, ndipo akuwopa kuti, atachotsa ma kilogalamu oposa, sadzachotsa vuto lomwelo. Muzochitika izi, chinthu chachikulu ndikufika pakuwona kuti chidwi ndi ulemu wa ena mwachindunji zimadalira kudzikuza ndi kudzidalira.
Ukwati. Amayi ambiri, kukwatira, kukhala osadandaula ndikuchotsa chomwe chimatchedwa "chibadwa chasaka" - makamaka cholinga chachikulu chikupezeka (pali mwamuna, mwana, bata). Cholinga chachikulu chochotseratu chikhalidwe ichi ndicho kuzindikira za moyo kunja kwa nyumba imodzi.
Pofuna kulimbana ndi kulemera kwakukulu sikunali kovomerezeka, choyamba, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa nokha. N'zotheka kuti zingakhale zofunikira kuti muyankhule ndi katswiri wamaganizo wothandiza omwe angathandize kuthetsa mavuto ndi zovuta za maganizo zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kulemera kwakukulu.