Mapepala, mwinamwake, ndi amodzi mwa ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wa munthu, makamaka atsikana, zokongoletsera. Ndipo ndithudi, malingaliro a amayi sakanakhoza kugwirizana ndi chodabwitsa ichi ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana zosiyana. Kotero, ndi iti mwa zipatso izi zomwe zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri?
Pamaso pa Khristu ... Kuphunzira kulikonse kwa chikhalidwe ndi chitukuko kumayambira ndi anthu okhala m'nthaka yachonde ya Nile ... Nkhani yathu sichimodzimodzi, ndipo Aigupto angathe kunena izi. Kuvala kwao kunali chizindikiro cha kupitiriza ndi zosapindulitsa, kotero n'zosadabwitsa kuti iwo ndi omwe adalumikizana ndi ukwatiwo. Mu Roma wakale, mwambo umenewu unasankhidwa kuti asaphwanye, iwo adaperekanso miteti yatsopano: mnyamatayu anali woti apereke mphete yosankhitsa yosankhidwa, monga chizindikiro cha kusadzimva kwa malingaliro awo. Agiriki adanenanso kuti ukwati ndi wopatulika ndipo ndi umodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wathu, ndiye kuti ndikuyenera kuvala mphete yothandizana ndi chala chosadziwika - pamenepo, malingaliro awo, ndibodza la moyo.
Panthawiyi, anthu adadzichepetsa kuti adziwe ndi "chinenero cha mphete". Kotero, kodi mumavala mphete yanji? Mwachidziwikire, zonse zimadalira mmoyo wanu wonse. Ngati mtima wanu wasankha kale chinthu chousa moyo, ndiye kuti ukugwiranso pakhomopo. Masiku ammbuyomu, adangokhalira kulemba mphete: Akatolika amavala mphete yowonjezera kumanja kwawo, ndipo Orthodox imakhala ndi manja.
Ngati malo opatulika ali opanda kanthu, ndipo mumakhutira ndi izi, yang'anani mphete yaing'ono, chifukwa mudzafunika kuvala pa chala chanu chaching'ono. Ngati muli munthu wokonda nkhani, ndiye kuti kukula kwa mavutowa kungakhale kochepa: mphete imayikidwa pakatikati. Koma ndi chala chachindunji, amai sayenera kuyesedwa, chifukwa simungamvetsetse: ena angaganize kuti osamvetsetseka kwa anthu wamba mukufuna mkazi wokondweretsa ...
Koma sayansi ya zamatsenga imapereka zala ndikumasulira tanthauzo losiyana kwambiri. Manyowa akulu, malinga ndi mfundo za palmistry, amagwirizana ndi Mars ndipo mpheteyo imayesedwa pafupipafupi pofuna kulimbitsa mtima wake wofuna kuti dziko likhale lochezeka, ndipo ubale ndi anthu ndi wogwirizana. Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo amalankhula mofuula kuti malingaliro a munthu woteroyo sali oyeretsa kwathunthu ndikugwira ntchito yawo yotsimikizirika mu ndege yogonana. Koma pa cholembera chala chingwecho chidzakhala kwa inu gwero la madalitso onse: ndipo inu mudzakhala ndi mwayi, ndipo mwa inu nokha, ndipo mutapeza nzeru, zomwe sizidzakwera phiri lanu! Ipsihologi pa nkhaniyi sakhala chete paokha. Kodi mutha kulipira chifukwa cha kusowa chitonthozo, koma kuposa momwe simungaperekere chifukwa cha chimwemwe? Ngati inu, ndithudi, mukukhulupirira izo ... Choyimira mphete chachikondi ndi chizindikiro cha kukongola ndi kufunafuna chuma. Chovala cha pa chala chaching'ono chidzawonjezera kwa inu zowonongeka, zowonongeka komanso zakuthupi. Zoona, akatswiri a zamaganizo odziwika bwino adzakuyitanani kuti ndinu munthu wosakhulupirika, wokonda kuchita china chirichonse, chinyengo, komanso, adzawonjezera za chilakolako chanu chosachita chilichonse kuti mupambane.
Nthawi ino popanda kutenga mbali kwa akatswiri a maganizo. Amalonda amatha kunena kuti ngakhale kusankha chisankhulidwecho, ayenera kuchiritsidwa ndi chifukwa: mtundu uliwonse wa zamoyo uli ndi mphamvu zinazake ndipo umatha kuchititsa zochitika zina pamoyo wanu. Ndiko kulondola, zongopeka zowonjezereka - ndipo ngakhale chinthu chopanda pakechi chingasinthidwe kukhala sayansi yonse! Ndipo chifukwa cha chipiliro chochuluka, munthu sayenera kuiwala kuti azikhala wathanzi ndi kuchiritsa matenda-zomwe kwenikweni zimakhalapo.
Asilavo sanathenso kuphunzitsa malingaliro awo kuti apange malingaliro ndi kupereka chingwe pafupifupi tanthauzo losapatulika. Makamaka, paukwati, mphete imodzi yokha sinali yokwanira: simukusowa zokambirana zokha, komanso mgwirizano. Ngongole yokakamiza iyenera kukhala yodalirika komanso yopanda phindu, ndipo moyo wanu udzakhala bwino, popanda zovuta. Koma ndi chiyanjano chisankhocho chikufutukula: apa chirichonse chiri kwa kukoma kwanu ndi mtundu. Zoona, zinali zotheka kuvala izo zisanachitike ukwatiwo, ndipo pambuyo - pokhapokha panthawi yapadera, holide yomwe, ndiyeno, pamene sichichotsa ukwatiwo. Asanakwatirane, ndipo pambuyo, palibe mphete yaukwati ya wina aliyense yomwe ingayesere m'malo mwanu - Mulungu asalole kuti muchotse mwayi wanu, komanso kuwonjezera pa izo, ndi thanzi, inde, mnyamata wa kampani angakhale wabwino. Koma ngati mulibe nthawi yoyesa, yesani - kenaka zonse, lembani - nkhaniyi yatha, yang'anani ukwati, yendetsani alendo - posakhalitsa, tidzasudzulana. Chabwino, ngati mutakhala kale ndi nthawi yoti muwonetsepo chala chanu, muyenera kungoyamba kudutsa, ndipo mutatha kuimitsa, perekani ndi mawu akuti "Kutentha, moto, mavuto anga onse ndi chisoni." Ndipo inde, mwatsatanetsatane - simungalole kuti aliyense atenge mphete yanu pa chala chanu - kachiwiri mbiri yomwe tatchulayi idzabwereza ndikugwidwa ndi mwayi, mwayi wathanzi, mkwati ndi msonkhano wachiwiri mu ofesi ya olemba.
Ngati pali osakwatiwa, mungawaitane kuti agwire mphete yanu: chizindikiro chabwino, ndiye kuti adzakhala ndi ukwati. Kodi pali bwenzi losakwatiwa? Mkulu! Ayenera kupereka bokosi lopanda kanthu m'mphete. Kodi pali wina wosasangalala? Zochuluka kwambiri. Mumugwire kuti apeze maluwa achikwati, chizoloŵezi chochita zosangalatsa ndikukonzekera molondola: amene mphamvu yake ndi yambiri - mphete kapena bouquets? Pezani pamene bwenzi lina "limakwatirana."
Kodi mungapitirire bwanji?
Kotero, mwatsiriza ndi mpira wonsewu. Nanga bwanji tsopano? Khala mokondwa, sungani mphete ngati apulo la diso lanu, musataye ndipo simudandaula. Kodi mwakondwerera kale ukwati wa siliva? Perekani mphete kwa mwana wodalirika kwambiri - ngakhale atakondwerera siliva yake. Kodi mwakhalapo kukhala golidi? Pali zidzukulu, ioni ikhale yosangalala. Mwachangu muukwati wanu mukhoza kupereka mtendere ndi mgwirizano kwa m'badwo wanu wam'tsogolo. Ndipo kuti musadetsedwe, mungathe kuyanjana ndi nthano za banja, kotero kuti zidzukulu za ana akhoza kuziuza. Ndipo zidzukulu, ngati muli ndi nthawi.