Anachoka. Mofatsa komanso opanda tsatanetsatane. Anasiya nsalu zopanda kanthu pakhomo, khofi yotentha m'mawa ndi mtima wake wosweka.
Anachoka. Madzulo a ukwatiwo. Anatsegula chitseko pambuyo pofotokoza kufotokoza kwa chiyanjano ndi kuzindikira kuti adayamba kukondana ndi mkazi wina. Anachoka. Tsiku limene anabadwa. Anapeza kapepala kokha: "Pepani. Khalani okondwa! "Ndipo magazini inatsegulidwa patsamba" Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji chisudzulo? " Nkhani zoterezi zodzaza ndi gawo la amai, ndipo palibe chokhumudwitsa mwa iye kusiyana ndi kugawana ndi munthu wokondedwa. Ndi misonzi ingati yatsanulidwa, ndi mapemphero angati omwe amatembenuzidwira kwa Mulungu ndikupempha kuti mubwerere kwa yemwe adagawanitsa moyo wake "kutsogolo" ndi "pambuyo" pakuchoka kwake. Masiku ano, masabata ndi miyezi yakudikirira kumakhala kuzunzidwa, ndipo ndikufuna kuyang'ana m'tsogolo, kuti diso limodzi likhoza kuona ngati lidzabwerera kapena ayi? Ndipo pali mwayi wotere - zizindikiro zomwe zimanena za zizindikiro zomwe zimagwira pa mphamvu yomwe munthuyo adzabwerere.Chidziwitso cha amayi
Paziwonetsero za akazi nthano zimapita, koma zikayamba kukwaniritsidwa, ngakhale anthu omwe amatsutsa kwambiri amadziwa kuti chidziwitso cha amayi ndi cholondola kuposa ma watch Swiss. Mukhoza kutsimikizira nokha, ngati mumvetsera mawu a mtima wanu ndikufufuza zochita zanu zosadziŵa. Pa kubweranso kwa amuna "otawidwa" akunena zizindikiro:- Kutumikira pa tebulo kuti mudye, ngakhale ngakhale patapita nthawi yaitali, mumakhala opanda munthu wanu, intuitively miscalculate ndi kuyika chipangizo chowonjezera.
- Chakudya chimene mwamuna wanu amachikonda, ndi chimene inu munkagwira ntchito mwakuya ngakhale ngakhale maso anu atsekedwa, zinatenthedwa. Musathamangire kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cha kusokonezedwa. Mwinamwake munthu "akuwotcha" popanda inu, ndipo inu, mukukumverera mwa mphamvu zowonongeka, mukuwonetsa zochitika zake muzochitika zenizeni.
- Mwadzidzidzi, munabwerera ku chizoloŵezi chochita zinthu zomwe zinapangidwira kawiri: kukonzekera chakudya, kugula kawiri, kupanga mabedi, kutsuka zovala kwa munthu, zomwe iye sati abwerere, ndi zina zotero.
Kuzizwitsa kwa nyama
Werengani zambiri za kubwerera kwa amuna kungakhale kuchokera ku ziweto. Iwo ngakhale pamadera akutali amatha kumva mphamvu zamagetsi zochokera kwa mbuye, amene amalakalaka, zomwe akumana nazo ndipo akufuna kubwerera. Yang'anirani khalidwe la ziweto zanu. Mwinamwake akuchenjezani za posachedwa kubwerera kwa wokondedwa. Mungathe kukonzekera chiyanjano ndi munthu ngati:- Mphaka kapena galu wakhala wochititsa chidwi kumalo komwe munthu wako amakhala nthawi zonse kapena akugona. Makamaka ngati poyamba iwo analibe chidwi ndi mpando uwu, mpando, sofa.
- Galu amalankhula mu zinthu zomwe asiya mwamunayo, ndipo mbuziyo imagona pa zovala za amuna osasamala, ngakhale atagona m'malo ovuta kwambiri.
- Galu amakhala pamalo osungirako pafupi ndi khomo la kutsogolo, kupereka nsembe, kupereka maulendo kapena maloto nthawi zina, ngati kuopa kuphonya kufika kwa munthu wofunikira.
- Katemera atasiya mwamuna akhoza kumagona pabedi, ndiyeno mwadzidzidzi amaika kugona pa theka la bedi. Mwinamwake akuganiza kuti mwiniwakeyo abwera posachedwa ndi kum'tenga malo abwino.
Malangizo ndi zizindikiro za mkhalidwe
Izi zimachitika kuti Chilengedwe palokha sichitha mosiyana ndikuyang'ana zowawa zanu ndikukutumizirani zizindikiro zomwe mungathe kuzindikira kuti munthuyo ali kale kwa inu:- Inu munayamba kufika pa zinthu za munthu yemwe simunamuzindikirepo kale. Mwinamwake iwo anawonekera mwaufulu mnyumba mwanu, ngakhale kuti zinkawoneka kuti inu mwawachotsa iwo - iwo anawabisa iwo, anawasiya iwo, anawaponya iwo kapena anawapempha wina kuti awachotse iwo.
- Nyumbayo ikuphwanya mwadzidzidzi zomwe munthu wanu akukonzekera, kapena hanger, chithunzi, cornice, chandelier atapachikidwa ndi iye ikugwa. Zinthu izi "dziwani" kuti posachedwa yemwe ali mwini nyumba adzabwerera.
- Mu sitolo, pamaso panu, "mwangozi" ndi yokongola, penyani kapena chinthu china chokhacho, chofanana ndi chimene munapatsa munthu wokondedwa. Kodi mumakhulupirira mwangozi?
- Nthawi zambiri mumayamba kukumana ndi amuna, ofanana kwambiri ndi wokondedwa wanu - maonekedwe, khalidwe labwino, kavalidwe ka zovala, tsitsi, mawu, ndi zina. Inde, mutha kudzidzidzimutsa nokha kupsyinjika kwakukulu ndikuyamba kukopa "amuna ofanana" kumalo anu. Koma, ngati simunazindikire maginito otere, ndiye kuti amasonyeza kuti mulipo ponena za kubwerera kwa munthu wanu.
Kufufuzira ku Chilengedwe
Ngati simungakhoze kuyembekezera osagwira ntchito kapena mukufunikira yankho lolunjika pa zomwe mukuyembekeza, funsani amphamvu ngati bambo wanu abwera kwa inu.Njira 1: Ngati mwamuna wapita kwa mkazi wina
Pali ulosi wamakedzana umene udzafotokoze ngati ndibwino kuyembekezera kubweranso kwa wokondedwa:- Tengani kapu ndi madzi, pepala loyera, supuni ya tiyi ya mchere komanso kandulo yaukwati (ngati si - tchalitchi).
- Papepala, tchulani wotsutsa. Ngati simukudziwa, lembani mau akuti: "Wopikisana" kapena "wokonda".
- Yatsani kandulo pafupi ndi galasi. M'madzi muponyeni mchere, ndi kuika pepalalo ndi dzina muzitsulo zowonongeka ndi kuziyika.
- Nthawi yomweyo yesani mumchere wa galasi ndikumuuza kuti: "Ngati mcherewo usungunuka mofulumira, mwamuna wanga sangandisiye, ndipo pepalalo lidzatentha - chikondi chawo chidzatentha."
- Ngati pambuyo pake mitsuko ya mchere idzayandama m'madzi, ndipo pepala lidzasungunuka, kukonzekera kuti liyanjanenso ndi munthuyo. Ngati sichoncho, ziyembekezo zanu ndi zopanda pake.
Njira 2: Chithunzi chidzafulumira
Mudzasowa: mphete yothandizira, ulusi wa ubweya wokhala ndi masentimita 30-40, chithunzi cha munthu yemwe akuwonetserako yekha.- Lembani ulusi kudzera mu mphete ndi kumaliza mapeto pakati pa zala.
- Ikani ulusi ndi mphete pamwamba pa chithunzi cha munthuyo.
- Funsani funso lomwe mukufuna, ndikulikonza kuti yankho ndilo "inde" kapena "ayi", ndipo muwone kayendetsedwe ka "pendulum".
- Ngati mpheteyo isunthira pamtunda, yankho lake ndilo "inde", ngati "ayi", ngati muli bwalo - kukonzanso funso kapena kusiya kubwereza tsiku.