Moyo wadziko nthawizonse wakhala ukuwoneka ngati ulemu kwa mafashoni. Koma kodi mbali iyi yokoma ya moyo nthawizonse imakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino ndipo sichisungira miyala? Kukhala woona mtima, izi zikhoza kukhala masewera omwe ndi okhawo amene amaika malamulo ake akuwona kuti ali ndi ufulu wokhala wolemekezeka.
Moyo womwe umagwiridwa ndi anthu
Pa funso: "Kodi tikhoza kukomana madzulo?", Mwamuna nthawi zonse amapereka yankho losatha, ponena za ntchito nthawi zonse: kuwonetsedwa kwa mafashoni atsopano, kutsegula malo odyera atsopano, ndi zina zotero. Apa pali-moyo wokongola mu ulemerero wake wonse. Choncho, tiyeni tipitirize kupeza chomwe nasamom ndi "moyo wadziko" wokha.
Mu chidziwitso chaumunthu, munthu wamba sali wosasamala "phwando-goer" amene amakhala moyo usana ndi usiku pa mitundu yonse yolandira. Kunena zoona, "dziko" ndilofunika kukhala ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, chomwe chimatsimikiziridwa ndi zoyenera za munthu. Chikhalidwe chachiwiri ndi chidziwitso: munthu yemwe ali m'bwalo lake ayenera kukhala munthu wodziwika ndi wotchuka. Ndipo potsiriza, ayenera kukhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse kuti ayang'anire mosamalitsa. Pamene mawu akuti: "Mkhalidwe umagwirizana ndi izi!".
Moyo wamoyo ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la kukhalapo kwa nyenyezi za bizinesi yowonetsera komanso ndale. Ndipo kwa anthu ambiri amalonda, kuyendera ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana kumafanana ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku.
Koma zimakhalanso kuti zotsatira zake sizili zofunikira ndi zofunikira. Anthu oterewa amatsutsidwa kawirikawiri. Mwa njira, moyo wamtunduwu umatha kuchita zambiri kuposa nthawi yosangalatsa.
Timawulukira ku kuwala
Kuwonjezera kukula kwake. Zoonadi, moyo wokhudzana ndi umoyo sikuti uli usiku wokha: popanda kukhala ndi "maphwando" a mitundu yonse, lingaliro la moyo wadziko limaphatikizapo kuyenda, zikonema, mafilimu, ndi zina zotero. Simungangodziwana bwino ndi anthu okonza, komanso mumapeze zinthu zambiri zatsopano. Inde, si aliyense amene angalowe nawo pa gulu lapamwamba la yacht (apa zonse zimadalira ndalama zophikira). Koma aliyense akhoza kukhala membala, mwachitsanzo, wa Club International Women's. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhala bwino mu Chingerezi.
Kukhazikitsidwa kwa mgwirizano wa bizinesi . Malingana ndi Philippe de Carrier, chotsatira kwambiri cha mautumiki apakompyuta a ku France: "Kupambana kwa moyo kumadalira kuyankhula kwa anthu otchuka ndi 85% kapena 15% pazochita zanu zamalonda." Yoyamba siimapatula chachiwiri! Ndicho chifukwa cha ichi, wina amapeza timampampu, wina vinyo, ndi wina wothandiza anthu. Chiwonetsero ndi mwayi wapadera wokambirana momasuka ndi anthu omwe, monga lamulo, nthawi zonse zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti agwirizane pa msonkhano.
"Kuunikira" m'magulu. Ngati ntchito yanu imatanthauza "kulengeza", kenako kuonekera poyera, mukhoza kukhala munthu wodziwika. Koma chifukwa cha izi ndikofunika kuwonetsa maonekedwe ake m'masamba ake omwe apindula.
Kulimbitsa fano . Chifaniziro chathu chitha kukhudza momwe timachitira nawo gawo limodzi mwa zochitika zofunika. Mukhoza kutchula nthawi zonse kuti mumapita ku phwando ndi anthu otchuka. Kutchulidwa kwanu nokha pa nkhani ya "nyenyezi" kumasonyeza kuwala kwa kuwala.
Zabwino ! Palibe amene amaletsa mtima kuti usangalale pa phwando la chakudya chamadzulo kapena phwando losangalatsa.
Mithunzi ya kuwala
Mayeso oterewa ndi opambana mphamvu zonse. Ndipo ngati mafilimu oterewa akukhala omasuka, ndiye kuti otsogolera nthawi zonse amadziyanjanitsa ndi "kulankhulana" mosavuta. Ndipo izi sizikutchulidwa anthu omwe maofesi osiyanasiyana anali atakhazikika ...
"Camomile buttercups." Anthu omwe amadzichepetsa kwambiri nthawi zonse amakhala osasangalatsa pazinthu zabwino. Ndipo ngati simugwiritsa ntchito ola limodzi pa tsiku kuti muthe "Ndili wabwino!", Musathamangire modunyusku. Kuchokera paziganizo zapakati ndi maso oyaka, mumayesera, monga maluwa awa.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ? Dzifufuzeni nokha zomwe mungapindule pakupezeka pamsonkhanowu. Kupuma, kusokoneza ndikuphunzira china chatsopano? Ndiye pitani patsogolo! Ndipo pofuna kuthandizira maganizo, gwirani mnzanu nanu.
"Chinachake mumtsinje wosamba ..." . Chidwi chimakhala kwathunthu mwa ife tonse. Komabe, zimakhala zophweka kumenyana ndi malingaliro amenewa kusiyana ndi zovuta kwambiri (okongola kwambiri, ovala bwino ngati atsikana aang'ono ndi ambuye ndi kusamalira kwambiri anthu awo), apa "chophimba" cha banal chikhoza kusokonezedwa.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ? Pokavashi muyeso sakulolani kuti mutengedwe ku chiwerengero cha anthu otchedwa "golide", yesetsani kuyang'ana chirichonse ngati muli kuchokera mu filimuyi.
"Matenda abwino kwambiri a sukulu". Ndinu wophunzira wabwino ku sukulu, sukulu, komanso kuntchito simukusiya moyo wanu. Inu mumangogwiritsidwa ntchito kulikonse ndipo mu chirichonse kukhala choyamba ndikuchita chirichonse chimene chinayikidwa poyamba. Koma simukumva chikondi chilichonse cha mtunduwu, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti muli pakati pawo, chifukwa ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kupambana kwanu m'moyo.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ? Ingosangalala, chifukwa kutuluka sikupereka lipoti lalikulu. Ndikufuna kupumula - ndikuchita, sindikufuna ku ^ kukulunga nyumba mu bulangeti ndikuwerenga bukhu.
"Kuthamangira kusungulumwa." Polimbikitsidwa ndi woyang'anira msonkho, mayi wina yekhayo amapita ku mwambowu ndikunyoza kuti: "Kulikonse komwe ndikupita, ndikuyenda ndi iwe panjira!".
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ? Mwa anthu osadziwika mumsonkhanowo, mumatha kudzimva kuti ndinu osungulumwa. Potsatira uphungu wa akatswiri a maganizo, ndikofunikira "kusankha ndi bulu" mabwenzi anu ndi "kutambasula" anthu enieni ndi oyandikana nawo pamtundu wa kumvetsetsa.
Wonjezerani zazinthu!
Mpaka pano, kukhala ndi mtundu wina wa ntchito sikovuta. Koma ndi cholinga cha phindu laumwini, zidzakhala zoyenera kulingalira, muyeso la dzina lanu mukuitanidwa ku mpira: kuvina mazurka kapena kusunga malaya. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mu udindo wa "munthu wofunikira" kapenanso chabe khalidwe lachikhalidwe.
Potsatira njira ya moyo, zochitika zonse zimapangidwa ndi cholinga chokopa ndi kukondweretsa anthu apamwamba kwambiri - monga akunenera, amaloledwa pano. Ndipo momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kwa inu, ngati palibe chomwe chikudziwika ponena za moyo wanu kwa anthu onse, koma mumagwiritsa ntchito mokondwera ndi phindu kwa kanthawi komwe mukufuna?
Choyamba, nkofunikira kusonyeza chidwi chanu ndi chisomo chanu. Chachiwiri, musayembekezere kuti mudzasangalatsidwa-kubweretsani zolemba za chiyambi chokha pachikhalidwe cha mwambo. Chachitatu, ngakhale ndi chinthu chosamalitsa kwambiri, chitani zinthu mosadziletsa komanso mosagwirizana.
Kumbukirani kuti anthu adziko lapansi adziwona ndikumva zambiri, kotero ndizovuta kuwadabwitsa ndi chirichonse. Koma iwo amayamikira chiyambi, chidaliro mu chirichonse, kudzipangira, kudzipereka ndi kuthekera kudzisunga nokha pa mapazi ofanana ndi anthu otchuka. Tiyeni tikumbukire Oscar Wilde, yemwe adati pofuna kupeza dziko lonse, munthu ayenera kudyetsa, kapena kukondweretsa, kapena kuwadodometsa anthu! Pano pali lamulo la golidi la momwe mungapezere bwino mudziko ladziko!