Kukhala nthawizonse mofulumira kwambiri, wochenjera kwambiri, wamphamvu - yowoneka ngati yomveka ndi yololera. Pezani makapu ndi diploma ambiri - poyamba pakuwona ntchito yabwino kwambiri. Ndicho chenichenicho chiri chonse kuti ndondomeko iliyonse ili ndi mbali. Kodi mungakhale chikhumbo chotani kuti mukhale nambala 1 pa chovala chilichonse ndipo kodi chikhumbochi chikuchokera kuti? Utsogoleri wamtundu ndi wachiwiri chimwemwe kapena vuto la moyo wonse? Werengani - zonsezi za iwe.
Pakati pa 1: Kukondana machesi.
Muzoloŵera kuchita zonse pamodzi - kukwera ma greats ndikusambira mu dziwe, kukakamira nkhaniyi ndikupita ku tchuthi, kukala maapulo pabedi ndikuwonekera mu mtima wa kuvina. Ndi bwenzi lapamtima inu ndi akaunti mu nyumba ya khofi, ndi sutikesiyo paulendo wopita kunyanja mumagawanire awiri. Zoona, ndi kusungirako: kwa awiri - sizikutanthauza makumi asanu ndi makumi asanu. Muli okonzeka kubwereka mafilimu atsopano, mapulogalamu a tsitsi ndi msomali wa msomali. Koma mtsogoleri sakufuna kupereka jeresi. Kunja mpikisano uwu ndi wosazindikira: nthawi zonse mumathamangira wina ndi mzake pamutu ndikufuula "Wow!". Koma, mutatsegula manja anu, mumayang'ana ndikuganiza kuti: "Ndatayika, ndinayamba sunburnt, ndinadula tsitsi langa ... Zovala monga Carrie m'nthawi yachitatu". Kukhumudwa, zosautsa, kusakhutira ndiwekha nthawi zonse umaphimba mutu wako pamene chithunzi pa bolodi la ulemu ndi chapamwamba kuposa chako. Ndipo mudzachita zonse kuti mutenge mpata wabwino kwambiri wa mpikisano wanu. Ndi nkhope yosayenerera kwambiri, bwererani mnzanu kuti aswetse burgers ndi cola, ndikukakamiza kuti mugwire zakudya za masamba. Simudzazindikira tsitsa pa t-sheti yake, ndikuthandiza kukonzekera tsiku. Mvetserani moyenera mu chipinda choyenerera, osakhala chete, kuti mu jekete ili likufanana ndi apolisi a robot. Ndiyeno mwangozi amadandaula ndi chibwenzi chake chatsopano: mu loto amamveka ngati chimphona chamatsenga.
Pakati pa 2: Gonjetsani Club.
Kwa zaka zambiri, pamene simunaganize chifukwa chake anyamata ndi atsikana ali osiyana, kuika anyamata awo pamalo omwe anali masewera omwe ankakonda kwambiri. Mudakwera mtengo mofulumira kuposa wina aliyense, muthamanga kuchoka pachitsime kupita ku mtengo wakale wachikuta ndikuwuluka pa njinga mumtunda, mukungoseketsa anthu omwe anagwira manja awiri kumbuyo kwa gudumu. Pokhala msungwana pa nkhani iyi inali yolemekezeka - iwe ukhoza kusewera zidole ndi kulira, kukwakulira bondo lako, koma m'malo mwake unasonyeza kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu ya malingaliro. Anthu osakwatirana amakukondani ndipo anakutengerani ndi inu kuti mukanyamula maapulo kuchokera kumunda wapafupi. Tsopano inu mwakulira - iwo adataya kukwera mipanda ndi kupepesa kwa Amalume Kolya chifukwa cha mbewu zomwe zinatayika. Anyamatawo anasintha kwambiri kwa magalimoto oyambirira, anasintha kuchokera ku "wankhondo" kupita ku Counter-Strike ndipo anaima kuthamangira atsikana chifukwa cha zida. Inde, ndipo mwaiwala kuti kamodzi kankakhala tomboy, koma njira yomwe mumakonda kwambiri kuti mupeze chidwi cha anyamata omwe amakhala mu arsenal. Ngati ndi kotheka, mutha kubwerera m'mbuyo pa skate board ndipo, mutakhala kumbuyo kwa gudumu, mutenge apolisi. Mumagwira maonekedwe abwino ndikudikirira, pamene mmodzi wa iwo adzaponyedwa ndi chinthu chomwe mumamva.
Pakati pa 3: Kulimbana ndi kalasi.
Malo okhala pa desiki yoyamba yomwe mumapambana ndi chiwawa chotero, ngati mmalo mwa phunziro la fiziki, Justin Timberlake awonetsero yoyamba ndi yotsiriza mumzinda mwanu yatsala pang'ono kuyamba. Chifukwa cha chilakolako cha chidziwitso, mukhoza kusunga mwakuthupi: kwezani dzanja lanu - njira zitatu ndi zokometsera, kuthamangira ku gulu - magulu awiri ndi masewera. Gulu lolemekezeka liri lonse m'magaziniyi, ndipo makolo amafunika kuti azilemba zolemba zanu panthawi ya chikondwerero cha banja - kudzitamandira ndi kupambana kwa mwana wanzeru. Mukalasi inu ndinu mtsogoleri wotere. Zina zonse zimagonjetsedwa pang'ono: ngakhale ngati wina ali pafupi ndi inu pamapeto, mumaponyera mnzanuyo mwakachetechete mofulumira, kuti muzitha kuyang'anitsa zomwe mwapeza ndi pepala. Kugawana ndi munthu malo olemekezeka omwe simukufuna. Iwe ndi wokonzeka kupita ku chirichonse, ngati asanu okhawo m'kalasi anapita kwa iwe.
Zotsatira za nkhondoyo.
Kudzitamanda mphuno yanu pamtunda wanu woyamba, simukufulumira kukwaniritsa zotsatira za kulimbana kosalekeza. Pakalipano, malingana ndi zotsatira za maulendo onse - kuphatikizapo mbiri yagonjetsa - mungathe kupanga mndandanda wa zowonongeka. Yachiŵiri nthawi zina nthawi zina imadutsa yoyamba. Ndi chibwenzi changa, sizosangalatsa konse. Zing'onozing'ono zamtengo wapatali, tsatanetsatane wa tsatanetsatane - pang'onopang'ono mpanda umakula pakati pa iwe. Wokongola, ngakhale, mwamtheradi wogontha. Zimangokhala zojambula mu chikasu chimene mumaikonda - mtundu wa jeresi wa mtsogoleri. Ndipo muiwale kuti pambuyo pake pakhala kamodzi ndi munthu pafupi ndi inu.
Ndi maloto a mnyamata, zonse sizili zomvetsa chisoni, komanso osasangalala kwambiri. Inde, tsiku lina, iye adzakumverani inu ndipo adzakupatsani kukwera ndi mphepo usiku wa avenue. Mudzakambirana ndi iye ubwino wonse wa bokosi lamagetsi ndikuthandizani kusankha magudumu opangira. Kale m'mawa adzakutengerani ku khomo ndipo adzanena zabwino ... kugwirana chanza. Zotsatira zanu zonse zakumpsompsona iye amanyalanyaza. Inu mukhoza kukhala abwenzi - panonso. Chifukwa pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mumamvetsa bwino kuposa iyeyo. Zapangidwe zanu zophikira ndi zodziwa mabuku a ku Ulaya sizikanamuchititsa manyazi. Koma makompyuta, magalimoto ndi masewera oopsa ndi gawo la anyamata omwe ayenera kukhala akatswiri. Mukadziwonetsa nokha, munadziwonetsa kuti ndi woipa kwambiri. Ngati mukumva ngati wotayika pafupi ndi inu, chinthu choyamba chimene akuchita ndicho kuwonjezera mtunda. Mosamala kapena ayi - ndi zofanana? Ndi anzanu akusukulu, chirichonse sichingakhale shuga konse. Inde, muli ndi kalata yabwino, koma musayembekezere kuti album yomalizira idzadza ndi chidwi chochokera kwa anansi pa desiki. Mdima wa golidi wa golidi unakusocheretsani kwambiri moti munaiwala zomwe mukuphunzitsidwa kusukulu. Kuwonjezera pa mayendedwe, malemba ndi malamulo a galamala, palinso china-kuyambira pa 1 mpaka 11, simunapite pachabe kuti mugwire ntchito mu gulu. Zokha, musakonzekere KVN, musati muike "Mumu" pa siteji ya nyumba ya msonkhano, musagwedeze mbiri ya kabati kuti iwononge. Kupikisana ndi chirichonse ndi chirichonse, iwe umatayika gulu lothandizira kamodzi. Ndipo chimodzi, monga mukudziwa, si wankhondo mmunda.
Kulimbana ndi mzimu.
Mu psychology pali chinthu chonchi-kuperewera. Izi zikutanthawuza chinachake chonga ichi: Pamene mukumva kuti mukulephera, simunapindule mumodzi mwa magawo, mukuyesera kuti muzindikire, mutumphire pa wina aliyense. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kumbuyo kwanu kosautsa, kulimbikitsana kwakukulu pamtundu uliwonse wa chikhalidwe chimene chimakumana pa njira, kuima - voila! - maofesi otchuka kwambiri. Taganizirani izi - kodi zimakuchititsani kuti muike marekodi, mofulumira, apamwamba, amphamvu? Mwinamwake mukudziganizira nokha osati wokongola, kotero munalimbikitsa: "Koma ndine wanzeru," ndikusonkhanitsa zisanu zokha mu diary yanga m'buku langa? Mwinamwake, kupambana kwanu kumunda wa skate kumayendetsedwa ndi kutsutsidwa kwa anzanu-anyamata ndi chikhumbo chanu chotsimikizira kwa anyamata kuti ndinu abwino kuposa momwe iwo akuganizira za inu? Mwinamwake, kufuna kwanu kudumpha pafupi ndi chibwenzi chikubwera kuchokera ku chilakolako cha banal kuti chidzidziyimire chokha kumbuyo kwake, kuti muthe kudziyika kukayikira, kuti mudziwonetse nokha kuti inu mukhoza kuliposa izo mu chirichonse? Zotsatira zake zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri, ngati zovutazo zimamenyana ndichindunji, osati zowonongeka. Momwe izi zakhalira, mwangophunzira kuchokera mndandanda wammbuyo.
Mzere wa ulemu.
Ndipo pambuyo pake, kuthamanga ku mtundu kumakuthandizani kuti musayime. Njira yopikisana imapanga njira yoyenera - patsogolo ndi mmwamba. Kukonzekera kwathunthu kumaphunzitsa kuti muzichita khama kuti mufanane kapena muthamangire kuposa zolinga. Ndipo chilakolako cha mpikisano chimalimbikitsa ndi kulimbikitsa kulimbana ndi mphoto yaikulu, kaya ndi chikondi cha aphunzitsi, kulemekeza kwa abwenzi kapena mutu wa Miss Universe. Ndipo chirichonse chidzakhala chopambana kwambiri - pansi pa chikhalidwe chimodzi: ngati iwe uphunzira kuti usayang'ane pozungulira. Malingaliro anu, mu mpikisano wa ungwiro, chimwemwe chochokera ku malo oyamba chimakhala chosakwanira ngati wina satenga nambala ndi nambala 2 ndi 3, chabwino? Ndikutsimikiza kuti zonse zimadziwika pokhapokha? Ndipo apa ayi.
Kuchita pansi pa chilankhulo "kuti mutenge ndikutulutsidwa pazofunika zonse!", Ndi zophweka kusiya njira yanu nokha kupeza mphotho ya wina, zomwe kwenikweni sizidzakhala zofunikira.
Chabwino, kuvomereza, ngati mwatchutchutchu, simukupita pa mivi yonse yowopsya imene mwasamala kuti muzitha kutseka maso a mzanga. Vomerezani, ngati sikuli chifukwa chofuna kutulutsa anyamatawo, mutha kukondwa kuchoka pa skate, ndikusinthanitsa ndi njirayi mu dziwe. Ndipo ntchito za Mendeleev-Klaperson Pascal ndi Hooke zimachoka pamtsamiro, ndikuika m'malo awo Wilde, Maupassant ndi Exupery. Kotero ndikukukanikani? Ndiwe nokha. Moyo - osati kuthamanga kwa mtunda wautali konse. Chiwonongeko sichimasewera ndondomeko yodziwika komanso yokha. Aliyense ali ndi chiyambi chake, njira yake, magawo ake apakati ndi makapu ake pamapeto. Ndiwo cholinga chenichenicho. Ndi nthawi yoti muyimitse, yongolerani masewerawa ndikuyenda m'maderawo. Ganizirani ngati mumathamangira kumeneko ndi chifukwa choti mwamsanga, ndipo ngati cholinga chanu chenicheni sichinayang'ane. Ngati muyankha moona mtima mafunso awa - simudzamenyana ndi mutu wanu motsutsana ndi zoletsa za anthu ena. Exhale. Ndipo mobwerezabwereza mukuyenda mwanjira inayake - kwa makapu anu ndi mphotho, zomwe zinali kuyembekezera kumapeto.