Anzadzukulu aamuna okondwa achiroma, omwe nthawi yomwe Tsiku la Akazi anabadwira, adatsimikiza kuti kukhalapo kwa okondedwa awo pa tsiku la akazi la kasupe ndi kukongola, kulankhula momasuka, pachabe. Amuna lero amaloledwa kupereka magawo awo ku phwandolo (atapereka kale mphatso yamtengo wapatali), kenako amapita kunyumba.
Ndiko kuyesa pa dzanja limodzi. Koma pa zina, ndikuwoneka kuti lingaliro liri pafupi kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pezani maluwa ofiira ofunika kwambiri, pita limodzi kuti muyambe kukondana (kumagona mpaka madzulo kapena kupita kumalo odyetsera moyo), ndipo madzulo muzipita ku malo odyera abwino (kukonza chakudya pakhomo limodzi kapena kuitanitsa phwando khumi ndi limodzi pafupi amzanga). Script ya tsiku la amai la kasupe ndi kukongola kungakhale chirichonse, chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti mumagwiritsa ntchito mosaiwalika, kumverera kuti mumakondedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa, mukuzindikira kuti ndinu osangalala popanda "zinthu."
Kuyembekezera chozizwitsa
Mukuganiza bwanji, tikuyembekezera chiyani madzulo a Tsiku la Akazi? Maluwa, zodzikongoletsera, zovala zapamwamba, maswiti, zonunkhira zapamwamba? Inde, palibe mmodzi wa ife amene amakana mphatso izi, koma mosiyana, amakhumudwa ngati sakulandira mphatso kuchokera pa mndandanda ngati mphatso. Koma mphatso, chirichonse chimene anganene, ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe tikuyembekezera mwachidwi pa March 8. Tikuyembekeza zambiri: zodabwitsa zomwe sitinathe kuzifotokozera, koma zikachitika, tidzatha kumvetsa "Inde, izi ndi zomwe ndalota!" Zodabwitsa, zodabwitsa, potsirizira pake. Zodabwitsa zomwe amuna athu okondeka akukonzekera lero. Koma kuti iwo anali chimodzimodzi monga momwe inu munalota, tiyeni tithandizire oimira omwe tasankhidwa mu kukhazikitsa kwawo pang'ono.
Zochitika zisanachitike za tchuthi
Ndithudi mu moyo wanu mumakhala mukutsutsana mobwerezabwereza ndi lingaliro la momwe grandiose amakondwerera Tsiku la Akazi (komabe, monga masiku ena odabwitsa) inu ndi mnzanuyo muli osiyana kwambiri. Chaka chatha inu, mwachitsanzo, munalota kuti inu ndi mwamuna wanu mutha kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku lino pokhapokha, koma adatenga ndi kuwaitanira abwenzi (zinali zabwino ngakhale kuti ankaphika chakudya chamadzulo). Ndipo mnzanu wapamtima anali kuyembekezera kuti mwamuna wake adzamufikitsa ndi mwana wamwamuna ku chigwa cha ku France, amene amamukonda pa chiwonetserochi. Koma adalandira mphatso yamtengo wapatali, yomwe inaipitsitsa kwambiri yomwe simunakumane nayo (mwatsoka, ikhoza kubwezeretsedwa ku sitolo, yomwe adachita mwamtendere). Chifukwa cha zitsanzo zowoneka bwino kwambiri, mukuzindikira kuti: Wokondedwayo, ziribe kanthu momwe muliri pafupi, sangathe kuĊµerenga maganizo anu. Ndipo muuzeni mwamunthu mwakachetechete za "zipilala zofiira" kapena "ndodo za mfumukazi" zomwe mumalota pa tsiku lachisanu, bwino kwambiri. Kodi izi zingatheke bwanji? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti malingaliro anu ayenera kukhala opanda nzeru, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndipo muli ndi tsatanetsatane wowonjezereka womwe ungathandize munthu kukumbukira chikhumbo chanu. Mwachitsanzo, "Kodi ndi thumba lanji lomwe mtsikana ali nalo? Chikondi chakuda, chikondi changa! Ndikuganiza kuti ndinawona zomwezo m'sitolo pafupi ndi sitolo. " Mutha kukhala wotsimikiza, mwamuna wanu adzasangalala kugwiritsa ntchito chithandizo chanu. Chinthu chokha, musati mukankhire. Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwa iye ngati kuti ukuganiza nokha. Mofananamo, mungathe kusintha mwakachetechete "kusintha" ndi momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito tchuthi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutchula nthawi zingapo za malo abwino omwe mumayandikana nawo komanso momwe mungakonde kumwa tiyi pamenepo ndi charlotte, makamaka, pa 8, March, chikhumbo chanu chidzakwaniritsidwa.
Zikomo kwambiri! Onetsetsani kuti muwonetse chimwemwe chanu panthawi iliyonse kuyamikira, kusonyeza chidwi, mphatso. Sungani, kuyamika mochokera pansi pamtima, perekani chiyamiko kwa kukoma ndi malingaliro a wokondedwa. Ngakhale iye sanati ... chonde inu. Ngakhale zilizonse, adayesa, kuganizira, kusankha, kuthera. Mwinamwake simunamuwuze mnzanuyo mfundo yolondola, poganiza kuti ayenera kudziganizira nokha zokhumba zanu, kapena kuwonetsa momveka bwino. Osadandaula ndikukhumudwitsa wokondedwa wanu. Gulani zomwe mwalota, kapena funsani nthawi yotsatira. Maholide ali patsogolo ndi ochuluka!