Akazi samadziwa pang'ono za amuna omwe amagwira nawo ntchito. Nthawi zina samangomvetsa. Izi zikugwirizananso ndi mavuto omwe amayi ogwira ntchito akukumana nawo ndi mabwana awo ndi amuna anzawo. M'munsimu amaonedwa kuti ndi omwe amachitikira. Amuna sazindikira amayi akugwira nawo ntchito mofanana. Kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala ndi lingaliro losavuta kwambiri la amayi omwe amakumana tsiku ndi tsiku kuntchito, ndipo amawaweruza, poyamba, malinga ndi deta yawo yakunja. Amuna amachitira mokhazikika akazi omwe amapereka ntchito yawo (kusindikiza, kuntchito ya ofesi, etc.) kapena ali pansi pawo payekha la ntchito. Iwo amatsogoleredwa, ndipo amayi sachita nawo mpikisano nawo. Ambiri mwa ogwira ntchito ndi abambo, amuna alibe kanthu kotsutsa nawo ntchito malinga ngati ali atsogoleri ndikuyendetsa mkhalidwewo. Komabe, iwo samamva bwino ndi kusokonezeka kwa chiwerengero cha amayi omwe ali ofanana pa chitukuko chawo.
Azimayi amakono akutsutsana kwambiri ndi amuna m'madera omwe kale anali amuna. Amadziona kuti ndi ofanana ndi amuna, amapandukira amuna apamwamba, amadzinenera kuti amaletsa malipiro ndi kukwezedwa. Izi zimawakwiyitsa amuna omwe amawaona kuti akaziwa ndi ovuta, ndipo nthawi zina amawopseza moyo wawo.
Amuna amakonda kukhala ndi zochepa zedi kuti agwirizane ndi akazi oterewa. Zotsatira zake, akazi akhoza kudzipatula okha. Nthawi zambiri amasowa zambiri zokhudza momwe zinthu zilili mkati mwakhama, zomwe amuna amatha kusinthana wina ndi mzake.
Komanso, pazochitika zoterozo, amayi akhoza kuchitidwa nkhanza ndi amuna. Kugonjetsedwa kumeneku kungakhale kolunjika, ndi zowopsya ndi zotsutsana ndi anthu, kapena zotsutsana, mwachitsanzo, mwa kunong'oneza, kuzinena, kulakalaka manyazi, ndi zina zotero. Zopweteka kwambiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana, pamene akukhulupirira kuti mayi analandira kukwezedwa kapena kupindula ndi ntchito ina iliyonse, osati chifukwa chakuti ali ndi luso loyenerera pa ntchitoyi, koma chifukwa cha makhalidwe ake ogonana. Amuna amatha kuchita zinthu zoterezi, chifukwa mwina sangavomereze kuti chiyeneretso cha mkazi wotero ndi chapamwamba kuposa momwe amachitira. Choncho, ngati mkazi akulimbikitsidwa mwakhama, amatha kukhala miseche.
Musanayankhe zotsutsanazi, onetsetsani kuti akutsogoleredwa mwachindunji motsutsana nanu, ndipo simunawavutitse nokha, komanso musankhe ngati akuyenera kupita kukamenyana. Kenaka phunzirani umunthu ndi khalidwe la mdani wanu, izi zidzakupangitsani kuti mukhale ovuta kuti mupirire nazo. Ngati munayesedwa, musapereke kwa oyamba kufuna kuyankha mofanana. Ndibwino kuyesa kutembenuza aliyense mwachinyengo kapena kumufunsa mdani wanu momveka bwino: "Kodi mumanena izi chifukwa chiyani?" Njoka kapena funso, mukhoza kuchepetsa mphamvu yakuukira popanda kumupandukira.
Mungayesere kugwiritsa ntchito chida cha mkazi ngati misonzi. Kwa amuna, misonzi yanu idzatanthawuza kuti nkhaniyi ndi yofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, ndipo iwo adzamvetsera kwambiri ndikuyesa kuchoka pavutoli mofulumira. Osangobwereza izi ndi misonzi kachiwiri, mwinamwake aliyense angaganize kuti simungathe kuugwira mtima.
Kuti mupewe kuchita zachiwawa m'tsogolomu, khalani oyenerera pa ntchito yanu ndipo onetsetsani kuti aliyense akudziwa za kupita kwanu. Komabe, kuti mugwire ntchito mwakhama, izi sizomwe mukufunikira kwa inu. Khalani ndi ubale wabwino ndi anzako ndipo, makamaka, ndi bwana wanu. Tsatirani miyambo ndi miyambo ya firm. Ngati, mwachitsanzo, mu timu yanu mukufunika kwambiri ku masewera, muyenera kutengeka nawo. Kuti nthawi zonse muzindikire milanduyi, muyenera kukhala ndi anzanu ambiri.
Zimathandizanso kugwiritsa ntchito amuna kuti athandizidwe, koma osati pa udindo wa mkazi wofooka, koma monga mnzanu amene akusowa zambiri zokhudza nkhani inayake.
Ndipo kawirikawiri, ganizirani ngati muyenera kudzinenera utsogoleri. Ndipotu, ngati mulibe amai okwanira mu timu yanu, ndiye kuti mudzasangalala ndi zowonjezera.
Kuchita zachiwerewere kwa amuna ndi vuto lomwe amayi ambiri amakumana nawo kuntchito. Ikhoza kudziwonetsera yokha mwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana: zizindikiro ndi malingaliro, nthabwala zopanda pake, chiyankhulo choipa, kuyesa kugwira kapena kugonana, kunyalanyaza ngati kukana kugonana komanso kuyesa kugwiriridwa. Zochita zoterezi zikhoza kuyembekezedwa kwa akuluakulu onse komanso ogwira nawo ntchito. Zifukwa za khalidwe ili la amuna sizinangoganizira zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso pofuna kuwonetsa mphamvu zawo komanso kupambana kwa amayi.
Mzimayi nthawi zina amachita manyazi kapena amawopa mwamuna, samafuna kukangana, kuti asamaoneke ngati wopusa. Ngati pali malipiro a kuleza mtima, amatha kuchita zinthu mopitirira malire, mwachitsanzo, kusiya ntchito yake.
Njira yosavuta yodzitetezera ndiyo kusiya mayesero otero pazu. Izi zikadzachitika nthawi yoyamba, yesetsani kuti musayambe kukambirana ndi inu kapena pamaso panu ndikuchotsani manja anu popanda kukambirana pa nkhaniyi. Komabe, ngati kuyesayesa kuyesayesa kunali kofewa komanso kosavuta, ndiye kofunikira kuyankha mwanzeru, osakhudza kudzidalira kwa munthuyo. Monga lamulo, ziyenera kukhala popanda phokoso ndi zotsatira zomwe zimapangitsa kutha kwa khalidweli.
Ngati ikupitiriza, yochenjezani kuti muyenera kunena kapena kulemba chikumbumtima kwa bwana wanu kapena apamwamba. Nthawi zambiri, mukhoza kulemba zokambirana ndi mdani wanu pa dictaphone ya mthumba ndikumuchenjeza kuti mudzadziwana ndi filimuyi ya bwana wake kapena kufunsa loya.