Tchuthi la ana: timapita kukacheza ndi kudzikonza tokha

Patsiku la ana a zaka zapakati pa 4-7 silingathe kuchitika popanda kuthandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi akuluakulu. Koma kutumiza kuyitanira ndikuyitanira anthu omwe akubwera kudzakhala achinyamata ndi theka la nkhondo. Konzani zosangalatsa za ana enieni - ndi ntchito yayikulu komanso ntchito zambiri za papa ndi amayi a munthu wokondwa kwambiri wa chikondwererochi. Ndipo ngakhale simunayambe kuchita nawo tchuthi ndipo ana anu omwe adayitanidwa ku tsiku lobadwa, simukuyesa iwo okha omwe akukuitanani, komanso kwa inu, makolo a mlendo wamng'ono. Ngati mwana wanu ali mlendo
Makolo a mtsikana ameneyu wa gulu la kindergarten, komwe mwana wanu wamkazi wazaka zisanu amapita, amamupempha kuti akondwere mayina a ana ake? Pasanathe masiku atatu, onetsetsani kuwauza ngati mungathe kubwera. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuwerengera chakudya ndi zakumwa, musanayambe kupanga masewera ndi zosangalatsa zingathe kutsogoleredwa ndi ana angapo. Ngati mwana wanu akudwala tsiku lomwelo, tchenjezani kuti simungathe kubwera. Ndipo kuchokera kumbali yanu zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri kutumiza mphatso yophiphiritsa kwa msungwana wakubadwa.

Musatenge "mulu" wa mchimwene kapena wamkulu kapena mlongo wa mwana wanu amene mwamuitana. Lamulo ndi lophweka: musamabweretse wina yemwe sanaitanidwe! Zikuoneka kuti mwana wanu wazaka 4 mwiniwakeyo adzamveketsa palimodzi ndi anyamata oyambirira, ndipo sangathe kusewera naye ndi kupikisana mofanana. Mwa kubweretsa mwana "wosakonzekereka" ku kampaniyo, mukhoza kuthetsa zonse zomwe zinachitika pa holideyi.

Ngati mwamuitana mwana mmodzi yekha, opanda makolo, mutuluke mwanayo mwakachetechete, pitani, mufunse momwe mungatengere mwana wanu. Tangoganizani ngati mwana aliyense adzabwera ndipo padzakhala amayi ndi abambo, chiwerengero cha alendo chidzabwereka katatu! Nyumbayi siingathe kupangidwira alendo ambiri. Nthawi yokwanira yokwanira yochitira zikondwerero za ana ndi maola 3-4, ngati ikhala nthawi yayitali, ana amakhala otopa, osadziwika bwino komanso tchuthi limasintha. Siyani makonzedwe anu, nambala ya foni basi, ngati mutachoka. Musadandaule! Palibe choopsa chomwe chidzachitike. Kachiwiri pambuyo pa kuchoka kwanu, mwana wanu, yemwe anangoyankhula manyazi, nthawi yomweyo amatengedwa ndi masewerawo.

Musabwere kudzayambirira - lamuloli likugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa alendo aliyense, mosasamala za msinkhu. Musachotse kwa otsogolera theka lachidule la kukonzekera phwando.

Pasanapite nthawi, fufuzani zochitika za holideyi ndi kuvala mwanayo moyenera. Ngati zasankhidwa kuti chikondwerere tsiku lobadwa mu paki yamadzi, tuxedo yoyera kapena suti kwa mwana wanu wamng'ono sizingakhale zothandiza - chinthu chachikulu ndikutenga kusungunuka. Chokongola kwambiri "kavalidwe kaukwati" mu zozizwitsa komanso zowonongeka, mwinamwake, zingalepheretse mtsikana kuti asatenge nawo mbali masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndipo nkofunika kwambiri kuti mwana wanu asawonekere bwino kuposa msungwana wakubadwa. Ndi bwino kumveka bwino mwanayo, koma osati mwakachetechete.

Makolo a tsiku la kubadwa adzasangalala kwambiri ngati mutapereka thandizo lanu pasadakhale: mwinamwake muyenera kutenga zinthu zina zapanyumba, zovala, masewera kunyumba.

Dyetsani mwanayo musanachezere. Inde, inde! Ana okondwa kwambiri ndi ana awo, ana sangathe kudya pokhapokha atatulutsa chips, zomwe amakonda kapena maswiti. Koma mwana wakhanda wanjala akhoza kudabwitsa aliyense ndi whims, kotero zikhala bwino ngati abwera kudzacheza satiated.

Mwana wazaka zinayi ayenera kale kudzidziwitsa yekha, kutchula dzina lake ndikudziwana bwino ndi omwe sakudziwa. Pamapeto pa tchuthi, zidzakhala zabwino ngati mwanayo ati: "Zikomo kwambiri, ndinasangalala kukumana nanu." Ndinakukondani kwambiri, mumabwera kudzatichezera. "

Ngati mwana wanu ndi amene amachititsa mwambowu
Choyamba, nkofunikira kutumiza maitanidwe kapena kuitana odwala masiku osachepera 10 chichitike, kuti anthu athe kukonzekera - sankhani chovala, kugula mphatso.

Pasanapite nthawi, ganizirani za tchuthi. Kodi zidzakhala zotani - masewero a kunyumba, masewera, kuyang'ana katoto, masewero ndi zidule zenizeni? Lembani zolembazo nokha, kapena kupeza malo omwe mungasankhe mafunso, masewera, mpikisano, ana oyenerera zaka.

Onetsetsani kuti muwafotokozere ana ngati mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena mwana wanu wamkazi atsimikiza kuitana abwenzi ochokera "m'magulu" osiyanasiyana: anzawo a m'kalasi, ana ochokera ku sukulu ya nyimbo, zojambulajambula, gawo la masewera komanso oyandikana nawo kunyumba nthawi imodzi.

Ngati muwona kuti ana ayamba kusewera masewera a "amayi azimayi" kapena "makina-asilikali" musasokoneze, musawononge kampaniyo.

Koma ngati anawo ali otopa ndipo ayamba kuchita chinyengo, tengani zoyamba m'manja mwanu: pangani zojambulazo, pikani masewera. Mwachitsanzo, ana a zaka 4-7 ali ndi masewera osavuta koma osangalatsa:

Masewerawo "Kodi sichoncho?"
Konzani magwiritsidwe aang'ono ofewa pamaso pa ana. Mwanayo amakumbukira zomwe ziri patsogolo pake, kenako amatseka maso ake, panthawi ino munthu wamkulu amabisala imodzi mwazoseweretsa: "Kodi sichoncho?" Mwanayo ayenera kuganiza zomwe zatha. Mwana wamng'ono wazaka 4 asanayike anayi toyese, asanafike zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri - zisanu ndi ziwiri zapadera, ndi zina zotero.

Masewera "Gwirani mchira wa chinjoka"
Ana amaimirira mmodzi ndi mmodzi. Woyamba ndi mutu wa chinjoka, chotsiriza ndi mchira. Ana amafunika kuyendetsa bwalo kuti "mutu" atenge "mchira".

Masewerawo "Charades"
Ana, ngati ali anthu 6-8, adagawidwa m'magulu awiri. Gulu likulingalira mawu ndikuliuza kumvetsera kwa chitsogozo kuchokera ku gulu la adani. Ayenera kufotokozera "izo" kwa mamembala a gulu lake kuti alingalire mawuwo.

Musaiwale kukonzekera pasadakhale ndi mphoto - maswiti, beji kapena zolemba. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mphotho iyenera kukhala yofanana: simungapereke baluni ngati mphoto kwa imodzi, koma jeep pamagulu olamulira. Mphoto zosawerengeka zoterezi zingakhale nkhani yothetsa mkangano pakati pa ana.

Apo ayi, makolo a mnyamata wobadwira ayenera kuchita chimodzimodzi ngati akuluakulu abwera kunyumba: khalani omvetsera kwa aliyense, yesetsani kukondweretsa, ngati wina mwadzidzidzi anali wokhumudwa ndipo sanalowe mu kampaniyo. Mwa mawu, monga ndi akulu, ndi ana omwe ayenera kukhala ambuye ochereza alendo komanso ochereza alendo.