Chifukwa chiyanjano ndi anzako
Zifukwa za ubwenzi kapena abwenzi ndi oyandikana ndizofunikira, makamaka.
Choyamba, ngakhale nyumba yapadera sikuti imakupangitsani inu kukhala omasuka ndi anthu ena okhala mnyumbamo. Ngati mumakhala kanyumbamo, ndiye kuti pafupi ndi inu mukhala anthu omwe mwanjira inayake adzasokoneza moyo wanu. Angakhale ndi zizolowezi zomwe zingakulepheretseni. Mwachitsanzo, okonda nyimbo zomveka adzasokoneza m'mawa, ndi masana ndi madzulo, komanso mafilimu a makampani akulira. Odzikonda kwambiri komanso okhumudwitsa sangakulowetseni ufulu. Ngati mutapeza chinenero chofanana ndi iwo, nthawi zonse mumapempha kuti nyimboyo ikhale yochepa kwambiri kapena ikhale kutali ndi mawindo a chipinda chanu chokhalamo, osadandaula za zovuta zowonongeka.
Chachiwiri, oyandikana nawo angakhale othandiza pakuchita. Ngati mukufunikira kuchoka, iwo aziyang'anira nyumba kapena nyumba, kudyetsa phalati ndi kuthirira maluwa, kuitanitsa apolisi ngati awona munthu wokayikira pakhomo panu. Ndipo iwo adzangotaya madzulo awo ngati inu mwadzidzidzi mudzasokonezeka. Ziri zovuta kutsutsa mfundo yakuti ndi bwino kukhala mabwenzi ndi anzako. Sizingatheke kuti tichite izi, koma ndibwino kuyesa.
Momwe mungakhalire ndi kukhudzana
Chinthu choyamba chomwe mukufuna kuchita ndicho kudziŵa bwino. Pezani dzina ndi mbiri ya anansi anu, yesetsani kukumbukira ndipo musaiwale kunena hello. Kukhala ololera koyamba kumawathandiza kuyandikira ndi kusayipitsa choipa.
Onetsetsani kudziyang'anira nokha musanapange zofuna kwa ena. Ngati simukukonda zinyalala pamasitepe, nyimbo zomveka, zoopsa kapena matepi, musalole kuti chinthu chonga ichi chikhale choyamba. Ngati khalidwe lanu ndi losavomerezeka, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kufunsa oyandikana nawo kuti athandizidwe. Ngati inu nokha muli chifukwa cha kumutu kwa oyandikana nawo, ndiye musamayembekezere kuti adzakumane nanu.
Kuwonjezera apo, musananene kuti, ngakhale ngati mukuyenera, yesetsani kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino. Kuimbidwa mlandu ndi kunyozedwa si njira yabwino yothetsera munthu kusintha. Kungolongosola mozungulira kwa anansi anu kuti akuphwanya ufulu wa anthu ndipo izi zimakupatsani chisangalalo chokhutira chifukwa chake ndi zomwe mukupereka. Sikoyenera kuika zizindikirozo - oyandikana nawo samasowa kumvera inu, amatha kulangiza kuti apite kukhoti ndi zifukwa zanu, ndiye chifukwa cha nkhawa sichidzathetsedwa kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati mumasokonezedwa ndi mawu ofuula, fotokozani mwachidule kuti mukupumula, mukugwira ntchito kapena kungomva phokoso. Kawirikawiri anthu samafuna mwadzidzidzi kusokoneza, kotero amatha kumvetsera zopempha zanu.
Ngati pali vuto la inu nonse, nthawi zonse muwone njira zothetsera vutoli ndikufunseni ngati oyandikana nawo ali ndi malingaliro ena. Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kusamvana.
Ngati oyandikana nawo sali ndi mwayi, samapita kulankhulana, samamvetsera kuzipempha zanu, kutsogolera njira yosagwirizana ndi moyo, ndiye simungathe kuyankhula ndikukakamiza. Koma musapite kumalo osokonezeka ndi kumenyana - zonsezi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kukuvulazani mtsogolo. Ingokuitanani ku chipani chakumidzi ndikumupempha kuti afotokoze zakuyankhulana ndi anzako, kumene ufulu wanu ndi maudindo anu okhudzana ndi wina ndi mzake zidzatchulidwa. Ndipo kokha ngati njira yomaliza, yesetsani kukhoti kukonza mkangano.
Anzako ndi chilango kapena mphatso. Ndi ena timamenyana kwa zaka zambiri, ndi ena timakhala mabwenzi apamtima. Ndikhulupirire, palibe amene akufuna kukhala mwamtendere ndipo ngati anzako ali anthu abwino, ndiye kuti amafunanso kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Osauka ndi olemekezeka mudzakhala nawo kwa iwo, ubale wanu udzakhala wabwino. Ngati, poyesera kukhazikitsa chiyanjano, oyandikana nawo amayankha ndi osayanjanitsika, ndiye lankhulani muzamalonda komanso mwamtendere. Mwinamwake uwu ndi mtundu wa kuyankhulana womwe udzakwaniritse oyandikana nawo oyandikana nawo. Ndipo kumbukirani, aliyense wa inu ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi moyo wamtendere.