Nyumba iliyonse, banja lirilonse liri ndi malamulo ake osadziwika. Zapangidwa ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono, koma zimatidziŵa bwino kwambiri kuti popanda iwo timakhala osamva bwino komanso osasangalatsa. Mwinamwake kunyumba kwathu timachita mwambo wonsewu, popanda kulingalira. Koma, pamene wina ayesa kusintha njira yowakhazikika, munthu amayamba kukwiya ndikuyesera kuteteza njira yake ya moyo ndikukhala ndi moyo. Izi zimayambitsa mikangano yoyamba pa nthaka. Mwinamwake ngati mwamunayo nthawi yomweyo anakana kukhala ndi inu, ndiye akuwopa kutayika chikondi chanu chifukwa cha zigawenga zazing'ono, zomwe zingasandulike kukhala chipale chofewa chachikulu ndikuwononga chirichonse.
Munthu aliyense amadzimangira yekha moyo wake. Amatsuka mbale nthawi yomweyo kapena amawonjezera pa besamba kwa sabata imodzi, amatsuka pansi pogwiritsa ntchito chiguduli kapena alibe kalikonse popanda kuyeretsa konyowa, amakonzekera chakudya chimodzi kapena kuphika chakudya chonse kwa sabata. Pamene anthu awiri akuwoloka m'nyumba imodzi, akukula mosiyana, posakhalitsa, nyumbayo imayamba kumenyana. Mwinamwake mnyamata wanu amadziwa izi ndipo sadakonzekere kuyang'ana mphamvu ya ubalewu. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sadzafuna konse kuyamba moyo wokhudzana. Mwachidule, mnyamatayu amadziwa kuti n'zotheka ndi koyenera kuyembekezera nthawi. M'dera laling'ono lamkati, makamaka ngati chipinda chimakhala chipinda chimodzi, zimakhala zobvuta kubisa mkwiyo ndi kukwiya wina ndi mzake. Pali kumverera kuti mwatsekedwa, monga mbewa mu bokosi. Inu mulibe malo oti mupite kunja ndi kutaya kunja maganizo. Inde, mukhoza kuyenda mu mpweya wabwino. Koma, pamapeto pake, simudzatuluka nthawi zonse ndikumenyana. Nyumba ndi malo omwe, amafanana, amabisala ku mphepo zonse za moyo. Ndipo chifukwa chake nyumba yotereyi, yomwe aliyense akuyesera kuthawa. Matenda aumphawi ndi ochepa kwambiri kuposa mabodza komanso mabodza. Zimakhudzanso maubwenzi a anthu. Panali maulendo ambiri pamene pafupifupi mabanja abwino atasokonezeka atayamba kukhala pamodzi. Mwachidule, chikondi ndi chikondi pansi pa nyenyezi zakumwamba, izi, ndithudi, ndi zabwino kwambiri, koma kuti mukhale banja lamphamvu, izi ndi zokwanira. Pankhaniyi, mufunikanso kuleza mtima, chipiriro, nzeru komanso kuthekera nthawi zonse kupeza njira yotsutsana. Ngati anthu amadziwa kuti sanaphunzire momwe angachitire zimenezi, ndi bwino kubwezeretsa moyo wawo wokhudzana nawo.
Chifukwa china chokana kukhala pamodzi chingakhale ndalama. Mwinamwake mnyamatayo amadziwa kuti akhoza kudzipezera yekha komanso momwe angakhalire. Gwirizanitsani, chifukwa kuti mukakhale pamodzi, mukuyenera kukhala ndi ndalama zokwanira kuti muthe kulipira nyumba, chakudya, zovala, zipangizo ndi zina zambiri. Ngati mumamuyitana kuti azikhala naye yekha, mnyamatayo angamve kuti alibe nkhawa. Amuna enieni odzikuza samalola kukhala ndi mtsikanayo komanso chifukwa cha akaunti yake. Mwa njira zina, izi ndizophatikiza zawo, panthawi imodzimodzi ndi zochepa. Koma mulimonsemo, muyenera kumvetsa udindo wake. Komabe, amuna ndi ovuta kwambiri kugwirizanitsa ndi mfundo yakuti iwo ali ndi nthumwi ya kugonana kofooka.
Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri mbali zakuthupi zimathandiza kwambiri kuti mwanayo asakhale pamodzi. Choncho, musanapsetse mtima ndi kukwiya, yesani mkhalidwe wanu nokha. Ngati mukuphunzirabe ndipo mulibe ndalama zowonjezera, mungathe kupereka gawo lanu la ndalama polipira nyumba, kugula katundu ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe nthawi ndi nthawi zimakhala zofunika. Zimangowoneka choncho, kuti moyo wodziimira ndi wosavuta komanso waulere. Ndipotu, mwa njira zina, anthu ali ndi maudindo ambiri komanso zoletsedwa kuposa pamene tikukhala ndi makolo awo. Makolo, ndithudi, amathandiza ana awo ngakhale atayamba moyo wodziimira pawokha. Koma, ngati amakhala m'banja, munthu angadalire kuthandizidwa nthawi zonse, choncho, achinyamata akamaganiza kuti ndi akuluakulu komanso odziimira okha, makolo, monga lamulo, amawapatsa mpata woyesera okha. Ndichifukwa chake, kuti akhale yekha, munthu ayenera kukhala ndi ntchito yakhazikika ndi maphunziro. Zimakhala zovuta kuphatikiza mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku, ntchito ndi kuphunzira. Maphunziro, diploma, kubwezeretsa - zonsezi ndizo zikuluzikulu zomwe zimakhudza momwe timapindulira ndikumangika zovuta zapakhomo zosafunikira. Ndibwino kuti, ngati okwatirana osachepera munthu mmodzi sali wophunzira ndipo amasiya mapazi. Koma ngati mnyamata ndi mtsikana akuphunzirabe, kukhala pamodzi kungakhale chiyeso chovuta kwa iwo. Zili m'mikhalidwe yotere, nthawi zambiri mikangano yaikulu ndi kusagwirizana kumayamba. Dziweruzireni nokha, ndipo mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo ayenera kutenga gawoli, ndipo pa iwo ali kalembera ngongole yobwereka, kuphatikizapo mbewa yomwe imapachikidwa mu furiji. Pano pali chifukwa chabwino cha scandals.
Ngati mwamunayo nthawi yomweyo anakana kukhala ndi inu, mwinamwake amangomvetsa zovuta zonse za moyo wodziimira yekha ndipo safuna kuthamanga. Ndipo, mwinamwake, ubale wanu sunayambe kupita ku siteji pamene ndi nthawi yoganizira za sitepe yovuta. Inde, pali zochitikazo pamene anyamatawo sangathe kukula ndi kusiya makolo awo. Koma, apa funso ndilo, kodi mumasowa mwana wa mayi wamwamuna. Mulimonsemo, moyo wogwirizana ndi sitepe yaikulu. Choncho, ngati mnyamata amakana kupita kwa iye tsopano, ndi bwino kuganizira. Kodi ndinu okonzeka kukhala wamkulu komanso wodziimira?