Kodi mkazi ayenera kuchita chiyani chimene chinasiyidwa yekha? Kodi mungadzisamalire bwanji nokha ndi mwana wanu ngati mutagwira ntchito yotsika mtengo musanakwatirane kapena mwininyumba? Ambiri okwatirana amagawana. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe zimakhalira zomvetsa chisoni, kwa amayi ena gawo ili limakhala lolimbikitsa kwambiri pa njira yopita kudzizindikira, moyo wosangalatsa ndi wolemera. Ndikufuna kufotokoza nkhani ya mzanga yemwe anali wotere, koma osati wachitatu, koma munthu woyamba. Ndikukhulupirira, chitsanzo ichi kuchokera ku moyo weniweni mudzapeza nokha kuti ndiwothandiza komanso olimbikitsa.
"Pambuyo pa chisudzulo, ndinadziŵa mwamsanga kuti zingakhale zovuta kuti ndikhale ndi mwana wanga chifukwa cha malipiro a aphunzitsi anga. Makamaka kuyambira pamene ndinkakonda kukhala ndi moyo wapamwamba umene mwamuna wanga wakale adandipatsa. Kotero ine ndinayang'anizana ndi chowonadi: Ine ndikusowa kufunafuna ntchito yatsopano ndi zopindula zabwino.Kuti ndisataye nthawi, ndikufufuza, ndinaphunzira kuchokera kwa alembi-referent courses, ndikudziwa makompyuta, ndi kulimbitsa Chingelezi. Sindinganene kuti ndinasangalala ndi zonsezi. Ndinali wotsimikiza kuti luso lomwe ndinapeza panthawi iliyonse lidzakhala lothandiza kwa ine mtsogolo. Pasanapite nthawi ine ndinagwidwa ndi kampani ina yomwe sinamvetse kalikonse, koma imatchedwa mwamphamvu, yooneka bwino, ndipo bwana wake adawopa ulemu.
Uwu unali ntchito yanga yoyamba mu bizinesi, ndipo ndinali wokondwa kwambiri kuti ananditengera kumeneko. Inde, ndinkachita mantha kwambiri, ndipo ndinali ndi nkhawa ngati ndingathe kugwira ntchito zanga. Kupirira, ndi kophweka. Posakhalitsa ndinazindikira kuti sindinali kufuna kugwira ntchito pano komanso kuti ndingathe kuchita zambiri ndi makhalidwe anga otsogolera.
Pa nthawiyi, abwenzi anga anayamba ntchito yatsopano ya bizinesi ndikuyang'ana wokonzekera bwino kuti akhale mtsogoleri wa zamalonda. Pamene ndinapatsidwa ntchito imeneyi, ndinalibe malire kwa chimwemwe changa komanso kunyada kwanga. Uku ndiko kukula kwa ntchito, iyi ndi mwayi, ine ndithudi sindilephera! Ndidziwonetsa ndekha, m'mawa mphuno zanga zidzatha ndipo ndidzatha kudzipereka ndekha ndi mwana wanga! Ndizosangalatsa kuti anandiitana kuti ndikagwire ntchito ku kampani imodzi yophunzitsa, yomwe inali yofanana ndi mbiri yanga ndipo inandikhudza kwambiri pazinthu zamoyo, koma chiyembekezocho chinkawoneka patali kwambiri, ndipo malipiro enieni anali ochepa kwambiri.
Kotero ine ndinakhala mkazi weniweni wazamalonda. Poyamba ntchitoyo inandichotsa kwathunthu. Ine ndimadziwa bwino zofunikira za malonda, zolemba ndi zowerengera. Ndinaganiza, ndagwirizana, ndagwirizana - panthawi yoyamba ya bizinesi, panabuka mafunso ambiri ofulumira. Ndili ndi nthawi yokhazikika kwa abwenzi anga, ndinapita ku zojambula ku Milan, Rome, Venice, kukhazikitsidwa ndi osonkhana, katundu wosankhidwa, kumaliza mapangano. Zonsezi zinakhala zaka zingapo, mpaka zinayamba kudziwika bwino. Kenaka ndinayamba kuganizira zomwe ndili nazo lero ndi zomwe zidzandichitikire. Ndinavomera moona mtima kuti m'ntchito iyi ndimakopeka ndi kutchuka ndi kuthekera kwodzidalira. Nditachita bwino ndikukonza ndondomeko ndi kusintha ndondomeko yamalonda, ndithudi ndinayamba kumva kukhumudwa - kwa ine nthawi zonse kunali kofunika kuti ndichite nawo zinthu zosakondedwa. Inde, ndipo zovuta za ntchitoyi zinayamba kuwonekera mobwerezabwereza panali zosagwirizana ndi eni ake. Malingawo anali ochepa kwambiri. Malipiro anga sanandithandizire, monga kale, ndinafunika kusankha chinachake.
Ndipo mmalo mofunafuna ntchito ina yofanana, koma ndi ndalama zambiri, ndinaganiza zopeza njira yowunikira ndikupindula muzinthu zondikonda - ntchito zophunzitsa. Ndiyeno malipiro anga amasiku ano adagwa nthawi. Ndinatha kulipira ndekha maphunziro apamwamba, kuphunzira ndikupeza ntchito mu kampani yosiyana, komwe ndinakumana nazo mu bizinesi, komanso chidziwitso chatsopano, ndipo, ndithudi, luso langa lophunzitsa, linalowa bwino.
Ndipo ngakhale tsopano sindiri mtsogoleri wa zamalonda, ndimamva bwino pamalo a mphunzitsi wa kampani yophunzitsa, ndalama zanga zimandilanditsa mwangwiro ndipo mtima wanga umakondwera tsiku lirilonse la ntchito, ngakhale ngati siliri lopanda mtambo :) "
Kumbukirani, pa msinkhu uliwonse womwe mungaphunzire, khalani ndi kudziyesa nokha. Phunzirani kusintha zosiyana siyana, khulupirirani mphamvu zanu ndi luso lanu! Ndizofunikira kwa aliyense wa inu, chifukwa moyo umasintha komanso wosadziŵika.