1. Munthu yemwe ali ndi inu ali ndi chidwi chogonana.
Zonse ndi zosavuta, ngati mukufunadi munthu, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wokhala wokondedwa. Ndipotu, kukopeka ndi chilakolako choyamba cha kugonana kwa banja, koma mosakayikira mbali ya wosankhidwayo ndi chikhumbo cholimba sizitsimikizo kuti amakukondani. Mwachidule, kugonana kwa mwamuna ndi njira yodzipangira nokha ndi kukwaniritsa chikhalidwe cha kusaka. Kawirikawiri, mwamuna akafuna kugonana ndi mkazi, amangosiya chidwi chake.
2. Mwamuna akufunafuna kugwirizana kwauzimu.
Mwamuna amamva kufunika kokambirana ndi inu, wina wogwiritsa ntchito foni kapena ICQ. Mwamuna aliyense angayambe kuitana, kulemba, kumvetsera ndi kulankhula zambiri za iye mwini. Anthu onse amasonyeza zizindikiro zosiyana siyana za inu, wina anganene mawu okondana, winayo apanga mphatso yamtengo wapatali. Ngati munthu akumva ludzu lanu, osati thupi lanu, amamvetsera mawu anu, maganizo anu, munganene kuti ali ndi chikondi.
3. Mwamuna amakulowetsani mu moyo wake.
Oimirira a munda wolimba ndi zovuta kwambiri alola akazi kulowa mu malo awoawo. Ndipo chilichonse chimawonedwa ngati kuyesa ufulu wawo. Koma ngati munthu akukukhudzani inu mu malo ake, ndiye, mosakayikira, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha chikondi. Samalani ngati akulolani kuti muphike ndi kusamba zovala zonyansa, musati mutenge ngati chiwonetsero cha chikondi kuchokera kwa munthu. Khalidweli lingathe kuwonetsa kuti mwamuna ndi waulesi kwambiri kuti azisamba ndi kudzipangira yekha. Ndipo pamene munthu sakuyang'ana paulonda wake, koma akukupemphani kuti mukhale naye nthawi yayitali, akukupemphani kuti mukhale pamodzi, ndiye akulowetsani mu moyo wake, ndipo ichi ndi chizindikiro cha chikondi.
4. Kwa inu, mwamuna ndi wokonzeka kupereka nsembe.
Kuyanjana kulikonse kumafuna, zonse kuchokera kwa mkazi, zonse, ndi chifukwa cha kukonzekera kwa munthu kukonzana wina ndi mzake, kuvomereza kwina. Ngati mwamuna amayamikira kukhalapo kwanu ndipo ali m'chikondi, ndiye chifukwa cha inu akhoza kusiya makhalidwe ena ake, komanso kuchokera kwa abwenzi ake. Mwamuna yemwe ali mu chikondi akhoza kupereka nsembe zake, malo pa kompyuta, koma musamachitire nkhanza izo.
5. Munthuyo amakuganizirani.
Ndi ichi, chirichonse chiri chophweka. Ngati munthu amasintha maganizo anu, amakondwera pamene mutha kudabwa, kuteteza, yesani kuganiza zokhumba zanu, kenako khalani chete, ichi ndi chizindikiro chosonyeza chikondi. Ngati zonsezi zilipo, khalani otsimikiza kuti munthuyo alibe chidwi.
6. Munthu samakupweteka.
Mwamuna sangakupwetekeni pa cholinga. Zidzakhala zosagwirizana ndi khalidwe la munthu wachikondi, iye sangakugwiritse ntchito. Ndi za nkhanza zodziwika, kuchititsidwa manyazi nthawi zonse, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ya thupi. Amayi ambiri amasankha kusamvetsetsa nkhanza zonse, ngati pali mantha a kutaya mwamuna. Zovuta zoterezi, poyandikira pafupi zimasonyeza kukoma mtima kwakukulu ndipo chifukwa cha maminiti awa amayi ali okonzeka kuiwala manyazi ndi kupweteka. Onetsetsani, ngati mwamuna ayang'ana misozi yanu mosasamala, ndiye kuti sakusakondwani nanu.
Musaiwale za chidziwitso chanu , chifukwa kudzera mwa chidziwitso, mungathe kupeza ngati mwamuna wanu amakukondani, ngakhale atakonzeka kuti akambirane, kapena sakudziwa momwe angasonyezere malingaliro ake. Khulupirirani zambiri za intuition yanu. Tingawone bwanji ngati mwamuna ali ndi chikondi kapena osati m'chikondi, tikhoza kuchipeza ndi zizindikiro zisanu ndi chimodzi, ndipo, pogwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ichi, tingathe kumvetsetsa ngati tikhala ndi munthu uyu kapena ayi.