Momwemonso mungathe kufotokozera lero mawu otchuka okhudza ufulu. Ndiponsotu, kupambana kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi moyo wapamwamba, ndi miyala yopita ku ufulu - mkati ndi kunja. Kodi tingachite bwanji kuti nthawi yogwira ntchito, yomwe ili gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a moyo wathu, sakuwoneka wotopetsa kapena wataya kwa ife? Momwe mungayankhire bwino, kuti gawo ili la moyo liwala?
N'CHIFUKWA CHIYANI NTCHITO YONSE ICHITA
Mawu odabwitsa a funso - mumanena. Ndipotu, yankho lake ndi pafupifupi onse. Ntchito - gwero la kukhalapo, kudzizindikira nokha, komanso mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wokondweretsa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti zochitika za kunja, zomveka zokhumba zathu kwa anthu onse ziri zofanana, koma apa pali chifukwa chachikulu kapena, monga momwe akatswiri a maganizo amaganizira, othandizira zolinga ndizosiyana kwambiri.
Ndipo popeza chikole cha ntchito iliyonse (yomwe ili ntchito yabwino) ndilo kulongosola kolondola vutoli, tiyeni tiyang'ane pa otsogolerawa atasungunuka tsiku ndi tsiku mwatsatanetsatane. Pamapeto pake, iwo amalamula zolinga zenizeni za khalidwe lathu m'zochitika zonse za moyo, popanda zosiyana. Ndipo (monga onse omwe ali ndi luso lachinsinsi) amachitira zinthu mobisa komanso mobisa, nthawi zambiri kubisala kwathunthu. Choncho, sitepe yoyamba yopambana pa moyo ndi kuzindikira kuti zolinga ziri ...
Chisamaliro ndi chosadziwika
Ndife oyamba kuyendetsa, ndithudi, tokha. Chachiwiri, monga momwe mwaganizira kale, tithandizeni. Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani zodziwika bwino zodzikuza, pamene anthu omwe ali ndi vuto linalake amauzidwa kuti minofu idzagwidwa, ndiye kuti adakhudza kokha ndi manja awo. Pakali pano, khungu limasonyeza chithunzi chosiyana ndi singano. Izi zikutanthauza kuti chikumbumtima chanu sichikhulupirira sitiroko, koma chidziwitso chimatenga chirichonse chomwe chimamunong'oneza, pamtengo wapatali. Inde, mungatsutsane kuti simunamizedwe konse. Chabwino, ndiye, chikumbumtima chako chimangobisika mozama, mobisa kwambiri. Ndipo, monga mukudziwira, zingathetseretu zolinga zenizeni za khalidwe lanu, kuphatikizapo kukonzekera zolinga zanu pa ntchito yomwe ili yabwino.
Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani izi: mwalembetsa maphunziro a Chisipanishi, omwe ndi ofunika kwambiri kuti mupite patsogolo ntchito. Koma kupita kumeneko nditatha tsiku lovuta, kudutsa mumzinda wonse, pamsewu wamisewu, kuzizira ndi mvula, mwinamwake osasangalala kwambiri. Zosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa maganizo a masokosi ofunda, chofunda chofewa ndi sangweji ya nthano zitatu. Chisamaliro chimalira za kufunikira kotsegula ambulera ndi kumangokhalira kufufuza; Chikumbumtima, chimene nthawi zambiri timazitcha kuti ulesi, chimabwera ku maswiti komanso pamatope. Mwatsoka, zimakhala zovuta kukambirana ndi chidziwitso monga ndi mnzako, nthawi zambiri zimakhala mogwirizana ndi malamulo a mwana wamng'ono wosasinthika. Ndi bwino kunena izi "mdani wosaonekayo" monga chonchi: "Ndithandizeni kupita ku maphunziro (lembani lipoti la chitatu, kambiranani kwambiri ndi wofuna chithandizo) - azimayi a chokoleti (Ndigula diresi, ndimamwa nawo zakudya zomwe ndikuzikonda)." Koma monga chidziwitso chitha kugonjetsa tsikuli mvula yodzidzimutsa, pamene iwe, podziwa bwino za kupambana kwa woyamba pa yachiwiri, kupita mwakhama kunyumba, zimatha kukusokonezani komanso kuti mukhale ndi zolinga zazikulu bwanji. Izi zikutanthauza chinthu chimodzi chofunikira kwambiri: mwinamwake cholinga (pa mayesero ake onse) ndi cholakwika. Izi ndizo, nthawi zambiri timanena ndi kuzindikira chinthu chimodzi, pamene timamva ndikutanthauza chinachake chosiyana. Kuzindikira zokhumba zanu zowona kale ndi theka la kupambana. Komabe, tibwerera ku izi mtsogolo. Panthawiyi, tiyeni tiyankhule za zolinga zina. Zomwe ...
Munthu ndiyekha
Tangoganizani kuti mwadzidzidzi mungakonzekere kusiya ntchito yanu yomwe mukupita nayo ku ofesi ya panyumba yanu ndikuchita zomwe mwakhala mukulota, mwachitsanzo, pophunzitsa kuyenda pa Nyanja Yofiira. Kapena luso la Feng Shui. Kapena kutsegula kokale, koma ngati sikusangalatsa kuwonjezera pa ntchito yanu (yoyenera pamaso pa malo anu, koma ndinu okalamba kwa nthawi yaitali). Ndipo tsopano mundiwuze za chisankho chanu kwa amzake ndi abwenzi, ndipo pobwezera mumakhala kulira kwachisoni kapena zitsimikizo kuti ntchito yatsopanoyi sizongopeka chabe yomwe ingakukakamizeni kuchoka ku moyo wodalirika ndikuyendayenda padziko lonse lapansi. Monga zotsutsana, mutha kutulutsa ma batri onse a "zokondera," makamaka ngati m'banja muli ndi udindo kwa wina. Tangoganizirani, ndi inu amene mungasonyeze zozizwitsa za kudziletsa ndipo simudzakana kukonza dongosolo lokonzanso moyo. Komabe, ambiri, tsoka, osalandira chithandizo chochokera kunja, mtundu wa "kusokoneza chikhalidwe", ndipo amawombera m'malo. Zolondola chifukwa chakuti maganizo osadziŵa, owopsya, "amayesa mchira," ndipo chidziwitso cholimba ndi chosasunthika sichitha kuchichotsa pomwepo. Potero, monga momwe mukuonera, zolinga zathu zonse ndi zaumwini, zomwe zikugwirizana ndi ziyembekezo za anthu ambiri m'dera lanu. Ndipo zotsirizazo, ngakhale zitsanzo zoperekedwa, sizikhala ndi zifukwa zosayenera. Udindo ukhoza kukhazikika pakati pa anthu, zomwe zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri zomwe zimafuna kutsimikiziridwa nthawi zonse kapena kutsutsa maluso anu ndi zochitika zomwe zili kale pamtundu wa anthu onse, osati pafupi ndi anzanu. Uwu ndiwo ntchito zambiri za anthu - masewera ndi mafilimu, zolemba, ndale.
Chabwino, tsopano ndi nthawi yoti mugwe pansi kuti muyankhule za chinthu chofala komanso chosasinthika monga ndalama. Ndipo kotero zolinga zathu zimagawidwa momveka bwino ...
Zinthu zakuthupi komanso zosakhala zofunikira
Dziwani: zenizeni ndikuti tonse tinathera m'kuwonetsa kwa anthu ogulitsa. Mwamwayi, ufulu wodzisankhira malo omwe mungagwire - mukuyenda mwakhama pa phwando lamtengo wapatali kwambiri kapena osayang'ana kunja kunja - palibe amene simunachotsepo.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, alipo pakati pathu omwe amafunikira mbali yowala ya moyo. Kumene ndalama zimakhala zofunikira kuti thupi liziyenda bwino kapena kuganiza bwino, kapena kukhala ndi chitetezo. Kwa ena, mmalo mwa magulu a ndalama, zosiyana zosiyana, ntchito, kunena, kutsimikizirika pamaso mwa luso lawo, malingaliro kapena nsembe yowazungulira, kuthekera kwa kudzidzimadziza.
KUWERENGA MLALA WA LIE
Inde, ngati muwerenga mabuku osangalatsa pamasewero a psychology, ndiye kuti zolinga zidzapezeka zambiri. Komabe, ambiri mwa iwo sagwiritsidwa ntchito pomanga ntchito, choncho tidzasiya nthawi yomwe ili pamwambapa. Tsopano tiyeni tipite ku bizinesi. Zonse zomwe mukusowa ndi pepala lopanda kanthu, malingaliro ndi zowona mtima ndi umunthu wanu wamkati. Choncho, gawani pepalayi muzitsulo zitatu. Kumanzere kumanzere, lembani zolinga zonse zomwe mukuzifuna, kufunafuna ntchito, kapena kufotokozerani zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa pamalo opatsidwa. Ndipo muwongolere ndendende momwe mumakonda kunena: "Ndikufuna malo ochititsa chidwi, kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro, bonasi yowonjezereka ya Chaka Chatsopano, maulendo a bizinesi ku ofesi ya nthambi yathu ku Paris kapena pachilumba cha Borneo."
Kwa chigawo chapakati, ntchitoyo ndi yovuta kwambiri. Ndiye yesetsani kupanga malingaliro anu enieni pa ntchito. Inde, ntchito iyi, mwachiwonekere, siyi ya mphindi zisanu. N'kutheka kuti nkhaniyi idzayamba kugwedezeka pamutu mwanu, ndikupereka zosiyana - ntchito yanu ndikuwonetsa zonsezi pamapepala. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe inu munali odzipereka kwambiri ndi inu nokha. N'zoona kuti nthawi zina sizovuta kuvomereza kuti, zomwe mumachita, mumakonda kwambiri ndalama. Kapena kuti mukufuna kupukuta mphuno ya bwenzi lanu lakale, mukumuwonetsera iye mu fanizo la mkazi wamalonda wopambana mwa njira iliyonse. Kapena_kuti mutenge malo omwe mnzanu wa M., odedwa ndi inu pa zifukwa zambiri, akudzinenera, ndiyeno kuponya phwando panthawiyi ndi M., ndithudi, kuitanira. Ziri bwino, kuti muzimveka zinthu zotere ngakhale kwa inu nokondedwa, mwinamwake mukuchititsa manyazi. Koma, ndikukhulupirirani, ndi bwino kuposa kudutsa mu mdima wa moyo-ma beacons, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mutavomereze kuti simunachitepo konse ndipo mwalakwitsa.
Mu gawo lachitatu, yesetsani kudziwa kuti ndi magulu atatu ati omwe akugwirizana ndi cholinga chanu. Ndipo, monga tanena kale, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala woona mtima momwe zingathere ndi wekha. Kunena zoona, kuwona mtima mu moyo, monga lamulo, ndiko kupambana kopambana ndipo, pomalizira pake, malo abwino. Kuzindikira cholinga chanu chenicheni ndi nthawi yofunikira kwambiri kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutayamba kuona kuti chokhumba chanu chenichenicho sichiyenera kuchitika, koma kuti mutsimikize chinachake pambali mwa munthuyo, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuganiza kachiwiri - sizinaperekanso nsembe yopambana yomwe imabweretsedwa ku guwa lachabechabe. Kodi si nthawi yakuika mfuti ya nkhondo, "lolani" kukhumudwitsa ndikuchita zomwe zimakondweretsa inu. Kotero cholinga chaching'ono ichi ndi chosapweteka nthawi zonse ndikumvetsetsa cholinga chomwe mukufuna kuchita. Ndi ndani mwa iwo omwe akukukhudzani - osati makolo, abwenzi, mwamuna, anthu, omwe ndi inu nokha omwe mwakhala okondwa.
Ikani TARGET
Podziwa zofunikira, nkofunikanso kukumbukira kuti cholinga choyenera chiyenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe ambiri. Ziyenera kukhala:
1. Zosatheka
Ndizosatheka kukhala supermelel ndi magawo osagwirizana (ngakhale pano pakhoza kukhala zosiyana zochepa, kunena, zovala zodzaza). Ndicho chifukwa chake talente yanuyi ikukhudzidwa. Tiyerekeze kuti mukufuna kupeza ndalama zambiri. Malo abwino kwambiri awa ndi bizinesi ndi zamalonda zamalonda. Koma ngati mulibe chizoloŵezi chochita izi, ndiye kuti muli ndi zifukwa zina zomwe simungapite kutali. Mwinamwake inu mudzakhala ogwira ntchito kwambiri mmunda wa mautumiki apamalonda - osati opindulitsa kwambiri. Ndifunikanso kufufuza mozama za thanzi lanu ndikupatsanso malingaliro pa ntchito yomwe mukufuna kuchita.
2. Kutanthauzira nthawi
Zilibe kanthu kuyembekezera kuti mbiri yanu ya ntchito idzasintha mwa masabata angapo. Tiyeni tiwone motere: Nthawi yabwino yopezera ntchito kwa achinyamata ofunafuna ntchito kuphatikiza ntchito ndi kuphunzira ndi chaka chimodzi. Ntchitoyi muyesoyi iyenera kuonedwa ngati pulogalamu yoyenera kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso osati zopereka zambiri. Ngati mutaphunzira sukulu ndikufunafuna chinachake cholonjeza kapena mutangokhalira kugonjetsa ntchito, ndiye akatswiri amalangizi a zamalonda akukulimbikitsani kulemba ndondomeko ya bizinesi kwa zaka zitatu zotsatira. Ndipo kutsogoleredwa ndi mawu awa.
3. zokondweretsa
Chomwe chilankhulo cha odziwa bwino chidziwitso chimatanthauza - kulimbikitsa kuti apambane. Kotero muyenera kubwereranso ku mndandanda wanu wapachiyambi, kuwuwerenganso, ndi kuzindikira zolimbikitsa zomwe zimakupangitsani kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti "pluses" ndi motto yamoto, monga "tchuthi pazilumba za Polynesia" - ziribe kanthu. Lembani tsamba ili pamalo otchuka monga chiwembu cha mwayi, pofotokoza pulofesa wa Pulofesa Stanford Michael Ray kuti: "Mfundo zazikulu zitatu za ntchito yopambana: kukhala mosangalala, momasuka ndi chisangalalo kuchokera kuntchito." Komabe, malangizo othandizawa angagwiritsidwe ntchito pazochitika zonse zapadera popanda kuganiza, simukuganiza?