"O, posachedwa padzakhala bingu pakati pa mlengalenga momveka bwino ..." - mukuwona, kuyang'ana njira yomwe bwana rushes akupita patsogolo panu, ngati chiwombankhanga choopsa, mwamsanga akuponya: "Bwerani ku ofesi yanga !!!". Koma nthawi zina zimachitika kuti zizindikiro za mkwiyo wamphamvu kwambiri siziwonekera ... Ngakhale ngati mwana, tinakumbidwa kuti tipereke chilango, osati kuphunzitsa. Ndi chifukwa chake kuti nsidze za mkuphizi zimabweretsa mantha ndi chisokonezo. Tiyeni tikambilane izi zonse m'maso.
Petrel of Anger
Mkhalidwe # 1: "Kotero chikondi chinadutsa ..."
Nthawi zina munthu wamba amakhala ndi moyo "mu moyo": amatha kukambirana momveka bwino pazokambirana za kapu (ngakhale ndondomeko yake yomwe silingakhudze mapulani a ntchito), pamodzi kuti awonongeke ndikukwera. Mu mawu, kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, kupeza zolembera ku zovuta zonse. Koma pa nthawi ina zonse zimatha kutha. Bwana akuyamba kuchoka ndikuyika mzere pakati pa "pansi" ndi "bwana", akugwira nthawi yomwe zokambiranazo zikukulirakulira komanso zovuta kwambiri. Kodi ndizowona kuti muthamangitsidwa?
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Vutoli nthawi zambiri limakhala lodziwika ndi anthu omwe amalenga: anthu oterewa amadziwika ndi kuwonjezeka maganizo ndi kuzindikirika kwa nyengo ya maganizo yomwe ikulamulira kuntchito. Kuyambira izi zikuwonekeranso kuti chisangalalo cha "chikondi" chokhacho chingalowe m'malo mwa kuthedwa nzeru kwathunthu ndi "maganizo osatha". Tiyeni tiyesetse kufotokozera mkhalidwewu mwatsatanetsatane. Choyamba, amapita kuntchito kuti achite bizinesi, osakhala abwenzi komanso kuti asayambe "kukondana"! Ndipo kachiwiri, demokarase sichifanana ndi rapprochement. Powona momwe mumakhalira okoma ndi akuluakulu, anzanu akufunanso chimodzimodzi. Ndibwino kuti mukuwerenga chilango. Ndicho chifukwa mutuwo ukuyesera kubwereranso (atonchnee akuyika) m'malo mwanu.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Inde, pitirizani kuwonjezera ntchito! Ndipo musalowe mu nkhani yovuta yokhudza ubale wabwino ndi bwana. Ndipo za tsogolo, ziyenera kuganiziridwa kuti ubale weniweni ndi bwana umabwera kwa iye mwini!
Mkhalidwe Wachiwiri: "Ato her, atu!"
Ambiri aife timadziwa bwino izi pamene mubwera kuntchito "kunja kwa msewu", kuphunzira mwangozi za mpikisano kunatsegula mwayi watsopano. Ovomerezeka ndi utsogoleri wapamwamba pakukwanira kwanu ndi kukwanilitsa, mumadutsa mu "midzi ya gehena", yotchedwa kuyankhulana. Koma bwana wanu wapamtima anakumana nanu mwachisangalalo ndipo amadziwa. Ndipo panopa mukulephera kugwira ntchito kuntchito, ndipo zonse zomwe mwachita zimapangitsa kuti ndikutsutseni mwamsanga ndikukumana ndi mgodi wa acidic. Inde, komanso chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe amam'tamanda, tawonani, osati inu, antchito a Avashi! Kodi chifukwa cha maganizo amenewa ndi chiyani? Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kodi vutoli lingathetsedwe bwanji?
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Inde, simungakhoze kuyembekezera kuti muyankhule za chiyero: pakuti bwana wotereyo masewera a "chete" ndi mtundu wa "kupulumuka" kwa wantchito amene sakondwera. Mwa njira, ndani angakhale katswiri wodziwa bwino, kotero kuti kuchotsedwa kwake sikuloledwa. Zimene inu simunasangalale nazo bwana ndi zovuta kufotokozera. Mwinamwake inu munangoyenda pa chisa chomwe chinakonzedwera wina?
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? N'zosatheka kuti mutha kumanga ntchito yanu kuno. Ndi bwino kuti inu muyang'ane "malo osungira ndege" mofanana. N'zotheka, ndithudi, kutumiza nkhondo yachigawenga motsutsana ndi mdani, koma zotsatira zake, monga lamulo, sizikudziwika. Ngati muli okhutira ndi malipiro anu, yesetsani kupitiliza, ngakhale mukupweteka kwa bwana wanu. Bweretsani malingaliro anu onse bwino kuti muzisunga nthawi zabwino: tsiku lidzabwera pamene mudzatha kuwazindikira, ndipo utsogoleri wapamwamba udzakuthandizani.
Mkhalidwe Wachigawo 3: "Kuyesera Kumsewu"
Pali zifukwa pamene maganizo anu kuchokera kwa abwana ndi osavuta: inu mwaikidwa ntchito zonse zofunika, ndi zina zotero. Koma ndi "mwadzidzidzi" omwe abwana anu ayamba kulamulira mwamphamvu: nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumalongosola zomwe muyenera kuchita komanso nthawi yeniyeni, fufuzani zifukwa ndi kumene mwapita kwa mphindi zisanu. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi maso, mwachitsanzo, kukhala ndi chidwi ndichinyengo ichi. Kodi nchiyani chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri cha kukana kwakukulu kokhulupirira?
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Mwinamwake mudziwa nokha chomwe chiri chifukwa cha khalidwe losinthika la bwana, za munthu wanu: inu mwangodalirika kokha. Nchifukwa chiani ichi chinachitika? Ngati chikumbumtima chanu chili bwino, samalani kwa anzanu. Mwina mmodzi wa iwo akufuna kutenga malo anu? Kapena kodi malo anu amangokhala ndi nsanje? Pano palinso kumvetsera, kuti, mwachitsanzo, mumapezekanso pamodzi wa maphwando apikisano.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Kuyesera kutsimikizira kapena kukwiya sikokwanira kuthandizira. Njira yabwino kwambiri ndi kudziyerekezera kuti simunazindikire chilichonse. Chitani onse onyoza, kudzichepetsa. Monga momwe chiwonetsero cha moyo chimasonyezera, kutsimikizira mu kuwona mtima kwanu, zizindikiro zonse zoopsya zidzatha paokha.
Mkhalidwe Wachinayi: "Akufa ali ndi zibangili ataima. Ndipo chete ... "
Mu ofesi pali kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuchepetsa. Koma nthawi zonse mumatha kupirira ntchito yanu ndi nthawi yoperekera ku desiki. Koma mtsogoleriyo nthawi zonse amapewa kukumana nanu, komanso pamsonkhanowo, kulankhulana ndi mano ake ndikuyesera kuthamangira msanga.
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Sitikukhudzana ndi zotsatira zanu zokha, koma mumagulu a gulu. Ndipo inu, mukuweruza zomwe bwanayo anachita, mmodzi mwa omwe akufuna kuti apite. Kotero, inu mukufunikirabe kusintha kusinthasintha kwa mtundu uliwonse.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Kodi muli ndi ntchito yabwino? Ino ndi nthawi yoliimba mokweza. Thandizani zokambiranazo ndi chiwonetsero chomwe chimatsimikizira kufunika kwa bungwe ndipo chiri patsogolo. Nthawi zina zimalimbikitsa kukula kwa ntchito!
"Mvula yamkokomo kumayambiriro kwa May"
Kodi mkwiyo wa mfumu ndi woipa nthawi zonse? Pambuyo pake, pambuyo pa mkuntho, chirichonse, monga ulamuliro, chirichonse chikukulirakulira: mawu ndi zonena zimamveketsa mlengalenga. Pano pali mfundo iyi yomwe muyenera kutsatira malamulo ena omwe angakuthandizeni mkuntho kuona dzuŵa:
Kanizani kwathunthu choonadi . Chifukwa cha ichi, mumasonyeza kunyada kwanu ndikuyang'anitsitsa abwana osagwira ntchito.
Akukhala ndi mawu ofera chikhulupiriro . Mtsogoleriyo angasankhe kuti simukuchita vybich kuti muyambe kuyendetsa bwino. Ndi bwino kusonyeza chidwi pakukonza vutoli.
Ikani miyendo ya mapepala . Musapepesane nthawi zonse. Ndipo bwino yesetsani kufotokozera zomwe muyenera kuziganizira. Mwa njira, ngati muwona kuti bwana akulakwitsa, mwa njira yayikulu ndikumuuza mwaulemu za izo.
Tanthauzirani kwa ena . Izi sizonyansa chabe, komanso zimakhala zosasamala. Komanso, gulu lonse lidzakulemekezani.
Ndipo otsiriza. Timayesetsa kuti tisawononge bwana wa chekabinet mosamala, koma amithenga akunja amakhulupirira kuti kutsutsidwa nthawi zonse n'koyenera. Ndi iye amene amatha kulimbikitsa munthu ku zitukuko zatsopano. "Amandidandaula, zikutanthauza kuti ndimatha kukhala wamkulu kwambiri!" Iwo akunena. Kodi kungakhale koyenera ife ndikuyesera kutenga maganizo awo kwa mkwiyo wa mfumu?